I don't like how they are coming at you about your issues with your father thats not cool but they are coming at you because youre trying to downplay the issues that they are going through while being in no way shape or form involved in those issues. You're married and have been for a while. This is akin to one of us telling our parents that racism is worse today than it was in their day without ever experiencing it. I think if you were not with your wife and were on the dating scene right now you'd not necessarily have the same mindset but more of an understanding where some of the brehs are coming from in here. You may not necessarily agree but you'd understand them.
Nah, stupid, ignorant and unempathetic people don't deserve any grace from me. It's much deeper than dating why I hope Ryze continues to live a life of misery obsessed with people just unhinged as him and act as if he's leading the rally cry and not wasting the prime of his life fighting what isn't meant to be beaten
I'm not saying there is no problem with dating as it were, far from it.
I'm coming from the perspective of someone who was
fat
wore glasses
and short
and still got what I wanted.
Why is that?
I never 1) gave up 2) never reduced my worth as a man for a piece of ass.
Men AND Women have excuse after excuse for why shyt ain't working for them, and they're so self-absorbed, so deluded in their aspirations they don't stop and think:
Are my expectations realistic?
Am I even fun to be around?
Caring about what bytch is popping on social media or somebody timeline, when you not in them circles, is a waste of time a man can be spent bettering himself, not just to find a woman, but to be a full, actualized human being.
And there are women out there, who are looking for that.
If the apps ain't working, you have options to get a chick.
Whether you trying to run through or settle down is a different weight class entirely.