Peridot Cares: Step 1 - Early Stages
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Kid McNamara
'97 Mike Bibby
these threads might do better if they were well intentions coming with it. it just turns into shytting on the said people you are trying to get across too. How do you expect people to take advice while being condescending?
I see your point but that's the whole thing. Thread is an oxymoron because a woman can't teach men how to pick up other women (including herself) and even if she could...women aren't made to accept the role of teacher. Women see men who need to be taught and led as pathetic.
Therefore, it's impossible for a woman to make a thread like this without being condescending.
Stop asking the wrong question. You're trying to alter the country instead of exploring yourself and figuring out how to make the best of those stereotypes. You only have control of yourself.
Every skin color faces stereotypes, some positive, some boring, and some negative. Use the idea of juxtaposition to your advantage.
Whatever your hang up, become the dopest version of yourself. I'm a fat nikka, but I stay wearing dope sunglasses, earrings, Ralph Lauren shirts, well groomed, smelling good, keeping a good complexion, reading literature, keeping up with culture, etc. I'll be in shape in a year or so, but I'm not going to suffer during that time.
Bad sex will have you
You'll be lying under this flopping like a fish ass b*stard like
This is what I mean fellas. Look at this. Everything falls on us, from meeting/attracting/charming women, to sex.
Most women, especially attractive ones, take no active roll in making sex pleasurable. They simply lay there and wait for commands. If it's good, you got 'em hook, if it isn't, they complain. Either way, they don't even try.
And y'all want to take advice from these people?
King P
Legends Never Die
Name nikka name
AJ Lee. Former WWE Diva
If a woman finds you attractive, there's very little you have to say to get her attention/number. It's keeping a woman who you have interested that some men need work on (unless you're just trying to smash of course).
If a woman doesn't find you attractive then that initial contact is dead before it even started.
Also time and place is everything, it's much easier to talk to women in places they aren't constantly getting gassed up/attention. The bus stop, the train station, library, museum, coffee shop, any kind of store (grocery, convenience), hell even the gas station. The absolute WORSE spots are clubs, parties, and bars; she has a multitude of dudes hitting on her if she's either beautiful or has a nice body or both. She'll be most likely in her zone and giving every dude that tries to hit on her the
If a woman doesn't find you attractive then that initial contact is dead before it even started.
Also time and place is everything, it's much easier to talk to women in places they aren't constantly getting gassed up/attention. The bus stop, the train station, library, museum, coffee shop, any kind of store (grocery, convenience), hell even the gas station. The absolute WORSE spots are clubs, parties, and bars; she has a multitude of dudes hitting on her if she's either beautiful or has a nice body or both. She'll be most likely in her zone and giving every dude that tries to hit on her the
Bad sex will have you
You'll be lying under this flopping like a fish ass b*stard like
But good sex?
Girl
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You are like my fav. I needa go to bed lol
Kid McNamara
'97 Mike Bibby
Post the original and we'll go from there.
It's a two way street. There's only so much rocking and bouncing and moaning and giving instructions one can do before they're better off masturbating.
Unless the dude is also a pillow princess.
"Liking" and "attracted to" are diff tho. I think you can grow to like someone but attraction is pretty black and white.
I see you changed that.
I don't ask a deer how to hunt deer, I ask the hunter. Don't ask a fish how to catch itself, that doesn't exist. Most of these bird brained girls are walking around like chickens with their head cut off, and you're looking to them for advice?
C'mon young.
This the type of stuff women say when they've been hurt by men over and over.
Too bad.
Y'all talk about men hating women on this forum but every single one of you relishes in calling these same men losers. I guess bitterness is all around?
The wisest men know that they don't know enough...
When it comes to simply bedding the average woman like this thread discusses, all a man needs to do is not be so unattractive that she rejects him before he opens his mouth, and understand how to build sexual tension with that particular woman. It (sexual tension) is the button, and all women respond to it, whether they consciously want to hate you or love you.
Contrary to popular belief, men and women are both primal animals with primal urges, two of them being a tendency for lust, and the desire for sex. The men who have the most are the ones who know how to cultivate that, because it's 80% of the battle won. The only difference in the buttons being pushed is the difference in what manipulative angle an individual woman responds to in comparison to the next, and the knack for identifying it.
It's not a matter of who's "secure" and who isn't. That's pride talking. I've had multiple "secure" women that knew what I was doing when I approached her less attractive friend before acknowledging her existence. I've had a couple of females that claimed they couldn't stomach my existence and yet, she still ended up in my dorm room and in my twin bed because I (we) had properly festered sexual tension within our voliatile interactions. Both groups knew what was up but it didn't matter.
Women are infinitely smarter than men give them credit for when it comes to pursuing sex. They often DO know that they're being played or manipulated. But they are nowhere near as smart and strong willled as they like to think they are. A secure, aware, or conscious woman will know she's being coerced, manipulated and "gamed," just like the average insecure chick over 21 will, but if the guy and the time is right, she doesn't stand a chance because she wants to relieve that sexual tension just as badly as he does.
Any female that has ever bedded a man that they deeply regretted sleeping with a week later for whatever reason - be it that he was a jerk that she wouldn't piss on if he was on fire before they even slept together, or he was physically below the men she normally dealt with - can be mad about it, but they can't tell me that it's a lie.
Mother nature is undefeated.
Aren't you white, breh?
Of course I use situation to my advantage when I can, but my question was pointed more towards black woman, in particular, because they are supposed to understand black men, but to me it often feels like they are in a different lane, just as most white folks are to black men.
Oh ,I'm an a$$hole then because there are plenty of men I've grown to like but still, deep in the back of my mind, found them not quite attractive and I could only ignore that aspect for so long. You learn to look past it but I bet you that him being facially challenged is one of the first insults thrown in an argument.
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They want you to know how to fukk like an elite player, but expect you to stay loyal to one team
fukk that. Free agency til I retire