Pastor Dowell (Married 30+ Yrs) Begs Men to NEVER EVER sign a STATE MARRIAGE LICENSE!!!

[Luck]

@ Moron nikkas here needing the govt to make their so called union of love official.

Only real argument to this is getting your spouse on your benefits plan but shyt maybe don’t get with a bum with no benefits

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

On average it takes a man 15 years to recover from divorce?!!!

these "happily" married brehs don't know what's in store for them in the future

I remember a poster on here saying a 50 year old dude was renting a room in one of his rental properties, he was starting over after a DIVORCE

What is loooooooooooooove, baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more

I'm on my 2nd marriage, didn't loose shyt from the 1st marriage and won't loose shyt from this one. If you allow yourself to get finessed by your wife that's on you. Here are some really simple steps to take
1. Don't buy ya bytch a business. Let her get that on her own if she wants.
2. Don't put ya bytch through school. Again she can do that her self if she wants.
3. Don't buy ya bytch no firearm. You think having beef with nikkas in the street is tough? There's no beef like a woman scorned my friend. That woman you love can end up being your worse enemy. Follow these steps as a way to protect yourself.

 

[MadameMoreaux]

For most people the tax benefits of being married aren’t significant, but when your household income gets in the 150k+ range, we’re talking the difference between paying 32% and 24% in taxes. That’s huge. That’s why you notice most middle/upper class people get married. Also, 150k isnt that much or unattainable with two working professionals. I’m not sure why marriage is even an argument here seeing as how the black community is by far the least likely to be married and have stable 2 income households. It’s probably the main reason our community is in shambles and some of you fools keep arguing against your best interests.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

until that woman go on social media and see everyone they know getting married n shyt. I been in that situation waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too many times. Its just like women who you think are cool and they tell you they aint really looking to get into a relationship, just someone to kick it with and talk shyt to from time to time, then boom; she hit you with "keep playing or we dont go together no more" one day and you aint even know you was in an official relationship until then.

I'm talking about more of a true, deliberate relationship where two people decide that they are together long term

But yeah, of course she'll keep making the push to "make it official" with the marriage, but if she feels good in the relationship, she'll stay more than likely



If she leaves a good thing over a piece of paper, that's on her

 

[BlackJesus]

All you "GMB" followers do realize that around 90% of all billionaires are married right? This silly shyt ya'll keep talking about about "financial ruination" is not a reality for the .01%. That's a fact.

Marriage is a concept that can help you or hinder you. Just don't be stupid about it and treat it logically/rationally like a business and you will benefit.

Most married men have side hoes. It's not the end of the world for getting p*ssy either. You guys are really getting this shyt backwards.

 

[BlackJesus]

For most people the tax benefits of being married aren’t significant, but when your household income gets in the 150k+ range, we’re talking the difference between paying 32% and 24% in taxes. That’s huge. That’s why you notice most middle/upper class people get married. Also, 150k isnt that much or unattainable with two working professionals. I’m not sure why marriage is even an argument here seeing as how the black community is by far the least likely to be married and have stable 2 income households. It’s probably the main reason our community is in shambles and some of you fools keep arguing against your best interests.

That's one thing I don't understand about this forum.

The problem is not that black people are getting married the problem is that we're NOT getting married.

But keep arguing over and against shyt that doesn't pertain to you.

 

[number21]

Damn. Cats in here who's against the op ain't even trying to make sense and use logic.

 

[the bossman]

It’s probably the main reason our community is in shambles and some of you fools keep arguing against your best interests.

Marriage is a concept that can help you or hinder you. Just don't be stupid about it and treat it logically/rationally like a business and you will benefit.

Most married men have side hoes. It's not the end of the world for getting p*ssy either. You guys are really getting this shyt backwards.

it depends on what your aspirations are. I've come to see a lot of these GMB cats don't really have no grand aspirations past making 6 figs and blowing it all on traveling and fukking random broads in foreign countries. Don't get me wrong. All that shyt is fun. But the desire to do more than that starts to resonate at a certain point. Building and leading your own family, an empire, a legacy. Passing down all the knowledge, wisdom, and resources you've acquired through life to your children. Building them up to be better black men and women. Leading to stronger and more resourceful black families. Those black families then leading to a stronger and more resourceful black community. Marriage is the foundation. It's a risk, like anything else in life. But the reward is on another level

 

[BlackJesus]

it depends on what your aspirations are. I've come to see a lot of these GMB cats don't really have no grand aspirations past making 6 figs and blowing it all on traveling and fukking random broads in foreign countries. Don't get me wrong. All that shyt is fun. But the desire to do more than that starts to resonate at a certain point. Building and leading your own family, an empire, a legacy. Passing down all the knowledge, wisdom, and resources you've acquired through life to your children. Building them up to be better black men and women. Leading to stronger and more resourceful black families. Those black families then leading to a stronger and more resourceful black community. Marriage is the foundation. It's a risk, like anything else in life. But the reward is on another level

Yes, and they don't even have to "give up" aspects of their GMB lifestyle. You can still fukk (and lots of married men do) randoms while building a real legacy for yourself and your children. Plus tax benefits. Plus higher social status (married men are more respected, which is why all presidents are married). It's win-win.

But I'ma let ya'll silly GMB nikkas cook.

Getting married is the least of black people's problems. Ya'll need to act like ya'll got some got damn sense and stop with this foolery.

/endthread

 

[ShackZilla89]

nikkas intentionally wanting to raise their kids in broken homes

Bum status

As if all married couples create a functional and healthy environment for kids.

" it takes the average man about 15 years to RECOVER from the financial ruin of a DIVORCE"



i was gonna suprise my girl with an engagement ring this valentines day....

but after seeing this video...........





nah fukk dat...I CAN'T DO THIS...

I'd say if she was loyal, respectful and supportive to you before your come up then you should probably wife. There's nothing wrong with marrying a good woman that love and respect you, especially if her character is tested.

 

[Striving For Greatness]

GMB

 

[Colicat]

The destruction of the black family is and has always been the real target.

Y’all nikkas ain’t no different than swirlers, gays, and racist cacs.

“Women tryin to dominate us, stay away brehs”

I’m starting to believe that OP is paid to post with the sole purpose to destroy the Black family.

The only thing this dude ever posts about is how Black men shouldn’t build a Black family.

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

As if all married couples create a functional and healthy environment for kids.
I'd say if she was loyal, respectful and supportive to you before your come up then you should probably wife. There's nothing wrong with marrying a good woman that love and respect you, especially if her character is tested.

question ..ARE YOU MARRIED?

 

[BlackJesus]

As if all married couples create a functional and healthy environment for kids.
.

I don't know a single "functional/healthy" single parent household.

 

[ShackZilla89]

question ..ARE YOU MARRIED?

Nope was engaged though, but I'm old enough to know that not all women are out here looking for a come up. For example, my mother and all my aunts were loyal women and didn't divorce rape their husbands for assets when the relationships ended. But it's your life though, so do you...