Pastor Dowell (Married 30+ Yrs) Begs Men to NEVER EVER sign a STATE MARRIAGE LICENSE!!!

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I don't mind marriage.

I just dont like the alimony part.

My wife and I go half on everything and keep our accounts separate minus the savings.

But we live in a good state where alimony won't really affect me :blessed:

Get a pre or postnup brehs.
 

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I have to drop a gem I posted back in December as it is so relevant.

You should never feel pressured to get married because once you get passed the symbolism it’s essentially you and shorty inviting the government into your relationship. It may not seem and/or feel like a threesome because the government chooses not to sleep in your bed but ohhhh he’s there!

He may stop by for a bit during tax time but he doesn’t really start coming over to fukk until the relationship is on the rocks and one of you files for divorce. At that point he’ll be sliding into your bed monthly to fukk you long and hard to the point where you question if life is even worth living. One day the nikka comes over, opens up your wallet and takes $17.00 out of your last $20.00. Next day the nikka comes over and takes your whole got damn house and the kids.

Then one day you’re standing outside your 1960’s built innercity 1bdr, a$$hole ripe, and your ex-wife pulls up in a new SUV to drop the kids off (you get one overnight a week).

You look up...:ohhh:

...that nikka Government is sitting in your ex-wife’s front seat!!! He hops out the car and opens the door for your kids and says:



:ufdup: “hey man I gave that $17 bucks to your ex-wife as well as the house, make sure you have another $17.00 next month or I’ma fukk you up”.




:snoop: You facepalm and respond: “I don’t even have 17 dollars to give...I have bills to pay...can we work something out?”.




:ufdup: “I’ll stop collecting once Ash and Tyson are adults but you gonna pay Tasha for life..you understand...nikka I will fukk you up if you don’t, you know my pedigree!”



:sas1:Your ex-wife Tasha on looks from the car and says to Government “come on babe, we gotta be at the Spa by 3PM...I booked the private suite!”.




:jawalrus: Government turns around to your ex-wife and says “ok babe” and then turns back to you and says...




:ufdup:“look nikka, me and Ms. Jones got a thing going on...if you fukk it up I will rain down on you so hard that’ll you’ll be moving from this raggedy ass apartment into a cardboard box...you hear me nikka? I’ll take your license, put you in jail...I’ll ruin your whole shyt so don’t try any funny shyt muthafukka are we clear?”



:to: “Yes, Government...I understand...enjoy the spa”.



:salute: Government says “thanks! I always knew we’d be the best of friends...we’ll pick up the kids tomorrow”


***Don’t say you weren’t warned.
 

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Nah i been weighing my pros and cons over the last six months and this right here just happen to be the NAIL IN THE COFFIN so to speak

ive worked too hard over the past several years to put myself in the financial stability i have obtain thus far

from everything from securing property to creating alternate streams of revenue to offset any revolving debt just to have a peace of mind that i deserved from years of hard work

im not about to have it snatched away from me ...just because some byatch gets "bored" with me or wants to excersise her options

fukk dat :camby:

besides she's pushing this lately more than anything......cause she is getting older and i am definitly in a much better financial state than when i was when we first dated years ago....

nah this shyt is worst than a 360 DEAL with no exit plan...

did you hear this muthaphuka say that Prenuptial agreements GET THROWN OUT DAILY due to the discretion of the Judges....they aren't worth the piece of paper they are written on ???

jeeeeeeeeeeezus take the wheel............IT TRULY IS NO BENIFIT FOR A MAN THESE DAYS IN MY OPINION TO GET MARRIED AT LEAST ON MY BEHALF

and all my friends who have been divorced ..say NEVER AGAIN :ufdup:

and now i see why :manny:

Listen!! To each is own! But I swear I’ve just randomly asked brothas I know who’ve been married for at least 3 years or more and I SWEAR ON MY SOUL.....every last one of them said they regret getting married if they could do it all over they would’ve just had a babymama and they never getting married again if the woman they currently with wants divorce
 

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Out here in my damn drawls
This is the only compromise I'd personally be willing to make regarding marriage if I wanted one


I'd never sign my options away

Men can get away with alot if you can make a woman feel good and secure in a relationship

Women in love will put up with way worse than not having a marriage certificate
 
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Off top his white southern voice puts me on some :camby:I literally cant watch that video. There's a good chance he a :mjpls: type.

On the subject though, you goofy if you gettin paper from the state tellin u ur marriage official.
 

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Calling me a bytch b/c I disagree with your statement? I'm not even surprised. Your'e pathetic and an enemy to black communal progress.


If the shoe fits... :manny:


Black communal progress is about black men rebuilding the strength that y'all tried to tear down. Without your bickering in our ear, black men can finally trade notes and focus on building a real empire for ourselves. In order for black men to heal and rebuild ourselves, it's imperative that people like you STFU because you're just in the way.

At this point, your shaming language tactic is just preaching to the choir. Because real nikkas know that you're just defending your stance on marriage because you as a woman benefit from it the most. From a woman's viewpoint, there is no difference between a man and a lottery ticket. Both are utilities used to cash out at any given time.

I get it though. It's got to be ether to see more and more black men build themselves to be thorough and then stiff arm yall like the Heisman Trophy when you ready for him to pop that question :umad:
 
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He said don't get a marriage license, he didn't say don't get married. I noticed women were all in his comments saying the same things because they got emotional. The thought of men opting out of marriage puts fear in women.
Dawg certain things they do not want to give men like REAL BC. You'd think we'd have a pill or something by now that we can just pop and not have to worry about babies but that's too much power for men, we would NEVER stop taking that shyt :mjlol: our girls would be like why can't she get pregnant while you like :troll: idk babe. But they do allow condoms that ain't as good as raw dawg and can still fail :francis: and getting your nuts sliced :hhh: Two things men hate. If we could put a little rod in our arm like women do and not worry about getting a chick pregnant for 3 years, the birth rate would REALLY drop :russ: the government don't want that happening so they still give the best BC options to women, who are more emotional and have "baby fever" :francis:
 

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This is the only compromise I'd personally be willing to make regarding marriage if I wanted one


I'd never sign my options away

Men can get away with alot if you can make a woman feel good and secure in a relationship

Women in love will put up with way worse than not having a marriage certificate
until that woman go on social media and see everyone they know getting married n shyt. I been in that situation waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too many times. Its just like women who you think are cool and they tell you they aint really looking to get into a relationship, just someone to kick it with and talk shyt to from time to time, then boom; she hit you with "keep playing or we dont go together no more" one day and you aint even know you was in an official relationship until then.
 
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