Peridot Cares: Step 1 - Early Stages

[Scott Larock]

Sexism and it's resulting male resentment

Not really and sexism isn't really a valid argument due to the fact that since inception women were need to be completely submissive to men from patriarchy. Your message really doesn't hold any weight were living in a time were women have equal rights to men so you will have issues. I go by what I see and that's the action of women is completely random so I cannot put a reply on all I have to label it individually and move on.

Going forward men will haver to adjust and change the old mentality many men still have and learn what equality means.

Point is you can be a good girl who was once a slut out be a slut turned house wife I cannot judge by your post on this subject.

 

[Kid McNamara]

This like taking free throw advice from Shaq or financial advice from "Hammer"

Fire.

this is like a boisterous fat nikka holding on to the dream, you the madder most vocal nikka in this thread. you trying to point out discrepancies where there are none. Whether you agree with me or not is kinda irrelevant and I think you should take the same attitude but do you, but you insulting me like shyt just for speaking my truth, you keep eating off being the big boy too confident for the friend zone. ..I'll keep existing as a double minority in a racist and sexist country that has seemingly figured out how to be successful with zero effort we need to move along you posting too damn heavy and trying to dominate in this thread. Tis rude.

That's the next joint. A comment about me being fat (namecalling) followed by more victimization (I insulted her and she's a double minority). Then, since she has nothing to say, it's time to "move along."

Meanwhile she completely ignored all the points brought up by me and countless other cats in this thread.

This shyt is like clockwork, now I know I could get this girl. EASY. I got about 31 levels, you got about 4.

And this the person you want to take advice from?

 

[Guile]

@PeridotPuss you too light to be using the n word so liberally , stop it .

 

[PeridotPuss]

Fire.



That's the next joint. A comment about me being fat (namecalling) followed by more victimization (I insulted her and she's a double minority). Then, since she has nothing to say, it's time to "move along."

Meanwhile she completely ignored all the points brought up by me and countless other cats in this thread.

This shyt is like clockwork, now I know I could get this girl. EASY. I got about 31 levels, you got about 4.

And this the person you want to take advice from?

I'm legit at work and we got busy I can't invest in a true back to back with you and your bulldozing the thread and it's wack imo so I'm on the fence about how much play to even give you but keep thinking you daughtering a bytch.

I don't care that you're fat and I didn't mean it as an insult but a fat person reality and relationships often differ and their approaches have diff angles bc fat is a flaw that can't be hidden. You're warped basically and you don't even know it because you've always had to compenate for your weight.

 

[Kid McNamara]

I'm legit at work and we got busy I can't invest in a true back to back with you and your bulldozing the thread and it's wack imo so I'm on the fence about how much play to even give you but keep thinking you daughtering a bytch.

I don't care that you're fat and I didn't mean it as an insult but a fat person reality and relationships often differ and their approaches have diff angles bc fat is a flaw that can't be hidden. You're warped basically and you don't even know it because you've always had to compenate for your weight.

bytches y'all.

Now ask yourselves, can your life really improve by listening to their advice?

 

[Sassy]

Yea. The bolded, that's the shyt I like. That honesty.

For all the women who go around claiming that men are bitter and insecure, a lot of y'all sure take pleasure in seeing men fail. This that real bitterness and frustration coming out. Girls who type shyt like this have been hurt by dudes and love to see the get back.

Don't be like that Sassy.

Not hurt or bitter, Just brutally honest. Don't get those two confused. I don't take pleasure of seeing anyone fail...But I do take pleasure of pissing people off though with my honesty ^_^ carry on .

 

[Vice Queen]

I'm legit at work and we got busy I can't invest in a true back to back with you and your bulldozing the thread and it's wack imo so I'm on the fence about how much play to even give you but keep thinking you daughtering a bytch.

I don't care that you're fat and I didn't mean it as an insult but a fat person reality and relationships often differ and their approaches have diff angles bc fat is a flaw that can't be hidden. You're warped basically and you don't even know it because you've always had to compenate for your weight.

 

[Incogno]

Like the thread and have heard interesting views from both sides here, but I have an inquiry for @PeridotPuss and the rest of the ladies who would be so kind to chip in...

