Peridot Cares: Step 1 - Early Stages

[Malcolmxxx_23]

you just realizing nikkas be on here lying to each other

Out of 10 dudes only 2 are eating

 

[Kid McNamara]

Yes the best policy is to be upfront about sexual inexperience, if a woman cares for you she will work with you but in won't lie and tell you she'll think it's sexy. She's going to focus on your other positive traits and pray you get better at sex.

No it is not and notice how this advice directly contradicts all the things she was saying about dikk earlier in this thread.

@BlackFeet
Women don't have the ability to make you better at anything. All she can do is "pray you get better" which is the point. You can't look to a woman to help maximize your potential, that's a decision you need to make on your own. If you ain't shyt in bed, put in the work to turn that around, but you're never going to get there by being "upfront about sexual inexperience." It's not cute, it's not endearing (even though you may think it is), it's a turn off.

If you scroll back a few pages, you'll notice most of the girls in here basically admitting the above.

Lowkey, depending on the situation, this is one of the times I advocate straight up lying to a chick. Now if you known her fer a long time, and she truly likes you for who you are, then by all means tell her the real. But if she is some chick you just met, and you just trying to get a point on the board, I would act like I was about knock that thang out the park. The reality is if you haven't got good experience by age 18, you will probably have to front a little, for a chick to slide you some. Chicks are cold blooded when it comes to that.

GABOS - Game Ain't Based On Sympathy

Exactly. Now, I see @PeridotPuss dapped but gave the complete opposite advice to @BlackFeet.

Not picking on you, just trying to figure out the inconsistencies.

 

[Action Mike]

Lowkey, depending on the situation, this is one of the times I advocate straight up lying to a chick. Now if you known her fer a long time, and she truly likes you for who you are, then by all means tell her the real. But if she is some chick you just met, and you just trying to get a point on the board, I would act like I was about knock that thang out the park. The reality is if you haven't got good experience by age 18, you will probably have to front a little, for a chick to slide you some. Chicks are cold blooded when it comes to that.

GABOS - Game Ain't Based On Sympathy

Agreed. The first couple broads I was with, if I had disclosed that information...knowing them, I would have got nothing. Let my actions speak

 

[Action Mike]

No it is not and notice how this advice directly contradicts all the things she was saying about dikk earlier in this thread.

@BlackFeet
Women don't have the ability to make you better at anything. All she can do is "pray you get better" which is the point. You can't look to a woman to help maximize your potential, that's a decision you need to make on your own. If you ain't shyt in bed, put in the work to turn that around, but you're never going to get there by being "upfront about sexual inexperience." It's not cute, it's not endearing (even though you may think it is), it's a turn off.

If you scroll back a few pages, you'll notice most of the girls in here basically admitting the above.



Exactly. Now, I see @PeridotPuss dapped but gave the complete opposite advice to @BlackFeet.

Not picking on you, just trying to figure out the inconsistencies.

Welp.

@PeridotPuss breh has a point.

Guys and girls, let's just stick to our respective advice gem threads, and pop in once in while in each others.

Although the guys one is more poppin...

 

[Action Mike]

Double

 

[eufemism]

My friends say I'm funny and that I'm chill but I can't translate that to when I talk to girls

It's like I forget I have a personality and just mumble in front of a girl

I wish I could talk to them like how I talk to guys

 

[Kid McNamara]

you went the fukk in overnight dude

I've skimmed through your posts

And I've never approached a man? I got my first old head boyfriend by getting at him while I was with the young nikka I was tryna replace him with. He fukked with me off the fact I was too young to be so bold. I've never left a club without three numbers and that's not cause nikkas are so confident when I dated online I was always on private so guess who always had to send a nikka the opener

Point is, you don't know my situation and the more you talk the less you seem to know about anything legit about women.

This is what I mean. You have no clue what I'm even talking about when I say "approaching." You think it's "sending a nikka the opener."

Your whole perspective is gonna be skewed because you a big nikka no shade and you seem open about it but I don't think these nikkas should go around applying your big nikka logic, that's a different league

This is what I mean. This advice is wrong.

Listen. I don't get with fat women or ugly women, they don't even register with me. I'm not that guy. My league is the league. If you were around me, you would, without a doubt, be falling for my shyt.

And you the type I specialize in too (mixed and thin, I love the curly/natural look though).

Again, women aren't attracted to the same things that men are.

And the only basis that men seem to come up with for not listening to women as far as relationship advice is some misguided idea that the women are trying yo set them up for the okie doke.

Misunderstanding. I don't think you're maliciously setting dudes up for the fall, I actually believe you to be well intentioned. I just don't think you know what the fukk you're talking about and in my experience, most women don't. I'm not saying it as a negative. It just is what it is.

If I need to learn to catch fish, I ask a fisherman for advice. If I need to learn to hunt deer, I ask a hunter for advice. There is no such thing as you telling me how to get you. Either I figure it out or it doesn't happen.

