Peridot Cares: Step 1 - Early Stages

PeridotPuss

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:dead::dead::dead: what an amazing example of why this thread and taking any advice from women on this is fukking retarded. They cant even get their own shyt right, and you taking advice from a ratchet one.

:francis: stop and you're barely over 21 right?
 

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I'm not seeing any error of what she said :leostare:
she said never say those words and any good woman who hears that will go running

then when the guy asks how is he supposed to be upfront with his intentions and not say those words she says:
1. to "deal with women who aren't looking for commitment" idk how this is supposed to happen if he doesn't make his intentions clear with those words and if any good woman won't go for it
2. "just commit. you can leave any time" which has to be the dumbest thing i've ever heard because if you're not looking for commitment why would you just commit, but then she adds not to lie to get into p*ssy which sends us back into a paradox with these contradictions :francis:
 

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Dear @PeridotPuss

My girl posts really ridiculous retarded things on Facebook and I feel like it could hold her back professionally, not to mention it annoys me. How can I tell her she needs to chill out without starting a fight :lupe:

Thanks,
Clutch
 

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she said never say those words and any good woman who hears that will go running

then when the guy asks how is he supposed to be upfront with his intentions and not say those words she says:
1. to "deal with women who aren't looking for commitment" idk how this is supposed to happen if he doesn't make his intentions clear with those words and if any good woman won't go for it
2. "just commit. you can leave any time" which has to be the dumbest thing i've ever heard because if you're not looking for commitment why would you just commit, but then she adds not to lie to get into p*ssy which sends us back into a paradox with these contradictions :francis:
There are more ways to get sex than saying "I'm not looking for anything serious atm" though :patrice:
 

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she said never say those words and any good woman who hears that will go running

then when the guy asks how is he supposed to be upfront with his intentions and not say those words she says:
1. to "deal with women who aren't looking for commitment" idk how this is supposed to happen if he doesn't make his intentions clear with those words and if any good woman won't go for it
2. "just commit. you can leave any time" which has to be the dumbest thing i've ever heard because if you're not looking for commitment why would you just commit, but then she adds not to lie to get into p*ssy which sends us back into a paradox with these contradictions :francis:
Maybe I can clear some of this up. Maybe.

1. Don't say it first. I repeat, do not tell a woman you're not looking for commitment first. Ask the woman, what are you looking for? Put on a damn good poker face which won't influence what she says. Get her a drink or two to give her the liquid courage to be more honest. If she says commitment, then say, "Well, I'm not, so this might not work." She will back track and try to say, "well, it's not that important" but it is because she already said so. If you say it first, she will say that she's not either just to get in and then try to change your mind and then you'll be arguing about when you're getting married and bomb, either a resentful marriage or you leave each other alone before you make that mistake.

2. Follow number one and you won't have to lie.

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Dear @PeridotPuss

My girl posts really ridiculous retarded things on Facebook and I feel like it could hold her back professionally, not to mention it annoys me. How can I tell her she needs to chill out without starting a fight :lupe:

Thanks,
Clutch

Dear Clutch,

First, consider how much this is really impacting YOUR life? First question to ask yourself, before you address another, is it that serious :jbhmm:

Now, if the answer is yes, step 2, do you do ANYTHING CLOSE to the same shyt? :dwillhuh: twerk videos, pictures with white women, etc. Anything that can potentially piss a bytch off. If you wanna correct a bytch, you HAVE to come correct or you will eventually take an L, even of you're point is right :scust:

Now, if you're being affected AND you don't do the same shyt let her know :dwillhuh: "babe, that's not a good look. I'm with you because I love your class and professionalism. Some of that stuff you post makes you look like a woman I know you're not. To be totally real, I think we should both work on being positive online for a while. Working on something together would be cool."

:blessed: p*ssy heaven. Play smart.

- Peridot cares
 
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