Peridot Cares: Step 1 - Early Stages

[Kid McNamara]

It's not? @PeridotPuss is a woman and already said they are just like men. If there's no initial attraction then there's nothing you can do. And what is initial attraction based on normally..something external. External usually means face, height, body built.

My dude, do you really believe every woman is walking around with Lance Gross on they arm? A lot of women blessed with great beauty are walking around with bummy dudes man. Check your pants nikka, you have the balls.

That's the point, women say all kinds of dumb shyt. Find a dude to put you up on game instead of listening to some bird brain woman.

Here's a start:

Are Today’s Men Scared of p*ssy? (Women upgrades looks based on affection, broke nikkas get more dimes than rich nikkas, height really doesn't matter)

The Rules Revisited: 5 Ways That Men Misunderstand Women (go straight to #5)

www.beigephillip.com

And even read through some of the posts in this thread.

Now you just quoting so someone can go back and forth with you, ignored

bytch gotta make an ignore announcement.

 

[Redguard]

 

[Reginald Noble]

Ways nikkas (that a bytch actually likes) often fukk up include: trying to skirt around paying for dates/being cheap, failing to make intentions for the p*ssy clear or activate a woman's sexual side, trying too hard, juggling too many women (no matter how tight your game, we know, even if you don't think we know, we know), trying to cut her off and then get back..... and the classic getting caught in irrelevant lies.

Much of these games can simply be side-stepped/avoided by not dealing with American Women.

There are some classic contradictions and blowing things out of proportion that are typical to Western females here: You are viewed as "trying too hard" when you bring flowers to a date yet are critiqued when the date doesn't cost more than a certain amount. You lie about having work that night and you were really tying up loose ends so that you could be with this new girl 100%. Then she smashes any chances of you being into her by throwing a bi-polar fit over you trying to clean up your past for her. Conversely, you are expected to ignore rumors and third party intel revealing her true body count and "don't judge".

90% of this you don't have to deal with when engaging with non-American females. There are other challenges no doubt, but they aren't stupid ones. Oh and the whole "trying to cut her off then get back" you American Women bring this upon yourselves. Same thing with juggling multiple females.Guys know in the Tinder age you have multiple nikkas blowing up your phone etc and when they get hit with the one word responses off to the bushes you go.

Then when you come back because Mr. Sterling dumped you and you consider the nikka a back-up (and he knows) he switches up on you and says meet me at 11pm for netflix and chill. Then you get up on FB complaining like this nikka think I'm loose. He wasn't your first option for sex so why should you be his first option for a relationship?



I'll admit this was a good effort but a Woman will NEVER be able to give a Man proper advice on relationships.

 

[DarkHorse23]

My dude, do you really believe every woman is walking around with Lance Gross on they arm? A lot of women blessed with great beauty are walking around with bummy dudes man. Check your pants nikka, you have the balls.

That's the point, women say all kinds of dumb shyt. Find a dude to put you up on game instead of listening to some bird brain woman.

Here's a start:

Are Today’s Men Scared of p*ssy? (Women upgrades looks based on affection, broke nikkas get more dimes than rich nikkas, height really doesn't matter)

The Rules Revisited: 5 Ways That Men Misunderstand Women (go straight to #5)

www.beigephillip.com

And even read through some of the posts in this thread.




bytch gotta make an ignore announcement.

Never really seen that dude, but i guess it depends on your definition of "bummy".

 

[dark_magic]

This is what I mean fellas. Look at this. Everything falls on us, from meeting/attracting/charming women, to sex.

Most women, especially attractive ones, take no active roll in making sex pleasurable. They simply lay there and wait for commands. If it's good, you got 'em hook, if it isn't, they complain. Either way, they don't even try.

And y'all want to take advice from these people?

Very perceptive of you to notice this. Most men (myself included prior to 2 years ago) would never arrive at this level of realization.

This is called control of 'frame'. Women are absolute masters at it. Most men fit themselves into womens' frame rather than the reverse or operate within their own.

The Rational Male - Rollo Tomassi - Frame

 

[dark_magic]

Like the thread and have heard interesting views from both sides here, but I have an inquiry for @PeridotPuss and the rest of the ladies who would be so kind to chip in...

I've read the importance of sex, and a man knowing what he's doing in the bedroom, however most ladies already know not every man will be so hot here.

What then? This seems like a catch-22; how yall women wanna man to already know what to do. And I only say this 'cause this hasn't bee brought up yet, also w/ @Kid McNamara replies regarding this specific topic going un-replied to (i.e. starfishing, etc)

So what if a dude, before the 1st time yall get intimate, str8 up says he doesn't know what he's doing, and asks for your help in helping him progress sexually so he can love u right. Genuinely receptive, no pride issues or anything like that. Whether he gets it right eventually isn't the point here, I'm talking before this would be determined. Is this what yall women expect in-lieu of sexual mastery?