Women give advice based on the "ideal" version of themselves, but things don't work like that.

So you can rock with that borderline "bytches aint shyt I can get anything I want from them but all I want is the p*ssy" rhetoric if you want to but i think it's a defense mechanism and ultimately isn't leading to a whole lot of consistent p*ssy for the average dude

Your advice isn't leading to any consistent p*ssy either. At least mine is pointing them in the right direction.

And it isn't about "bytches ain't shyt" (I agree, that's a defense mechanism). Even though I say some things tongue-in-cheek, it's really about guys understanding what they're dealing with and getting out of the prison of self-doubt they're in.

 

[HoloGraphic]

Expertise? Nah, breh. I'm a casual, I don't play hard games like that and when a game requires a lot of tedious work, I throw it in the bushes.

fukk that, I'd rather prove my worth for a promotion or getting a raise at work.

Enjoy life. It's okay to be a winner. Work hard, play hard. Going half assed and relaxed is boring.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

My friends say I'm funny and that I'm chill but I can't translate that to when I talk to girls

It's like I forget I have a personality and just mumble in front of a girl

I wish I could talk to them like how I talk to guys

Cause your a coward

 

[HoloGraphic]

you went the fukk in overnight dude

I've skimmed through your posts

And I've never approached a man? I got my first old head boyfriend by getting at him while I was with the young nikka I was tryna replace him with. He fukked with me off the fact I was too young to be so bold. I've never left a club without three numbers and that's not cause nikkas are so confident when I dated online I was always on private so guess who always had to send a nikka the opener

Point is, you don't know my situation and the more you talk the less you seem to know about anything legit about women. You're well spoken and type with impact but it's like a hollerin ass preacher.....all gas. Your whole perspective is gonna be skewed because you a big nikka no shade and you seem open about it but I don't think these nikkas should go around applying your big nikka logic, that's a different league

And the only basis that men seem to come up with for not listening to women as far as relationship advice is some misguided idea that the women are trying yo set them up for the okie doke. I'm sharing gems from the female world and you throwing a fukking tantrum all night why?

So you can rock with that borderline "bytches aint shyt I can get anything I want from them but all I want is the p*ssy" rhetoric if you want to but i think it's a defense mechanism and ultimately isn't leading to a whole lot of consistent p*ssy for the average dude

Also stop attacking people in this bytch, this isn't that type of thread

You been winning me over too. Want to hear what else Jesus said about you too?

 

[Kid McNamara]

It's the simple things sometimes
No gem required to be honest
Just live life
Be happy
Be social
Be tall

And u eat

@ this goofy shyt advice you giving.

They don't know how we think...and they certainly dont care. Even when we try to help them on what a female thinks lol. Don't waste your time trying to even bother to help them Peridot. Let them fail and bytch and moan like they always do.

Yea. The bolded, that's the shyt I like. That honesty.

For all the women who go around claiming that men are bitter and insecure, a lot of y'all sure take pleasure in seeing men fail. This that real bitterness and frustration coming out. Girls who type shyt like this have been hurt by dudes and love to see the get back.

Don't be like that Sassy.

They'd rather hear a beautiful lie than the ugly truth anyway.

Again with the role reversal. Dudes love hearing the truth, we just like to make sure it's coming from a reputable source. The truth is liberating for guys because our existence is improving or shutting up.

But when women hear the truth.

 

[Kid McNamara]

My friends say I'm funny and that I'm chill but I can't translate that to when I talk to girls

It's like I forget I have a personality and just mumble in front of a girl

I wish I could talk to them like how I talk to guys

My dude, @Kid McNamara @dio.nova.vvs.* @PeridotPuss @Larry Lambo @Art Barr and even @MarsPunka are in here trying to having a philosophical discussion.

nikka how dare you be in here with this type of lame shyt. Just go out and talk to girls...honestly, 5 or 6 a day, be basic (ask for the time) until you get comfortable talking to them.

You still at like level 0 my dude.

 

[PeridotPuss]

No it is not and notice how this advice directly contradicts all the things she was saying about dikk earlier in this thread.

@BlackFeet
Women don't have the ability to make you better at anything. All she can do is "pray you get better" which is the point. You can't look to a woman to help maximize your potential, that's a decision you need to make on your own. If you ain't shyt in bed, put in the work to turn that around, but you're never going to get there by being "upfront about sexual inexperience." It's not cute, it's not endearing (even though you may think it is), it's a turn off.

If you scroll back a few pages, you'll notice most of the girls in here basically admitting the above.



Exactly. Now, I see @PeridotPuss dapped but gave the complete opposite advice to @BlackFeet.

Not picking on you, just trying to figure out the inconsistencies.

I sometimes dap as an indication I will be replying shortly.

 

[PeridotPuss]

You been winning me over too. Want to hear what else Jesus said about you too?

do share

 

[Kid McNamara]

I sometimes dap as an indication I will be replying shortly.

Ah, true true. No worries.