Peridot Cares: Step 1 - Early Stages

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I wish it were that simple. In truth, it should work like this. It really should. And I'm sure it does happen that way in many cases, but there are too many other variables at play here besides her feelings.

What is the nature of the non-commital relationship? Are you going to the movies and dinner and other couple-like things? Are you asking about each others lives? Are you getting to know one another while getting to know other people? Is it just sex?

For me, a non-committed relationship is just sex. Don't call and talk to me. Don't expect me to call you for anything, even sex. Don't do couple things with me. I don't want to meet your parents, your friends, none of that. I don't exist until you want to stick your dikk in me. It sounds messed up but it saves me a lot of trouble getting caught up in bullshyt. And definitely expect other people to be in the picture. If you don't want a commitment and keep it casual, you should be as cold as possible. But that's just me.


I'm starting to like you. That smug look on your face in your avi makes me think you're the type of chick who I can break down and have you yelling obscenities at me and crying in a rage after the drugs wear off from the abortion.







:snoop: Good god I think I need help!
 

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nikka 1. Why does a noncommittal nikka feel entitled to a "good woman" (assuming "good women" want to commit - young nikka huh?) 2. Anyone can walk out of any relationship at any time that's a fact of free will.

Youre inexperienced but intelligent .Good nite once more.
:dahell: what the hell are you talking about? Good women can't want to have something with no strings attached? If a dude wanted to just shack up with a reckless hoe he would and would have even less reason to look at this thread. I know you can walk out of a relationship, but it's pretty shytty to just commit to someone because you didn't want to say you didn't want commitment at the time.

also I have more life experience than you could think up for a shytty self-help forum post with the shyt i've been through in my 20 years.
 

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I'm starting to like you. That smug look on your face in your avi makes me think you're the type of chick who I can break down and have you yelling obscenities at me and crying in a rage after the drugs wear off from the abortion.







:snoop: Good god I think I need help!
Abortion? The amount of alcohol I drink in a week will prevent any pregnancy from occurring.
 

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:dahell: what the hell are you talking about? Good women can't want to have something with no strings attached? If a dude wanted to just shack up with a reckless hoe he would and would have even less reason to look at this thread. I know you can walk out of a relationship, but it's pretty shytty to just commit to someone because you didn't want to say you didn't want commitment at the time.

also I have more life experience than you could think up for a shytty self-help forum post with the shyt i've been through in my 20 years.

The forum you all up in asking questions and missing the point in? :francis: the only person currently in this thead that seems confused or emotional is you. Relax please lol :mjlol:
 

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The forum you all up in asking questions and missing the point in? :francis: the only person currently in this thead that seems confused or emotional is you. Relax please lol :mjlol:
:heh: we playing that game now lol? welp enjoy your shytty thread and dont quote me hours later because it's dying again:salute:
 

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As some other female posters have pointed out, there are some brehs on the coli struggling with the women. Clearly.

This does not apply to you six figure, six cert, game knowing non fukkboy nikkas

this is a safe space for those who may need to hear it straight from a woman. I'm only trying to help :whoa: forreal. Marty Kaan thread that went left about which nikkas were actually talking to women got me thinking:patrice:


This is the hard truth is if she is NOT attracted to you there is NOTHING you can do to change that. NOTHING. :mjcry:

Be cautious because women WILL deal with men they are NOT attracted to, but you will likely get the runaround at best. Just because she's responding DOESN'T mean she likes you.:whoa:

Now, IF she is attracted to you, it's your game to lose. :leon:And most nikkas figure our ways to lose quickly.:dahell:

That beta/alpha or whatever its called advice will have you fukked up, that gems on women thread will have you fukked up, you can smash with those tactics, on occassion, but you're only exposing yourself to insecure women who will not be an asset to your life as a young man. That's poor planning. I'm watching nikkas plot on how to stick their dikks in their downfall. :scusthov:

A woman that likes you will only take you making her feel unimportant for so long before she either a. Replaces you b. Retaliates and throws tantrums c. fukks your entire life up out of hurt and anger/entitlement.

Conditioning makes women feel they need to be important to men to be valuable. Your game isn't going to break that conditioning, it's only going to get people hurt when you start plucking at wounds and ultimately you will get less p*ssy in the long game. :shaq2:

Ways nikkas (that a bytch actually likes) often fukk up include: trying to skirt around paying for dates/being cheap, failing to make intentions for the p*ssy clear or activate a woman's sexual side, trying too hard, juggling too many women (no matter how tight your game, we know, even if you don't think we know, we know), trying to cut her off and then get back..... and the classic getting caught in irrelevant lies.:mindblown:

I only share this because, Peridot cares.