Or does this take from the experience, and ultimately fall back under ole' girl resenting you and being dissatisfied? And just sticking to guys that already know what to do in the bedroom?

The Rational Male - Rollo Tomassi - Just Get It

 

[Kid McNamara]

Very perceptive of you to notice this. Most men (myself included prior to 2 years ago) would never arrive at this level of realization.

This is called control of 'frame'. Women are absolute masters at it. Most men fit themselves into womens' frame rather than the reverse or operate within their own.

The Rational Male - Rollo Tomassi - Frame

True indeed. And nikkas who follow a woman's lead and allow themselves to be defined by a woman are bound to drown.

 

[Lo-Co]

Abortion? The amount of alcohol I drink in a week will prevent any pregnancy from occurring.

 

[Low_key]

I see a lot of nikkas complaining about the fact We have to be leaders when it comes to women talking bout "if we dont do it then it dosen't get done" THATS why we are MEN. Every nikka is born wit a pair of nuts, the reason a lot of yall are having p*ssy problems is because u act like a damn woman. As a man u cant be thinking bout all of that irrelevant shyt and complaining that women dont go through the same struggles to get sex.thats some bytch shyt. u need to assert your position and keep it moving if shorty not wit it. How u expecting to smash bad bytches when you cant even understand the what role yall are supposed to play. All these bytches want is a real man, dealing with their attitudes and inconsistencies comes with that. you don't gotta be a thug to be a real man just stop acting like u got a vagina. The only time i complain about bytches is if my bytch not playing her role right because we supposed to both have each other, But if a bytch aint mine she dont owe me shyt and i dont owe her shyt

 

[Sccit]

NOW SOME1 TELL HER GOOD JOB AND TEACH HER HOW TO PROPERLY GET A DICC FULLY HARD

 

[PeridotPuss]

NOW SOME1 TELL HER GOOD JOB AND TEACH HER HOW TO PROPERLY GET A DICC FULLY HARD

Why you acting like a groupie hoe in my threads tho? We just met

 

[Sccit]

Why you acting like a groupie hoe in my threads tho? We just met

HI, NICE TO MEET YOU


I WAS LOOKIN THRU THE FEATURED THREADS AND THOUGHT IT WAS CUTE HOW YOU TRYNA EDUCATE DUDES ABOUT GETTIN SOME


CARRY ON BABYGIRL........

 

[Solano707]

As some other female posters have pointed out, there are some brehs on the coli struggling with the women. Clearly.

This does not apply to you six figure, six cert, game knowing non fukkboy nikkas

this is a safe space for those who may need to hear it straight from a woman. I'm only trying to help forreal. Marty Kaan thread that went left about which nikkas were actually talking to women got me thinking


This is the hard truth is if she is NOT attracted to you there is NOTHING you can do to change that. NOTHING.

Be cautious because women WILL deal with men they are NOT attracted to, but you will likely get the runaround at best. Just because she's responding DOESN'T mean she likes you.

Now, IF she is attracted to you, it's your game to lose. And most nikkas figure our ways to lose quickly.

That beta/alpha or whatever its called advice will have you fukked up, that gems on women thread will have you fukked up, you can smash with those tactics, on occassion, but you're only exposing yourself to insecure women who will not be an asset to your life as a young man. That's poor planning. I'm watching nikkas plot on how to stick their dikks in their downfall.

A woman that likes you will only take you making her feel unimportant for so long before she either a. Replaces you b. Retaliates and throws tantrums c. fukks your entire life up out of hurt and anger/entitlement.

Conditioning makes women feel they need to be important to men to be valuable. Your game isn't going to break that conditioning, it's only going to get people hurt when you start plucking at wounds and ultimately you will get less p*ssy in the long game.

Ways nikkas (that a bytch actually likes) often fukk up include: trying to skirt around paying for dates/being cheap, failing to make intentions for the p*ssy clear or activate a woman's sexual side, trying too hard, juggling too many women (no matter how tight your game, we know, even if you don't think we know, we know), trying to cut her off and then get back..... and the classic getting caught in irrelevant lies.

I only share this because, Peridot cares.

Gotta say, this was pretty good insight. I know I'm late on the game lol

 

[Hashy]

This is the hard truth is if she is NOT attracted to you there is NOTHING you can do to change that. NOTHING.

/QUOTE]

Killed so many brehs with this line

 

[Dreamzeedream]

How do u chang me it

People don't understand that you put out frequencies and people on a similar frequency will pick up on that. If you don't like the people you're picking up on that frequency, change your frequency. That goes for men and women. But it is easier said than done and maintaining a frequency is easier for some than adjusting it.


But this will be ignored because it's perceived to be coming from a place of emotion and not logic.