Only a fatherless idiot would be against having a submissive wife.

[The BasedFather]

Watch some chicks come in here and say, "you just can't handle a strong woman like me"

I'm a very good provider, I have my own business, my own house, etc. I hold up my end of the deal, I'm pretty traditional. I like women who are traditional as well. Wifey may not agree with me 100% on every topic but she respects me as a man and has never tried to belittle me, she trusts me to take care of business because she knows I will. Even when we were dating she knew men like me care about looks, cooking abilities, if she's good with kids, etc. None of that loudmouth bragging about "I'm educated, I got a degree, etc" while having 50k student debt. A lot of chicks these days love to argue for no reason under the guise of "keeping it 100", think having a degree or two should automatically land them a certain type of man, etc. Accomplishments are a bonus but I'm a man, that's not first on the list to me, I don't care how many degrees u have, and if you don't like gender roles fine but I do im not for this role reversal shyt where the woman bosses the man around and talks shyt to him and takes it because he needs her financial contribution to survive

This is how it should be.

 

[Ashley Banks]

so you're either submissive doormat or combative?

I'm neither

 

[Stuntone]

so you're either submissive doormat or combative?

I'm neither

No. No one said it's either or.

Smart men can tell which women have problems with being led.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Watch some chicks come in here and say, "you just can't handle a strong woman like me"

I'm a very good provider, I have my own business, my own house, etc. I hold up my end of the deal, I'm pretty traditional. I like women who are traditional as well. Wifey may not agree with me 100% on every topic but she respects me as a man and has never tried to belittle me, she trusts me to take care of business because she knows I will. Even when we were dating she knew men like me care about looks, cooking abilities, if she's good with kids, etc. None of that loudmouth bragging about "I'm educated, I got a degree, etc" while having 50k student debt. A lot of chicks these days love to argue for no reason under the guise of "keeping it 100", think having a degree or two should automatically land them a certain type of man, etc. Accomplishments are a bonus but I'm a man, that's not first on the list to me, I don't care how many degrees u have, and if you don't like gender roles fine but I do im not for this role reversal shyt where the woman bosses the man around and talks shyt to him and takes it because he needs her financial contribution to survive

lmao I've never seen any female on here say that. I swear yall just make up shyt.

 

[motion order]

I keep hearing this but nobody defining what they mean, and why they deverse one of these females. Define submissive for me brehs

Submit just means to be agreeable to coexist with.

And I don't believe it is a matter of a man "deserving" a submissive woman. A man should be wise enough to find a woman that is willing and able to submit to HIM and how he is going to live HIS life.

 

[SheriffOG]

While I don't want a "combative" girl I don't want a doormat either. A woman that's just gonna agree with me and do anything all the time without expression of her own individuality / pursuit of personal goals has nothing to offer imo. maybe that makes me a "fatherless idiot" on the coli then so be it but having a like minded woman who I'm attracted to and can stand on her own two feet if need be is the dream

 

[Ashley Banks]

No. No one said it's either or.

Smart men can tell which women have problems with being led.

you literally said that only an idiot doesn't want a submissive wife then you started talking about single mothers and being bytches and combativeness.

It's possible to not be submissive and not be a difficult bytch. Only an idiot would think otherwise. I'm very easy to get along with and I've never been a bytch, but I'm not going to let a man control me. If I agree with you then it's cool, I'll go along with it but if I don't agree, I'm not just gonna sit down and shut up just because you say so.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Only a fool would want a woman he has to tame or thats hard to handle. Women arent suppose to behave like wild animals.

There's a lot of gray area between a woman who is "submissive" and a woman who is like a "wild animal" though.

 

[Birdie]

Let the losers have their argumentative, ignorant, belligerent, hard headed, volatile women. I'll gladly have all the feminine women without the inferiority complex and penis envy.

The majority of women you see getting their asses beat in the hood typically aren't the submissive ones for a reason.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I find that the men who demand submission the most or are overly vocal about it, are the ones least deserving of it. Kinda like the women who are always talking about respecting them.

Men who are worthy of submission find that women fall in line. If you think that's through violence, coercion or trying to shame a woman into it, you already lost.

Men can naturally display leadership qualities and a calming chill aura that women want to be near and nurture. There is also a trust element as well. In order to submit, I'm trusting you with my well-being, my future and the future of my children as well as my emotional wellbeing. I don't mind submitting. In fact most blk women would prefer it. But outside of a marriage or a stable relationship? To a man unwilling or resentful of providing for me? To someone who is emotionally a liability or shows signs of an inability to be faithful? To a man who stereotypes me or puts other women before me?! To a man who is unwilling to listen or take constructive criticism?!

Logically and rationally, no woman should ever consider submitting to those types. And unfortunately most men who have the word submission behind their teeth, have to talk that talk because their actions are lacking and undeserving of what they are asking for.

 

[Dwolf]

Heh at wanting a submissive wife when you don't want to get married.

 

[全能の神]

why cant she have both qualities?

 

[VFib]

Repect breh . But right there is where some of these mofos fall short. Some brehs ain't got two pennies to rub together but want a traditional wife. Some these dudes don't know what a provider is and would call you a simp if take care of your wife. Ol dudes want a submissive wife with a traditional life but be riding around in his girl broke down Honda civic


You gonna have to come with some better examples then that breh. However your uncle probably a leader and provider and your aunt knows that. You can not expect to have a submissive wife and not be able to provide her a lifestyle that supports that

This guy on my facebook a few years ago posted a video about women submitting to men. Then he posted that women need to learn to do this. I forgot what she said, but the ex girlfriend shut him down with greats points about himself. Years later, at 34, he still lives at home with the his mother and spends his time posting shirtless selfies and stunting on IG. But he's looking for a submissive woman....

 

[1thouwow]

I like a chick with an opinion, but at the end of the day I got the final say. 51%, 49% rule with me being the 51%.

Chicks have definitely been submissive to be without me putting in much effort though. I think it's bc they see I'm all about drive and bettering yourself.

 

[Fani Willis fan]

I find that the men who demand submission the most or are overly vocal about it, are the ones least deserving of it. Kinda like the women who are always talking about respecting them.

Men who are worthy of submission find that women fall in line. If you think that's through violence, coercion or trying to shame a woman into it, you already lost.

Men can naturally display leadership qualities and a calming chill aura that women want to be near and nurture. There is also a trust element as well. In order to submit, I'm trusting you with my well-being, my future and the future of my children as well as my emotional wellbeing. I don't mind submitting. In fact most blk women would prefer it. But outside of a marriage or a stable relationship? To a man unwilling or resentful of providing for me? To someone who is emotionally a liability or shows signs of an inability to be faithful? To a man who stereotypes me or puts other women before me?! To a man who is unwilling to listen or take constructive criticism?!

Logically and rationally, no woman should ever consider submitting to those types. And unfortunately most men who have the word submission behind their teeth, have to talk that talk because their actions are lacking and undeserving of what they are asking for.

yea if the guy is truly a leader then the woman is going to fall in line and submissiveness and respect will never have to be mentioned.