Paul Pierce says women are "cooked" after 30.

[lib123]

You think the wrong man is always a street dude. And you know damn well most black men in their 20s aren’t looking for marriage, because most of us weren’t raised in a two parent home with an example of an intact marriage. I don’t blame black men for women choosing the wrong man. But I do explain that the issue is more nuanced than simply choosing a certain type. You have to be compatible. You have to have chemistry. You have to actually be in the same place at the same time, and meet. Someone has to make the first move. You have to be on the same page in life. Women aren’t wired like men, and don’t feel grateful just to have regular dikk from a man she isn’t attracted to.

Agreed most Black men in their 20s aren’t seeking marriage. But on the flip side most Brehettes in their 20s are prioritizing looks and swag over the marriage seeking minority. Most attractive Brehettes prioritize the 6’4 breh with swag who is 9/10 in looks and 0% interest in marriage over the 5’10 breh with a cool personality who is 7/10 in looks and marriage minded. If you speak to 35+ attractive Brehettes a lot of them regret passing on marriage minded men when they were younger in their prime.

It seems you don’t realize how the game works and how attractive women across demos get wifed generally speaking. They stop entertaining the most attractive men who they can get who are not marriage minded (usually by age 25 max) and focus on slightly less attractive (not ugly) men who are more marriage minded. Brehettes don’t do that in large numbers until they’re out of their prime.

 

[jadillac]

“I know how to fukk, I know how to suck, I know how to throw it back”

Is that all these people talk about?

I was waiting for this. Goodness, I really thought she was going to defend her position as a mature, classy woman. But, damn.

Her BRAIN is cooked.

 

[Mugenight]

shyt I've been saying this for years but about hoes in their 20s. A lot of em get outta HS and just have all kinds of babies with any damn body. They just fall the fukk off. Its all about responsibility and accountability. Take care of your mind and body, don't let fukk nikkas cum in you and be having kids they cant take care of. Stop chasing bad boys, thats the main reason why these hoes be cooked in the first place. You done chased the bad boy then he skeeted and deleted you up out his life.

I've said this shyt multiple times to multiple woman how many do you think listened?

The crazy part... they circle back gaslight and act like you never told them shyt.I'm done.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Agreed most Black men in their 20s aren’t seeking marriage. But on the flip side most Brehettes in their 20s are prioritizing looks and swag over the marriage seeking minority. Most attractive Brehettes prioritize the 6’4 breh with swag who is 9/10 in looks and 0% interest in marriage over the 5’10 breh with a cool personality who is 7/10 in looks and marriage minded. If you speak to 35+ attractive Brehettes a lot of them regret passing on marriage minded men when they were younger in their prime.

It seems you don’t realize how the game works and how attractive women across demos get wifed generally speaking. They stop entertaining the most attractive men who they can get who are not marriage minded (usually by age 25 max) and focus on slightly less attractive (not ugly) men who are more marriage minded. Brehettes don’t do that in large numbers until they’re out of their prime.

First, you’re exaggerating with 6’4. You are confusing wanting the most attractive, with being attracted to. There has to be enough physical attraction for you to be the last man she wants to touch. And you’re admitting the average brehs want the attractive women. So you think it’s fine for men to want to get to know a woman because she’s attractive, but women can’t reject based on looks. Most couples regardless of race are equal in looks, unless the man has money.

And I’m not disagreeing that black women focus on the wrong things. I’m just saying it’s not as simple as choosing a certain type. Personalities and lifestyles have to be compatible, and that is different according to individuals. A woman can date nothing but nerds, and still have bad relationships. And she could have a terrible personality, and ruin a relationship with the perfect man.

 

[Meowth tote da Uzi]

I've said this shyt multiple times to multiple woman how many do you think listened?

The crazy part... they circle back gaslight and act like you never told them shyt.I'm done.

Women in America don't take accountability for shyt and they're trained to ruin their lives and act like victims.

 

[lib123]

First, you’re exaggerating with 6’4. You are confusing wanting the most attractive, with being attracted to. There has to be enough physical attraction for you to be the last man she wants to touch. And you’re admitting the average brehs want the attractive women. So you think it’s fine for men to want to get to know a woman because she’s attractive, but women can’t reject based on looks. Most couples regardless of race are equal in looks, unless the man has money.

And I’m not disagreeing that black women focus on the wrong things. I’m just saying it’s not as simple as choosing a certain type. Personalities and lifestyles have to be compatible, and that is different according to individuals. A woman can date nothing but nerds, and still have bad relationships. And she could have a terrible personality, and ruin a relationship with the perfect man.

No I’m not exaggerating. Attractive brehettes with options don’t know how to choose the right men in their primes in large numbers because their goofy parents never guided them. And the point is most of them filter out the type of men who would be more likely to marry them before taking into account personalities and character. Even Black women who work as relationship coaches have said this.



WE ASKED TWO BLACK WOMEN HELPING OTHER SISTERS FIND LOVE WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON WITH THE DATING SCENE.

ESSENCE.COM: Do you feel Black women and men are too particular when it comes to potential dating candidates?

FISHER: We found that as opposed to the White clients that we’ve had, Black women are usually looking for physical attributes first. We look for someone who is attractive to us and then we pick up on his hobbies, interests and values. Whereas, White clients are looking for the reverse first. What kind of job does he have? Is he going to be able to provide? Then they circle back.

