PANIC Time: If you're around 30 (flabby and sick) and still single.

[Wild self]

I know this is a troll thread, but damn, I feel bad for some of you dudes.

Y'all are definitely some very late bloomers, on that 2nd childhood/Peter Pan syndrome status. Most of y'all haven't been right your whole damn life, and are now talking about you've reached your peak at 30-32. A lot of your reasons for such is "p*ssy", but damn brehs, I'm sorry with the chicks and numbers posted here, I'd have to say you might as well get a chick cause you're not pulling anything impressive "ratings" or numbers wise, so what's the point.

Y'all sound so childish and foolish, it's hilarious. Y'all are happy about being +30 and still renting apartments and then saying such like it's something good. Guessing you moved out of your parents house at 18, you've been throwing money away for +12 years. Like, you're clearly deficient/immature in other parts of life too and it shows.

Anyway, I don't know any guy who is THAT dude that isn't married or hasn't been married by 30 unless he's a straight up gay. Most dudes who have been that popular/wanted guy, or who are successful are trying their best to find a woman who is down for the cause, not someone to come in to simply reap the benefits of what they've make after the fact.

I know brehs who have done extremely great things, who have accomplished all of their dreams, who have millions of dollars and access to women they would want. Guess what? They didn't make it there on their own. I don't get what people are so afraid of.

shaming on heterosexual men that refuse to get married

 

[DaChampIsHere]

shaming on heterosexual men that refuse to get married

I'm not shaming breh, it's just the truth.

A man who has able to get everything he has wanted out of life and who has been successful at his endeavors will not find himself shying away from the challenge of commitment. He's had many more trying adversities and obstacles that he's overcame.

The man who has had to second guess his way through life and who has been wrong at many things has a lot more fear running through his veins. Apprehensiveness is first nature for this man.

 

[Wesley Pipes quotes]

The baby mamma epidemic is spreading to mainstream white America. Niccas just bust in raw in some random bytch and have random baby mammas and child support to pay.

But in the black community, especially, the nicca that gets the most puccy is and the concept of a family man is frowned upon.

The movie idiocracy is really gonna come true . All the smart educated people not having kids while the ignorant ass niccas just having random kids left and right. In 2-3 generations, we gonna be seeing nothing but ratchedness in American society. Can't blame anyone, tbh. Feminists wanted to see "empowerment" and they are gonna see the irreversible effects of it.

Yup.

That's why these dudes should get vasectomy's to protect themselves. If you know you aren't going to do the marriage/family thing(which look around. Obviously brothas ain't up for all that) why not just protect yourself?

Now you can fcku all the girls you ever wanted and not have to worry about a thing.

 

[Air Nikes N Hats]

I know this is a troll thread, but damn, I feel bad for some of you dudes.

Y'all are definitely some very late bloomers, on that 2nd childhood/Peter Pan syndrome status. Most of y'all haven't been right your whole damn life, and are now talking about you've reached your peak at 30-32. A lot of your reasons for such is "p*ssy", but damn brehs, I'm sorry with the chicks and numbers posted here, I'd have to say you might as well get a chick cause you're not pulling anything impressive "ratings" or numbers wise, so what's the point.

Y'all sound so childish and foolish, it's hilarious. Y'all are happy about being +30 and still renting apartments and then saying such like it's something good. Guessing you moved out of your parents house at 18, you've been throwing money away for +12 years. Like, you're clearly deficient/immature in other parts of life too and it shows.

Anyway, I don't know any guy who is THAT dude that isn't married or hasn't been married by 30 unless he's a straight up gay. Most dudes who have been that popular/wanted guy, or who are successful are trying their best to find a woman who is down for the cause, not someone to come in to simply reap the benefits of what they've make after the fact.

I know brehs who have done extremely great things, who have accomplished all of their dreams, who have millions of dollars and access to women they would want. Guess what? They didn't make it there on their own. I don't get what people are so afraid of.

Marriage isn't for everyone breh. Hell, I've pissed away money. I am sure all of us have at some point (some more then others obviously), and have no regrets.

Time and time again, society wants to shove the idea of a "white pickett fence/family man/dog/etc " lifestyle down our throats. In my early twenties....I thought Id finish school, get a great job, meet a good woman, settle down, etc......but, it took a different turn. No regrets....I'm happy with the person I see in the mirror and everything thats happened in my life up to this point has shaped me to be that way.

