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Women do this anyway though :pachaha:

There are 5 single mothers on every block in the hood

What's your point? Those women are typically shamed and lambasted for those decisions despite it being biologically ingrained in them to do that.

My point was that something being biologically ingrained doesn't make it acceptable or OK.
 

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So is it ok for smart men to make permanent decisions based of temporary emotions or not? I'm waiting for you to talk about how men should accept infidelity from their spouse as long as it's just a mistake fueled by lust.
 

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Find an example of women who supported her man but was sexually attracted to someone else and wanted to fukk them? Happens way more than you think but what does anecdotal evidence matter?

If you think it's ok for a man to cheat on a woman as long as emotions aren't involved then the same should be true for woman cheating on a man for lustful reasons only.

As long as they're fulfilling their respective duties then they shouldn't make permanent decisions based off of temporary emotions.

That's your logic.

Responding with "It happens way more than you think" is not an example. I asked you to back up what you were saying with a specific example and you basically respond with "No example. Just trust what I said."
 

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So is it ok for smart men to make permanent decisions based of temporary emotions or not? I'm waiting for you to talk about how men should accept infidelity from their spouse as long as it's just a mistake fueled by lust.
Obviously you didn't read everything. I clearly said women cheat off of emotion. Which is why I am asking you to give an example of a good woman cheating out of lust and you still can't do that. Want to know why? Because it doesn't happen.
 

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I would leave my husband in a heartbeat if he cheated on me wtf Not only is it disrespectful but I also don't want herpes (or any other std) or to get shot in the head by one of his side pieces:childplease:
 

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MLK cheated on his wife, does that take away from what he did for the black population? Is he not a "good" man?

Stop acting like cheating is the end-all-be-all of valued morals. It's a sin like everything else
People try to use this all of the time. NO MLK was NOT a good man. He was NOT worth dating if you want to be in a happy and healthy monog relationship.

He was the face of a movement. A team of people did everything, it wasn't just him.Just because you have a good public rep does not mean that you are a good man or person. Find a new argument.

I personally believe he had power/control issues from a doc a watched that talked about how he wanted to be the big man on his college campus and to steal other people's girls. This came from people who went to college with him and who worked with him during the movement.
 

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Responding with "It happens way more than you think" is not an example. I asked you to back up what you were saying with a specific example and you basically respond with "No example. Just trust what I said."

I shouldn't need to prove something requires basic thinking. If women have sex with physical attraction as the primary motivator then women have engaged in cheating on someone with lust as the primary motivator.

So, let's get back to the crux of the argument..

You agree that smart men should stay with a women, one who fulfills all her wifely duties, as long as she cheats for purely physical reasons fueled primarily by lust of the men she cheated with. Because temporary emotions shouldn't fuel a permanent decision.
 

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Obviously you didn't read everything. I clearly said women cheat off of emotion. Which is why I am asking you to give an example of a good woman cheating out of lust and you still can't do that. Want to know why? Because it doesn't happen.

Do you not know of how many males left their woman for their side? That wasn't based off of emotion? Do you know how many claimed they cheated b/c with their woman, they didn't "feel like a man" or "things were too stressful"? Emotions again.

Lust is a feeling as well, attraction. Those are feelings/emotions/ mood. Horny, emotion, mood, feeling.

You sound stupid.
 

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People try to use this all of the time. NO MLK was NOT a good man. He was NOT worth dating if you want to be in a happy and healthy monog relationship.

He was the face of a movement. A team of people did everything, it wasn't just him.Just because you have a good public rep does not mean that you are a good man or person. Find a new argument.

I personally believe he had power/control issues from a doc a watched that talked about how he wanted to be the big man on his college campus and to steal other people's girls. This came from people who went to college with him and who worked with him during the movement.
You can't judge somebody using who they were in college. Did he provide/take care of his wife and girls? Yes. Was he a good father? Yes. Was he putting hands on Ms. King? No. Did she know about his infidelities? Yes. And did she leave him? No. Why?
 

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Do you not know of how many males left their woman for their side? That wasn't based off of emotion? Do you know how many claimed they cheated b/c with their woman, they didn't "feel like a man" or "things were too stressful"? Emotions again.

Lust is a feeling as well, attraction. Those are feelings/emotions/ mood. Horny, emotion, mood, feeling.

You sound stupid.
Were those good men? No
 

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Obviously you didn't read everything. I clearly said women cheat off of emotion. Which is why I am asking you to give an example of a good woman cheating out of lust and you still can't do that. Want to know why? Because it doesn't happen.

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Read that and then realize that the phrase "more likely" doesn't mean all. So unless you have proof that a 100% of women cheat for solely emotional reasons and are somehow mentally/biologically incapable of cheating out of lust, shut the fukk up and answer my question.

Because I never said that women aren't more likely to have emotional reasons for their cheating, I asked that if the women you were dealing with cheated for lust then you'd find it ok and you're dodging that question .
 

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I shouldn't need to prove something requires basic thinking. If women have sex with physical attraction as the primary motivator then women have engaged in cheating on someone with lust as the primary motivator.

So, let's get back to the crux of the argument..

You agree that smart men should stay with a women, one who fulfills all her wifely duties, as long as she cheats for purely physical reasons fueled primarily by lust of the men she cheated with. Because temporary emotions shouldn't fuel a permanent decision.
Oh I love the "I don't have to prove myself" argument. You are missing the point. I never once said men should stay with a woman that cheats. It doesn't go both ways because what is bad in a man is worse in a woman. You can say that isn't fair or hypocritical all you want. It doesn't matter because that is how the world is, deal with it. Stop ignoring people and putting words in their mouths just to feed your argument
 
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