GILMORE: We’re the first ones to look at men’s bodies and how attractive they are whereas our White clients have a long list of requirements of things like character and integrity…

FISHER: …and, then down the line, it backfires for us because you were never a compatible mix to start with.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I was waiting for this. Goodness, I really thought she was going to defend her position as a mature, classy woman. But, damn.

Her BRAIN is cooked.

The first thing women hear when men say this is they don’t look as good as the younger women. A woman’s looks are what make you want to talk to her in the first place. You’re not seeing a woman from across the room, and thinking, “She looks like a nice, intelligent woman.” And if you do, you’re not going to talk to an unattractive woman, because you think she’s nice. Relationships require physical things. If she checks all your boxes, but the sex is wack, are you sticking around because she has a good head on her shoulders?

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

No I’m not exaggerating. Attractive brehettes with options don’t know how to choose the right men in their primes in large numbers because their goofy parents never guided them. And the point is most of them filter out the type of men who would be more likely to marry them before taking into account personalities and character. Even Black women who work as relationship coaches have said this.



WE ASKED TWO BLACK WOMEN HELPING OTHER SISTERS FIND LOVE WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON WITH THE DATING SCENE.

ESSENCE.COM: Do you feel Black women and men are too particular when it comes to potential dating candidates?

FISHER: We found that as opposed to the White clients that we’ve had, Black women are usually looking for physical attributes first. We look for someone who is attractive to us and then we pick up on his hobbies, interests and values. Whereas, White clients are looking for the reverse first. What kind of job does he have? Is he going to be able to provide? Then they circle back.

GILMORE: We’re the first ones to look at men’s bodies and how attractive they are whereas our White clients have a long list of requirements of things like character and integrity…

FISHER: …and, then down the line, it backfires for us because you were never a compatible mix to start with.

Please google “not attracted to husband” and read. Women file for divorce more than men. All those white women are not living in marital bliss. Again, I’m not saying you’re wrong, but you are only seeing one side. Maybe I have PTSD because I experienced this once, but I swore I’d never be with a woman who only wanted me for my “qualities” again. No man is going to be happy in a marriage where his wife isn’t enthusiastic about sex. That doesn’t happen because you’re stable.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

I’ll just say this

Paul and other athletes/entertainers live in a whole different world than the rest of us and many of them can still bag 25-29 year old chicks

And just as many of them are simps who end up getting finessed out of millions of their dollars and raising children in broken homes because they care more about what a woman looks like than what kind of person she is.

Entertainers are great role models for what not to do if you have wealth and a platform. Note how nobody ever hears anything about Courtney B Vance and Angela Basset or Boris Kodjoe and Nicole Ari Parker. These people actually chose people whose values and attitude aligns with their own. Meanwhile I struggle to think of any pro athlete off the top of my head whose relationships and relationship failures isn't in the public eye every few months.

 

[god shamgod]

I know a 36 year old with 3 kids & 2 baby daddies who is cute af but not worthy of the shyt trickin old & young dudes do for her

This may be pierces point of view cuz he a former nba star ,but I know multiple 30+ women with kids who have lames with dough trickin they literally show me the zelle/cash app payments

It’s mad lames out here fukkin up the game

 

[Bone Bender]

Is Paul Pierce gonna turn into those pathetic 50+ year old dudes creeping on girls barely out of high school or college?

 

[Apollo Creed]

I think he means jaded and/or set in their ways (good and bad). The same stuff y’all be saying.

Many women will tell you they burnt out by 30, which its why you see the fake ass soft life pivot. Too Arrogant and prideful to admit the path they were sold didnt work out for em, I know hella chicks salty as fukk the college BF they bushed for their "Career" is happily married with kids and they getting drunk with wine every night and some dirty ass dog/cat living in their apartment.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I know a 36 year old with 3 kids & 2 baby daddies who is cute af but not worthy of the shyt trickin old & young dudes do for her

This may be pierces point of view cuz he a former nba star ,but I know multiple 30+ women with kids who have lames with dough trickin they literally show me the zelle/cash app payments

It’s mad lames out here fukkin up the game

The issue is Western Culture has been hijacked with prostituion culture. Usually the washed shyt is you aren't in position for someone to want to commit and create a family with you which is the ultimate goal for many square people, this is why people use things from prostituion as a victory such as "I cans till get tricked on", but then be sick when the same trick is tricking on numerous women lol

 

[lib123]

Please google “not attracted to husband” and read. Women file for divorce more than men. All those white women are not living in marital bliss. Again, I’m not saying you’re wrong, but you are only seeing one side. Maybe I have PTSD because I experienced this once, but I swore I’d never be with a woman who only wanted me for my “qualities” again. No man is going to be happy in a marriage where his wife isn’t enthusiastic about sex. That doesn’t happen because you’re stable.

I’m not seeing one side. I’m aware of what you’re talking about as far as women being miserable married to men they’re not attracted to. The point is among attractive women across all demographics that I’ve come across, the ones who are by and large much better off avoided non-marriage minded men while they were still in their primes and chose up on slightly less attractive men who were marriage minded. The women you’re referencing are married to men they were never attracted to.

Attractive brehettes in their primes are passing on men who are 6-7/10 as far as looks who would make good long-term partners for men who they consider 9-10/10 as far as looks but have no interest in being monogamous and trying to make those men into good long-term partners which has a 99% failure rate.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

Remember... athletes deal with . mostly white n non black chicks....

I'm 38 and still look 25, and when I see white women/men my Age ,they be looking like my Elders! I be wanting to say yes/ no ma'am they look so old.

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