Because these dudes are fukked in the head by toxic manosphere content and PUA hustlers from a young age. They've grown up raised by the worst people on the internet. They're bringing forum advice into the real world and reaping the results.
That kind of oversimplifies the situation. If it was a scenario where the women are in abundance and socially available/receptive, then simply going outside is the solve.
Usually the simple approach is the best approach. I think brehs overcomplicate dating instead of actually getting to know the women. But It's a matter of perspective. Maybe I'm speaking from a place of privilege but it wasn't always like this. I used to be uncomfortable approaching and talking to women until I realized the worst they can say is no. The next stage was stop pursuing them strictly for sex and it becomes extremely simple. But I also was outside before social media and all this opinion pieces started polluting people's minds. But my thing is that people say the game is rigged or not worth participating in but they're using 2nd/3rd hand knowledge they see and hear and not even experienced themselves. Just trauma bonding. Like I said I don't mind the brehs that quit dating more power to you. But it's disingenuous and corny when you're still complaining about dating or picking stories to justify why you don't try. It shows that you actually do care you just don't have the gumption or backbone to stick your neck out and actually put in effort.That kind of oversimplifies the situation. If it was a scenario where the women are in abundance and socially available/receptive, then simply going outside is the solve.
That doesn’t seem to be the case so the pushback is understandable
Well I think that’s two different groups. Yes if someone isn’t actively “trying” then that’s hard to justify. For those that are, I see there point in that “trying” is not as fruitful because of the current landscape.
Cause we at the same market. I’m over here eating at the deli and y’all telling me you starving and there’s no food in here
No different than all the lies that men were telling in the decades before too
You right, but they had to figure out themselves because they have no OGs/older male guidance.
Breh this is facts. These as a young millennial borderline gen z breh I have witnessed the shift. Young dudes if they do even approach are asking for women's Instagrams instead of their number.
These young heaux are dumb ASF tho. If these ybs were a little smarter, they wouldn't have to jump thru hoops for the average club whoore. They don't have any guidance and consider 25+ y/o men to be uncsThese young cats do have it bad, I couldn't imagine having to come up in this era
Facts
They go straight to “let me get the grams”Breh this is facts. These as a young millennial borderline gen z breh I have witnessed the shift. Young dudes if they do even approach are asking for women's Instagrams instead of their number.
We had Instagram but that was something a chick gave you when she wasnt interested so you could up her follower count.
These folks have allowed social media to replace an essential thing like a phone number to communicate. Everything is online smh.
