Pay $380 A WEEK in child support only for your daughter to wear shoes with gaping holes, brehs

[BaldingSoHard]

You wanna raise your children muslim and she does not?

dump her and find a muslim broad.. otherwise you're going into making a baby with someone who has the complete opposite expectations as you?

If you can't find a new woman or find one who will listen to your plans or expects the same then from life as you, you lost fam

Nah. Clearly she didn't know they had differences of opinion on how to raise kids before they had kids and she just changed up one day out of the blue.



Breh was dead serious with that dumb shyt.

 

[smokeurobinson]

You wanna raise your children muslim and she does not?

dump her and find a muslim broad.. otherwise you're going into making a baby with someone who has the complete opposite expectations as you?

If you can't find a new woman or find one who will listen to your plans or expects the same then from life as you, you lost fam

You sound like someone who has no children yet feels entitled to speak on a topic u have zero experience in.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Easy p*ssy is NEVER easy.

I REMEMBER my uncle vividly telling my male cousin that if a female will LET u fukk her raw...that’s probably a good indication that u shouldn’t.
shyt was so simple yet so profound.

People in my family ain’t play them games. Everybody’s feelings could get hurt on any day.

“Ya’ll young cats ain’t fukking u who need to fukk, u fukking who u can, b/c u ain’t worth a damn so the only p*ssy you got access to is some shyt u ain’t got no business sticking ya dikk in. bytches that’ll ruin yo life.”


More and more I see how right my elders were about a LOTTA shyt. I used to think my family was rude and crazy and melodramatic, but damn if they aint earn their right to say “I told you so.”

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Easy p*ssy is NEVER easy.

I REMEMBER my uncle vividly telling my male cousin that if a female will LET u fukk her raw...that’s probably a good indication that u shouldn’t.
shyt was so simple yet so profound.

People in my family ain’t play them games. Everybody’s feelings could get hurt on any day.

“Ya’ll young cats ain’t fukking u who need to fukk, u fukking who u can, b/c u ain’t worth a damn so the only p*ssy you got access to is some shyt u ain’t got no business sticking ya dikk in. bytches that’ll ruin yo life.”


More and more I see how right my elders were about a LOTTA shyt. I used to think my family was rude and crazy and melodramatic, but damn if they aint earn their right to say “I told you so.”

So true.

If I could go back and give myself one piece of advice, I would tell myself to invest in Apple stock in the 90's.

If I could go back and give myself TWO pieces of advice, I would tell myself to invest in Apple stock in the 90's, and LISTEN TO MY DAMN PARENTS.

 

[The Fade]

How often is he actually seeing his daughter if the whole damn sole fell out the shoe before he learned about it.



"I'm not allowed to see my daughter"


Seems like there's a lot of the story he's leaving out if the mom is as unfit as he's painting her to be yet she's the one with full and exclusive custody.

I know family dude who’s ex is strung out on Kratom and other drugs, he even adopted his stepkids

There is no leaving out nothing. He still pays her whatever she wants because he cares for the kids and she won’t let him see the kids unless he supervised by dad. The kids tell the mom to stop making the dad miserable. He is trying to get her off drugs with her father

The Dad ain’t always the fukking bad guy. I had a family friend that died partly because of his ex making it hard for him

 

[Jhoon]

why is it hard to change the system so every single DIME of child support goes directly in a fund for the child that the mother cannot touch without repercussions (like jail time)?.....sick of these laws protecting these bytches....

Because we are trying to use outliers as the norm. This thread is male propaganda at its finest.

 

[Heretic]

something is fishy about this story

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

So true.

If I could go back and give myself one piece of advice, I would tell myself to invest in Apple stock in the 90's.

If I could go back and give myself TWO pieces of advice, I would tell myself to invest in Apple stock in the 90's, and LISTEN TO MY DAMN PARENTS.

My parents had absolutely no qualms about making me feel like utter shyt if I didn’t do what I was supposed to do. And it was an equal opportunity kill zone. Boy, girl, pet, plant, Moses. Anybody could get that work.

“Da fukk u majoring in that for? U don’t even draw good enough for that shyt. Don’t think u gon come back over here and live off us when you got dem damn student loans trying to be a free spirit. Yo room is ya mom’s nursery now.”


“How slow u gotta be to get pregnant when u can pop a pill, take a shot, use a rubber, get his wack dikk outta u?!”


“Whatchu mean she a dumb hoe?! U fukking her and made a baby with her so u a dumb hoe too!!! Only u a dumb hoe with less rights over YO seed!”

“Da fukk u crying for! More u cry the less u piss!”

“Can ya sorry ass put Call of Duty on yo resume?”

I come from an etherous bloodline. Now imagine that multiplied by everybody on both sides of the family. Because if u fukk up it’s a free for all in my family. By the time we were in middle school, nobody had to physically hit us. Just the sheer irritation from getting ethered and roasted again and again and again by multiple people every time u saw them was enough to say fukk it to doing most stupid shyt.

 

[The Radiant One]

Just pay the money and be done with it.

the baby mom pulled some false accusations got them cleared without damaging my job and now just pay the money.

Also nikkas love clowning nikkas who pay child support but want love for ex convicts lol

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Red flags my ass.......Act like people dont just change after years go by......Act like conflicts after a child arrives doesn't exist. I wanna raise my child a certain way and she wants to raise the child another way. I dont want my child eating pork but she doesnt mind feeding the child pork. I wanna raise my child Muslim while she wants to get him baptized. I want to send my child to bording school while she wants to home school. Conflicts about how to raise a child will arise after the baby is here that cant be predicted beforehand.

And If either of you 2 dont have children please stay the fukk out of this conversation.

Tbh, all the examples you listed are things you should know before you even get into a relationship with the person.

If you’re finding out these things years later and After children, yea, you either ignored the flags or y’all both just have terrible communication skills.

 

[kwazzy100]

"B-but the baby daddy has no business what the mom is doing with his money"

 

[invalid]

Got the message but that shyt faker than a mf.

 

[smokeurobinson]

Tbh, all the examples you listed are things you should know before you even get into a relationship with the person.

If you’re finding out these things years later and After children, yea, you either ignored the flags or y’all both just have terrible communication skills.

U just gonna ignore the part where I said and been saying people change as years go by? You're a mom correct? Is your baby daddy the same person he was when u met him before u layed down and made that baby? I'd put money on it your answer is no.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

U just gonna ignore the part where I said and been saying people change as years go by? You're a mom correct? Is your baby daddy the same person he was when u met him before u layed down and made that baby? I'd put money on it your answer is no.

He changed. So have I. But he’s didn’t do some extreme change into a deadbeat lmao. I think that’s what people are getting at. I’ve never seen a non-shytty person turn into a shytty person like that. I have seen shytty people turn into even shyttier people though.

And usually when a relationship ends terribly, most people always think back to little things/sayings/behaviors that they overlooked, that they now know was a red flag they ignored.

 

[Eternally Jaded]

Tbh, all the examples you listed are things you should know before you even get into a relationship with the person.

If you’re finding out these things years later and After children, yea, you either ignored the flags or y’all both just have terrible communication skills.

Before children even are a thought, these conversations should be had.

Homeschooling isn't something done on a whim.
That ish takes time and commitment, so either y'all not speaking or someone ain't listening.
Same thing with expectations of faith.
You go to the mosque, she going to the church, y'all not seeing problems down the line?
Same thing even if she's not going anywhere but her family is.
She's at home on sundays, but her extended family is big church people, what you think is gonna happen when she pops out a baby.