This kind of confirms what i realize about dating. It's really just about LOOKS/PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. I think personality(and everything else) is secondary if not irrelevant. Yes a guy could talk himself out of the p*ssy, but generally speaking a guy(or woman) can have the personality of a rock but if they're physically attractive they will get sex. They might lose out on opportunities because of a poor personality but they will never be alone at the end of the day.
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^ If you like them you will always have SOMEONE who will put up with your bullshyt. Always :manny:

Good Looks> Personality, Money, Status & Everything else
 

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This kind of confirms what i realize about dating. It's really just about LOOKS/PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. I think personality(and everything else) is secondary if not irrelevant. Yes a guy could talk himself out of the p*ssy, but generally speaking a guy(or woman) can have the personality of a rock but if they're physically attractive they will get sex. They might lose out on opportunities because of a poor personality but they will never be alone at the end of the day.
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^ If you like them you will always have SOMEONE who will put up with your bullshyt. Always :manny:

Good Looks> Personality, Money, Status & Everything else

i always felt being told to be yourself was semi-bull. felt like it only applied if you were someone people wanted to be with and people wanted to be you.
 

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@eufemism

Something I read somewhere once really stuck with me "talk to everyone you meet as if you already know them"

I'm not uncomfortable around new men because

She supposed to be helping guys out, but all she can talk about is her experience.

You feel comfortable around new men because you have a p*ssy and men are always trying to make you feel comfortable around them. That's why taking advice from a ho doesn't work.

Bruh we're damn near saying the same thing :leostare:

Not at all. We actually said something completely different but now you're double-talking.

You: If a woman doesn't find you attractive then that initial contact is dead before it even started.
Me: As a man, we can build attraction over time. The initial contact doesn't matter as much. *laces with game*
You: No, it's the initial contact.
Me: Actually no, it's a lot more than that. *more game*
You (later): Yea, maybe, but that's what I was saying too. And you're just mad.
bytch just typing to type. :francis:

Because this was a discussion between you and another poster, I can't answer for her.

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Oh shyt, good point @milobased

You didn't have anything to offer, why were you all up in the conversation?

Just typing to type. :patrice:

This kind of confirms what i realize about dating. It's really just about LOOKS/PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. I think personality(and everything else) is secondary if not irrelevant. Yes a guy could talk himself out of the p*ssy, but generally speaking a guy(or woman) can have the personality of a rock but if they're physically attractive they will get sex. They might lose out on opportunities because of a poor personality but they will never be alone at the end of the day.
^ If you like them you will always have SOMEONE who will put up with your bullshyt. Always :manny:

Good Looks> Personality, Money, Status & Everything else

Dude, you're comparing yourself to people that don't exist (Hollywood). Even if what you're saying is true (it's not), it's counterproductive to think that way.

Women are not attracted to what men are attracted to dude. The quickest way to fukk yourself up is to walking around thinking, "I don't look like Lance Gross so hos won't like me."

People can sense that type of insecurity.
 
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She supposed to be helping guys out, but all she can talk about is her experience.

You don't feel comfortable around new men because you have a p*ssy and men are always trying to make you feel comfortable around them. That's why taking advice from a ho doesn't work.



No at all. We actually said something completely different but now you're double-talking.

You: If a woman doesn't find you attractive then that initial contact is dead before it even started.
Me: As a man, we can build attraction over time. The initial contact doesn't matter as much. *laces with game*
You: No, it's the initial contact.
Me: Actually no, it's a lot more than that. *more game*
You (later): Yea, maybe, but that's what I was saying too. And you're just mad.
bytch just typing to type. :francis:



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Oh shyt, good point @milobased

You didn't have anything to offer, why were you all up in the conversation?

Just typing to type. :patrice:



Dude, you're comparing yourself to people that don't exist (Hollywood). Even if what you're saying is true (it's not), it's counterproductive to think that way.

Women are not attracted to what men are attracted to dude. The quickest way to fukk yourself up is to walking around thinking, "I don't look like Lance Gross so hos won't like me."

People can sense that type of insecurity.
It's not? @PeridotPuss is a woman and already said they are just like men. If there's no initial attraction then there's nothing you can do. And what is initial attraction based on normally..something external. External usually means face, height, body built.
 

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She supposed to be helping guys out, but all she can talk about is her experience.

You don't feel comfortable around new men because you have a p*ssy and men are always trying to make you feel comfortable around them. That's why taking advice from a ho doesn't work.



No at all. We actually said something completely different but now you're double-talking.

You: If a woman doesn't find you attractive then that initial contact is dead before it even started.
Me: As a man, we can build attraction over time. The initial contact doesn't matter as much. *laces with game*
You: No, it's the initial contact.
Me: Actually no, it's a lot more than that. *more game*
You (later): Yea, maybe, but that's what I was saying too. And you're just mad.
bytch just typing to type. :francis:



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Oh shyt, good point @milobased

You didn't have anything to offer, why were you all up in the conversation?

Just typing to type. :patrice:



Dude, you're comparing yourself to people that don't exist (Hollywood). Even if what you're saying is true (it's not), it's counterproductive to think that way.

Women are not attracted to what men are attracted to dude. The quickest way to fukk yourself up is to walking around thinking, "I don't look like Lance Gross so hos won't like me."

People can sense that type of insecurity.
Now you just quoting so someone can go back and forth with you, ignored :francis:
 
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