I have plenty of friends who are married, have kids, etc.....I don't envy them or frown upon their life choices/lifestyle. I would hope they would reciprocate those feelings......Live and let live......

 

[He Who Posts Well]

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Marriage isn't for everyone breh. Hell, I've pissed away money. I am sure all of us have at some point (some more then others obviously), and have no regrets.
Time and time again, society wants to shove the idea of a "white pickett fence/family man/dog/etc " lifestyle down our throats. In my early twenties....I thought Id finish school, get a great job, meet a good woman, settle down, etc......but, it took a different turn. No regrets....I'm happy with the person I see in the mirror and everything thats happened in my life up to this point has shaped me to be that way.
I have plenty of friends who are married, have kids, etc.....I don't envy them or frown upon their life choices/lifestyle. I would hope they would reciprocate those feelings......Live and let live......

I'm not telling you how to live. Just saying what I think of such: People trying to reciprocate for what they haven't had through out their life. a.k.a. second childhoods.

 

[Wild self]

I'm not shaming breh, it's just the truth.

A man who has able to get everything he has wanted out of life and who has been successful at his endeavors will not find himself shying away from the challenge of commitment. He's had many more trying adversities and obstacles that he's overcame.

The man who has had to second guess his way through life and who has been wrong at many things has a lot more fear running through his veins. Apprehensiveness is first nature for this man.

Nothing wrong with making mistakes when ya young. And that judgmental stance of yours about people living in fear and somehow being inferior, in one way or the other, is just lame.

 

[Air Nikes N Hats]

I'm not telling you how to live. Just saying what I think of such: People trying to reciprocate for what they haven't had through out their life. a.k.a. second childhoods.

I hear you on the 2nd Childhood thing though......for me personally, I still enjoy myself. I won't be caught in clubs or nothing like that. If I travel I try to see sights, document everything in photos, things like that. In my 20s I would have traveled to places for no other reasons other then the night life. I guess thats the bets example off the top of my head. I guess with age, Ive taken more of an interest in so-called cultured things.

 

[GetSomeMoney]

my links are from court cases, i could post a whole bunch of other links from infidelity forums and marriage forums, the majority of happy marriages is slim, 60% of spouses will step out in marriage, majority will forgive like simps and low self esteem bytches and continue on living a sham of a happy marriage.

actaully my numbers are correct, studies and statistics have been done for decades and decades, divorce rate is between 50-60 percent, 2/3 are initiated by women, black marriages 2/3 will fail, interracial marriages between a black man and a white woman have the highest percentage of divorce, 90% of the time the women will get custody of the kids, divorced men are twice more likely to commit suicide than the general population.

and your little analogy it doesn't work that way

year ten congrats, ive seen people married for 30-40 years and still pull the plug, if she is cheating and she makes less than you, yes she can come after you, there is only about 6 o 7 states out of 50 that infidelity will actually bare on the awarding of alimony,

its laughable that you think if your wife cheats on you the judge will be like no alimony, . Go on westlaw or lexisnexis and see if any judge has not awarded alimony because of infidelity, sorry breh.

In most states, infidelity will not matter in a divorce, in the few states that do you will still pay it will just be less.

According to 2004 US Census Data, Table 3 for All Races (click to download Excel file):
75.56 million men ever marry (i.e. married at least once)
22.70 million men ever divorce
30.1% = men who ever marry end up getting divorced
87.32 million women ever marry
26.95 million women ever divorce
30.9% = women who ever marry end up getting divorced
162.88 million men and women ever marry
49.68 million men and women ever divorce
30.5% = men and women, combined, who ever married end up getting divorced

Divorce rate, according to that 50% statistic, is measured as number of divorces filed each year, against number of marriages made each year. The serious problem with this equation is that what’s called the number of divorces is from all the marriages which had taken place in previous years, which only happened to have ended in divorce in a given year. If people stopped getting married for a year, which is only an exaggeration of the increasing trend of common-law living, you could easily end up with more than 100% of marriages ending up in divorce by this calculation. Try this numerical example if you’re not getting what I’m saying.

50% Divorce Rate is a Myth, It’s More Like 33% or One Third « Digital Citizen

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Nothing wrong with making mistakes when ya young. And that judgmental stance of yours about people living in fear and somehow being inferior, in one way or the other, is just lame.

