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Your girl is texting a nikka she ain't having sex with but he makes her smile with their exchanges, she's in a relationship with him too.
Open relationships
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Your girl is texting a nikka she ain't having sex with but he makes her smile with their exchanges, she's in a relationship with him too.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
omg I remember reading about something like this. this dude wanted an open relationship because he had a plain average gf and he joined a website and girls better looking than his gf were flirting with him, so he basically told her that either she agreed to be in an open relationship or he would leave. So she agreed then he got mad because she was getting a ton of good looking side dudes and he only got with one chick that wasn't even as attractive as his gf. He was saying she was being unfair and that he wanted to close the relationship again.
I think I made a thread about it.
Action Mike
All praise..
I call that open fukkery
LMAOOOomg I remember reading about something like this. this dude wanted an open relationship because he had a plain average gf and he joined a website and girls better looking than his gf were flirting with him, so he basically told her that either she agreed to be in an open relationship or he would leave. So she agreed then he got mad because she was getting a ton of good looking side dudes and he only got with one chick that wasn't even as attractive as his gf. He was saying she was being unfair and that he wanted to close the relationship again.
I think I made a thread about it.
I remember that one! should I link the article here? 
Alot of people wouldn't even consider this cheating, this is the 1st and most deadly step of cheating. Getting emotionally invested in someone else in any form will lead to a failed relationship most of the time.
"Their just a friend that I talk to 3 or 4 times a week that makes me laugh smile and feel good and happens to be of the opposite sex"
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
LMAOOO
Yes!
dude was straight trashing his gf talking about the guys she was with could have found a hotter girl.
Even though the dudes were telling him how great she was.
Action Mike
All praise..
Yes!
dude was straight trashing his gf talking about the guys she was with could have found a hotter girl.
you love it don't youIt's foolish, even if wifey looked like a troll she'll still put more numbers on the board
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
it happens more than u think
Yes!
dude was straight trashing his gf talking about the guys she was with could have found a hotter girl.
Very well. and he was though! I guess it didn't register in his mind that if you don't please her..another man will...literally and sexually. But hey, I don't blamne home girl for agreeing..maybe she agreed to other reasons as well. Like having her cake and eating it too ^^.
But riddle me this though. How are you going to feel some type of way with her doing what she wants even though you're the one who proposed the idea in the first place AND threaten to break up with her if she didn't comply?
oh, for those who are wondering, here's the link to the article (there's many with people's input so
)Link: What Can One Man's Mistake Teach Us About Open Relationships? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Bigtymer301
Mr. Roll-Up
I think most people are already in open relationships they just don't know it
Couldn't do it with my main chick. If you got side chicks it's inevitable. That's definitely an open relationship. Surely you don't think she a side chick, and you the only nikka she fux wit.
To be perfectly honest, if you aint married, you probably in an open relationship....(Some of yall married people too.
) I did that in college wit this one chick, and while I liked the freedom I had to 
, I ain't like the thought of another nikka smashing this chick I was really feeling. She say she wasn't doing anything, she just didn't want any labels, but I knew better.......Eventually I had to cut her off because the stress was too 
. If you really like somebody, that shyt don't work. if I have side chicks, does that make me in an open relationship with my main chick?
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
It's foolish, even if wifey looked like a troll she'll still put more numbers on the board
only because the dude was being an ass to her, he said she was the perfect gf, she just didn't look the part. He said she was crying when he brought up the open relationship thing and begging him not to leave. So he deserved it.
But if two people are both into it, I hope it works out for both of them.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Very well. and he was though! I guess it didn't register in his mind that if you don't please her..another man will...literally and sexually. But hey, I don't blamne home girl for agreeing..maybe she agreed to other reasons as well. Like having her cake and eating it too ^^.
But riddle me this though. How are you going to feel some type of way with her doing what she wants even though you're the one who proposed the idea in the first place AND threaten to break up with her if she didn't comply?
oh, for those who are wondering, here's the link to the article (there's many with people's input so
Link: What Can One Man's Mistake Teach Us About Open Relationships? - Paging Dr. NerdLove
ikr!!! he bullied her into it, then got mad because she was having the time of her life.
shoulda just left things how they were. dude started feeling himself because "hot" chicks on a website were flirting with him, so he forgot that the "homely" gf he had is all he had access to.
Action Mike
All praise..
In the context of this thread, being fair it is one.
But arguments might be thrown in how men aren't naturally monogamous etc
I had one guy ask me for an open relationship, but the wording was so raunchy and I said yes 
He didn't ask again but I don't believe he tried, it's what I felt anyway. Best believe I was threatened if I tried anything. But my thing is if you gotta ask for an open relationship then what you have with that person doesn't really exist.
Therefore I wouldn't actively participate in one nor do I keep male friends unless it's one that I'm trying to feel out for potential because I'm patient like that!
He didn't ask again but I don't believe he tried, it's what I felt anyway. Best believe I was threatened if I tried anything. But my thing is if you gotta ask for an open relationship then what you have with that person doesn't really exist.
Therefore I wouldn't actively participate in one nor do I keep male friends unless it's one that I'm trying to feel out for potential because I'm patient like that!
