Bullshyt. There have been plenty of celebrities with all kinds of internal issues and that didn't stop them from pulling chicks. Future is a customer with a partridge family for baby mommas, doesn't stop him from pulling more broads. An NBA player can be psychotic and it still wouldn't stop the groupies from jumping on him. All that 'energy' shyt is bullshyt. Yeah, if you seem like you have things other people can feed on (funny, good attitude, money, ect) then people will gravitate towards you but its all superficial motive end of the day, has nothing to do with internal energy.
Opposites Attract or You Attract What You Are?
- Thread starter Shadow King
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I attract ugly
The opposites attract thing is only applicable to you as a man if you're extroverted.
Try being an introverted homebody and dating a woman that has to go out every weekend. See how long it lasts.
EpicStoryTeller
Blazé Blazé
Im in that predicament right now. I feel like im dragging the relationship on due to convenience and longevity (like i owe her for always being there for me).
Shes a gold standard type wifey material... But she doesnt do it for me any more and im but the slightest attracted to her now. And here i am philandering with chicks that are like me behind her back.
This xmas will be three years and i think its time to move on.
Sorry D, this time... Its for real. I hope youll always be in my life some how.
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Jay Kast
Hidden Royalty
The opposites attract thing is only applicable to you as a man if you're extroverted.
Try being an introverted homebody and dating a woman that has to go out every weekend. See how long it lasts.
I've tried the whole 'opposites attract' situation.. it's fun at first but the longer it goes the more you realize that the reason you AREN'T your opposite is for a good reason (for you).
I want to be with someone that grows with me instead of growing as individuals together. When I come to a major realization in life, she reaches that same point and vice versa - I want a person that is truly an extension of me and not some sloppily thrown together mess that somehow manages to work.
I can't watch foreign movies with subtitles with my opposite.
I can't read a book in the same bed as my opposite (unless she's knocked out already).
I can't sit quietly and simply enjoy the thoughts running through my mind with my opposite.
I can't keep my life as a safeguarded haven with my opposite.
I mean, the sex is great (but that's the usual, and not really important) and I can play the role but even Denzel would fall out of character after awhile.
And it's all I seem to attract
Its true that opposites attract though is it the ideal relationship is the real question.
#Introvertedproblems
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
What's up? I already replied to this thread.
You attract what you put out.
Supercoolmayo
Superstar
Behind-the-wheel
Living dead
Definitely opposite.
Wife is opposite me.
But she's the only thing I attract.
Wife is opposite me.
But she's the only thing I attract.
I like a lot of different types. I would prefer someone who shares my interests, but I find that I'm often attracted to chicks whose personalities and style are complete opposites from my own. I like bubbly outgoing girls, but I'm not a bubbly outgoing guy.
street heat
merchant of death
they have pretty much all been the opposite of me. I'd like to find a chick like me but introverted women are hard to find.