I never said anyone was inferior. You garnered that adjective yourself.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

I'm not shaming breh, it's just the truth.

A man who has able to get everything he has wanted out of life and who has been successful at his endeavors will not find himself shying away from the challenge of commitment. He's had many more trying adversities and obstacles that he's overcame.

The man who has had to second guess his way through life and who has been wrong at many things has a lot more fear running through his veins. Apprehensive is first nature for this man.

Champ we've had our squabbles n shyt. And you can spit some informative shyt on occasion but mah nikka why do you constantly feel da need to try n fit every person in dis same "recipe for success" as maybe you or certain peoples in yo camp choose follow breh? Not every nikka sees dem paths as da right ones in order to attain happiness, fulfillment, and/or satisfaction.

Lookin down and trynna belittle cats for makin choices dat a best benefit THEM AND THEIR LIVES seems incredibly narrow minded and pretentious mah dood.

 

[Wesley Pipes quotes]

According to 2004 US Census Data, Table 3 for All Races (click to download Excel file):
75.56 million men ever marry (i.e. married at least once)
22.70 million men ever divorce
30.1% = men who ever marry end up getting divorced
87.32 million women ever marry
26.95 million women ever divorce
30.9% = women who ever marry end up getting divorced
162.88 million men and women ever marry
49.68 million men and women ever divorce
30.5% = men and women, combined, who ever married end up getting divorced

Divorce rate, according to that 50% statistic, is measured as number of divorces filed each year, against number of marriages made each year. The serious problem with this equation is that what’s called the number of divorces is from all the marriages which had taken place in previous years, which only happened to have ended in divorce in a given year. If people stopped getting married for a year, which is only an exaggeration of the increasing trend of common-law living, you could easily end up with more than 100% of marriages ending up in divorce by this calculation. Try this numerical example if you’re not getting what I’m saying.

50% Divorce Rate is a Myth, It’s More Like 33% or One Third « Digital Citizen

 

[Mowgli]

nikkas tryin to make nikkas feel insecure. Pshhhhhhhhh

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Champ we've had our squabbles n shyt. And you can spit some informative shyt on occasion but mah nikka why do you constantly feel da need to try n fit every person in dis same "recipe for success" as maybe you or certain peoples in yo camp choose follow breh? Not every nikka sees dem paths as da right ones in order to attain happiness, fulfillment, and/or satisfaction.
Lookin down and trynna belittle cats for makin choices dat a best benefit THEM AND THEIR LIVES seems incredibly narrow minded and pretentious mah dood.

I never belittled anyone. You can be different without being worse or better. I think once people realize that, they'll feel more comfortable with the things they read/hear and stop trying to attach their emotions to every damn thing. That's not my problem.

According to 2004 US Census Data, Table 3 for All Races (click to download Excel file):
75.56 million men ever marry (i.e. married at least once)
22.70 million men ever divorce
30.1% = men who ever marry end up getting divorced
87.32 million women ever marry
26.95 million women ever divorce
30.9% = women who ever marry end up getting divorced
162.88 million men and women ever marry
49.68 million men and women ever divorce
30.5% = men and women, combined, who ever married end up getting divorced
Divorce rate, according to that 50% statistic, is measured as number of divorces filed each year, against number of marriages made each year. The serious problem with this equation is that what’s called the number of divorces is from all the marriages which had taken place in previous years, which only happened to have ended in divorce in a given year. If people stopped getting married for a year, which is only an exaggeration of the increasing trend of common-law living, you could easily end up with more than 100% of marriages ending up in divorce by this calculation. Try this numerical example if you’re not getting what I’m saying.
50% Divorce Rate is a Myth, It’s More Like 33% or One Third « Digital Citizen

Honestly, that's still a high number. But in reality, when have statistics ever stopped people from doing something? We all still have sex, still use ATMs and risk identity theft, we still drive cars, etc.

Like, if people really lived by statistics, they'd be fukked. People just like to focus on the ones that make them feel better about their insecurities though.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

I never belittled anyone. You can be different without being worse or better. I think once people realize that, they'll feel more comfortable with the things they read/hear and stop trying to attach their emotions to every damn thing. That's not my problem.

lol Aite breh.