Until the title reads "peridot cares: how to get into my panties 100%" I don't care for these threads
get your eyebrows fixed yet??????????
Peridot Cares: Step 3 - So you think you're ready to commit?
- Thread starter PeridotPuss
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get your eyebrows fixed yet??????????
I never said otherwise.
just me
fairly accurate tho
That's tricky, the issue is sorting out of the fears associated with the prospect of the relationship outweigh your desire for intimacy.
Unless you find someone who also wants to bun up, abstain and not commit. You may have to accept the risks associated with getting into a relationship to obtain the consistent intimacy.
I can't think of any other ways around it at the moment other than commit or fins a very special person you can communicate totally honestly with right now. But imma think on this more....
DatBoiHawk
HAWK
Be my booskiePlease find links to Peridot Cares Steps 1 & 2 below:
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/peridot-cares-step-1-early-stages.357687/
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/peridot-cares-step-2-securing-the-smash.361345/
A lot of folks *think* they want a relationship (cue the nikkas like why?cue the nikkas like when?
)
*sigh*
No matter where you coming from here's some basic activities to avoid that often have fukkboys tripping up out the gate, just got a bytch with her fresh waxed p*ssy out wearing your funky ass tshirts, cooking breakfast and shyt and you acting like a fumbling the kickoff ass bullshyt ass nikka:
- Thinking flipping your phone over or keeping it in your pocket is slick and anything less than an invitation for a good and hungry bytch to CIA sweep your whole life.
- Thinking those early fukkups won't come back and bite a nikka. "Only been together two months" is not a hall pass to fukk your ex....and she will be heated no matter how long ago it happened.
- Thinking you know more about someone than you actually do and then wanna come crying to the homies when you find out some shyt you don't like .
- fukking raw in less than 90 days, all them unknowing of each other sexual fluids mixing becomes a witches brew for fukkkery. If yall fukking with no condom and doing so early in .....brace yourself bytch, your whole life will look different next year.
Sooooo you think you're ready to commit?
- Etc., etc., etc.
Lets focus on 3 keywords:
Sex
Intimacy
Relationship
First thing to establish...... nikka, do you know the difference between these three things???????
Second thing to establish before committing to another person and involving their time, emotions and finances. Who are you? What are your needs? What do you have to give? Next, decide if you're seeking....sex, intimacy or relationship.
Clearly, both fukkboys and fukkgirls have major difficulty understanding this information here
Sexual/physical needs = You need a nut or to be physically acknowledged as desirable. You likely can give sexual pleasure and attention.
Intimacy = You may desire, closeness, sharing and excitement ***warning the commitment-phobic are often intimacy addicts***. You can give time but are not willing to compromise your needs.
Relationship = You desire giving, joining, and sacrifice. You are ready to put another's needs before your own. You have love to share.
A lot of men want sex. A lot of women want intimacy. Rarely are either honest or clear about their wants as far as a relationship.Many relationships go awry because one or both parties are often seeking sex and intimacy with no intentions of doing the sometimes difficult shyt the relationship entails.
Now if, if after all this, you know you actually want a relationship?? Do your groundwork, develop yourslf always, commit fully to the relationship and not the person, know when to keep it 100 and when to hold an imaginary Land you're good to go. Happily ever after and all that shyt in your near future. Peridot cares.
COMING SOON......
PERIDOT CARES PRESENTS RARE GEMS: The 6 figure, 6 cert, Extra-special ass nikka special
Beerus
Banned
I almost had one.
She fukked me over so I send her packing before it could go sour and it was finna be a long distance relationshi
Some other bytch I coulda fukked but I ain't lie to her told her what's up when I originally planned to lie to get the box.
:mjcryoak:
Why I'm posting here.
Cuz the one I sent packing she put a new profile pic on facebook today
Man.... I miss her :mjcryoak: When will I fall rock bottom so I won't give a fukk about these chicks thats what I really want to know this shyt painful blood
I'm tired of having a soft spot for these broads man. I wanna be like my daddy with 9-10 kids and shyt and he never got hit with child support.
She fukked me over so I send her packing before it could go sour and it was finna be a long distance relationshi
Some other bytch I coulda fukked but I ain't lie to her told her what's up when I originally planned to lie to get the box.
:mjcryoak:
Why I'm posting here.
Cuz the one I sent packing she put a new profile pic on facebook today
Man.... I miss her :mjcryoak: When will I fall rock bottom so I won't give a fukk about these chicks thats what I really want to know this shyt painful blood
I'm tired of having a soft spot for these broads man. I wanna be like my daddy with 9-10 kids and shyt and he never got hit with child support.
DatBoiHawk
HAWK
Yo "DADDY" needs to write a book for dummies on that child support shyt
Beerus
Banned
I don't know, he was just always there in our lives? Seriously that and his game musta been tight as hell.
Why the fukk can't I be like him, these hoes keep being my weakness. :mjcryoak:
GYAAAL YA PUM PUM FAT!
All Star
@PeridotPuss actually does make one good point here that I never thought about- the distinction between intimacy and a relationship. I've desired intimacy with a lot of girls. Relationships with only a few. I may actually start reading these