I was with you until the paying for dates thingAs some other female posters have pointed out, there are some brehs on the coli struggling with the women. Clearly.
This does not apply to you six figure, six cert, game knowing non fukkboy nikkas
this is a safe space for those who may need to hear it straight from a woman. I'm only trying to helpforreal. Marty Kaan thread that went left about which nikkas were actually talking to women got me thinking
This is the hard truth is if she is NOT attracted to you there is NOTHING you can do to change that. NOTHING.
Be cautious because women WILL deal with men they are NOT attracted to, but you will likely get the runaround at best. Just because she's responding DOESN'T mean she likes you.
Now, IF she is attracted to you, it's your game to lose.And most nikkas figure our ways to lose quickly.
That beta/alpha or whatever its called advice will have you fukked up, that gems on women thread will have you fukked up, you can smash with those tactics, on occassion, but you're only exposing yourself to insecure women who will not be an asset to your life as a young man. That's poor planning. I'm watching nikkas plot on how to stick their dikks in their downfall.
A woman that likes you will only take you making her feel unimportant for so long before she either a. Replaces you b. Retaliates and throws tantrums c. fukks your entire life up out of hurt and anger/entitlement.
Conditioning makes women feel they need to be important to men to be valuable. Your game isn't going to break that conditioning, it's only going to get people hurt when you start plucking at wounds and ultimately you will get less p*ssy in the long game.
Ways nikkas (that a bytch actually likes) often fukk up include: trying to skirt around paying for dates/being cheap, failing to make intentions for the p*ssy clear or activate a woman's sexual side, trying too hard, juggling too many women (no matter how tight your game, we know, even if you don't think we know, we know), trying to cut her off and then get back..... and the classic getting caught in irrelevant lies.
I only share this because, Peridot cares.
first off, it's 2015, y'all wanted equality, I treat you like an equal. that means if both of us are trying to see if we like each other, we can both chip in on the dates. If i'm the one paying for everything, i'm buying your time, if i want to buy a womans time, I can go see a hooker. do you want me to look at you as a commodity i'm trying to buy? no? than chip in on the dates
there is nothing more unattractive than a woman that thinks a man needs to pay for everything simply because he is a man. we don't live in the 1950's anymore.second, there is not that much to figure out about woman. most woman are normally talking to a number of dudes at the same time, and they are ranked by attraction. If you're number one, you can more or less do what you want except look weak. If you are not number one, you are a back up option, in case number one doesn't work out. In that case, you shouldn't even be dealing with her, because she will give you the runaround until she knows if number one works out or not.
Now you shouldn't try and make a woman feel unimportant all of the time, but especially with woman who have a lot of men interested in them, being the one that doesn't give her attention more often than not makes her want to get your attention. That way she is chasing you and not the other way around, which saves you a lot of hassle and automatically puts you in the number one spot.
third, if things are not straightforward with a woman, you should probably bush her. a woman that's attracted to you wants to be with you. If she makes things complicated, you're probably a back up option or she's only seeing you as a form of entertainment.
women as p*ssy holders know but must won't be real with you guys because they either want you to like them or they don't respect you. Ultimately women spend a good amount of time telling dudes what they want to hear. But I told no lies.