I've read the importance of sex, and a man knowing what he's doing in the bedroom, however most ladies already know not every man will be so hot here.

in my opinion.....i don't think sex is important unless you have an established connection with a man...unless you are truly in love...i always hear "sex is important!".....but i don't think sex is important unless there is truly love present

... of course.....a lot of people aren't going to agree with me on that...and believe me i'm not saying this to sound "superior"....i'm waiting until marriage to engage in intercourse...

and a lot of people make fun of that

 

[Giselle]

"Liking" and "attracted to" are diff tho. I think you can grow to like someone but attraction is pretty black and white.

A person with a great personality can appear to be more attractive than they actually are, just like a person with a terrible personality can make people find them less attractive or weaken a person's attraction to them.

The people in the stories were dating/fcking. I don't think they would be with someone if there is zero attraction. Maybe if he was rich, but the men in the stories were not rich.

 

[god shamgod]

My friends say I'm funny and that I'm chill but I can't translate that to when I talk to girls

It's like I forget I have a personality and just mumble in front of a girl

I wish I could talk to them like how I talk to guys

@PeridotPuss are you gonna give this kid advice instead of arguing with kid mcmara sasquatch lookin ass?

 

[PeridotPuss]

@PeridotPuss are you gonna give this kid advice instead of arguing with kid mcmara sasquatch lookin ass?

@eufemism

Something I read somewhere once really stuck with me "talk to everyone you meet as if you already know them"

Meaning the same genuine intwrest and comfort you feel with your friends, emulate that with cashiers, coworkers, kids, practice. You're tyring to overcome a mental hurdle. It's harder than people will give you credit for.

I'm not uncomfortable around new men because I think 1. If don't accept NOT everyone will like you or think you're cute/cool and that's OKAY then don't even try 2. If someone just HATES you and thinks your super awkward, then what? Play it all the way out, you're still obligated to be the best you, your life don't change, you still gotta go to work, they not paying your bills and 9/10 it's NOT even personal.

Just relax and practice with people your not familiar with, but not attracted to and then build up over time. Sparking convo with ransom women. YES IT WILL FEEL AWKWARD. but stick with it. You have to break out of the fake mental hold. So you can experience the relationships you want. You deserve it.
Good luck!

 

[Arishok]

We most definitely are not.

The point is, our attractiveness and what we bring to the table can grow on women. If I don't find you attractive, there is little you can do to change my mind because you're an object of desire to me, your physical appearance matters...a lot. I've never seen a woman charm her way into a guy liking her, it doesn't happen.

Men charm and confidence there way into p*ssy all the time though. So, at first appearance, a dude may not be all that. But if he gets into a situation where he can display his drive, ambition, intellect, humor, or wit, girls who previously were indifferent will find him attractive. If a guy gets into a situation where his leadership skills are on display, women will find him attractive.

Matter of fact, I'd say that dudes who attract girls by looking super handsome and stunting end up at a disadvantage (long-term).

Bruh we're damn near saying the same thing

 

[PeridotPuss]

Bruh we're damn near saying the same thing

He's just mad girl just in general

 

[Citi Trends]

The most a man can say "I'm not looking for anything serious".

The bold a RED FLAG RED FLAG

any woman over 21 worth her salt hearing that and running. Never say that.

But you said a misstep by men is "failing to make their intentions for the p*ssy clear"...if I don't say those words I'm leaving the cuffing door open in your mind. This is why honest dudes lose out cause "women over 21" run after hearing that.

No, just deal with women who also don't want commitment, or commit they are not marriages, you can leave at any time. Lying your way into the p*ssy only ends poorly for all.

what an amazing example of why this thread and taking any advice from women on this is fukking retarded. They cant even get their own shyt right, and you taking advice from a ratchet one.

 

[Arishok]

He's just mad girl just in general

He keeps bringing up appearance like I said that's the only thing a woman can find attractive about a guy which it clearly isn't

I've already mentioned everything he said in his last quote and even stated I was wrong and bruh still tryna argue a point I wasn't making