So hyptothetically would you break up with J Cole if he cheated on you?
Show me where I said constantly cheat... I'll wait
How many times do you hear chicks say, "If a man cheated on me, it's over!"
All the time right? Yet so many dudes are still with their women.
Well 99.99% of those women are single, lonely chicks who have not met a great man yet. Idc what kind of bs you throw, all of us men at one point in our lives cheat on our women. It is coded in our DNA to do that shiit. Not justifying it, but it is what it is.
It all comes down to who you are as a man. If you are a real man, you take care of your responsibilities, you take care of your woman and family, have a good profession and make good money, it changes everything for a SMART woman. This is one of the few times where women favor logic over emotion. It is logical to stay with this man who made a mistake, then to abandon everything he offers you just because he saw a phat ass at a function one night.
We all know Bill was straight running through the White House staff in his office, being all kinds of disresepctful. But Hilary knew she wanted to be President one day and couldn't do it without being married to him. Now look at her.
The stupid women are the ones getting cheated on by ol boy that lives with his mom with no job, using her car, with no promise. Talking about "It's complicated. You don't know him like I do"
So brehs if you get caught fukking up, yeah she will make you suffer, but if you're a good man she ain't going no where.
Smart women don't make permanent decisions off of temporary emotions.
One time still isn't ok.
Look at Tiger Woods ex-wife
If 10 different men cheat once that would be grouped as cheating. Also you would use the present tense to explain any future men. I wouldn't say "This man one day will cheated on his wife." You tried to put words in my mouth to feed your argument and failed. We all know that was a joke with Bill as he only messed with Monica. Stop reaching.You used Bill and Hillary as your example. Bill constantly cheated on Hillary. You even said he was "running through the white house".
You also said cheating or "fcking up" is ok. That is present tense meaning it is currently happening and more than once. If you only meant once, you should've said that or put "cheated" as in past tense meaning that it isn't happening anymore.
One time still isn't ok.
LOL I'm too old to have a celebrity crush, that's why I don't have one anymore, but yes. I don't care who he is, I will always leave a cheater. No second chances.
Go right ahead with the ad hominem attacks and shaming tactics lol. I come straight with logic and bring points to defend my opinion, what about that screams pesky teenaged boy? Your just saying all that nonsense in an attempt to get a rise out of me, have me negatively affected, or make me mad. Your actions scream childishness and immaturity.Again, I have a postive view on healthy romantic relationships. I am always and will always be harsh on cheaters. That doesn't mean that I have a negative view of relationships, that means I have a negative view of cheaters, which everyone should have.
Married people should put some of their money together for their joint expenses and have their own to buy whatever they want so there is no telling the other person what they can/can't buy like they're someone's parent. That makes more sense and that is what me and my husband will be doing. Stashed money can be used for anything. If someone loses their job, it can be used to support the family, if he cheats, it's useful to have to take with you when you leave. I have said similar things plenty of times on here before. You would know if you read all of my posts, which you haven't or if you knew me, which you don't, but wish you did which is why you're so worried about me.
Little kiddie teenaged relationships aren't real. Going by what you said, you may as well include jr high and all of the little crushes and "relationships" people have throught their school years. You don't even know if I've had any of those or not b/c you don't know me. That's probably all you've had since you're trying so hard to defend it. They aren't real/ adult relationship.
I doubt you have any more life experience (outside of sex) than I do being that you are in your early 20s as well, probably still in school and still living with your parents. I make threads to get the unfiltered/honest male opinion, to compare things that are said on here vs things irl,to compare male/female opinions on here vs lsa, and to troll sometimes b/c I don't take this site too seriously. You shouldn't be so worried about my threads/posts. I'm pretty sure you have stupid and/or immature threads on here. Worry about yourself and your own posts.
& You are clearly bothered. lol
This is exactly why I thought you were gay b/c you act super bytchy or super annoying. There is never an in between, nothing that says grown hetero man anywhere in your posts. You're like a pesky teenaged boy. I bet you will continue to go back and forth like the messy little princess you are while most of the other males on here would ignore it and move on.
Good night now
and yeah you got no deflections to that.
Don't waste your time breh. She won't admit she's wrong. She'll just resort to ad hominem attacks, shaming tactics and just ignore you as a last resort when she has no half-assed rebuttal like most women.
"Good" men are valued once most women have been through players, bad boys, thugs, men who've dogged them out, used the just for sex then dipped etc. More often times than not they want the "good man" when the dude they really want won't provide them with what they want ie marriage, two kids and a picket fence. But the beta average dude will of course, so he's fine picking after they've been through trauma, drama, abuse, accumulated a lot of relationship baggage etc.
