Peridot Cares: Step 3 - So you think you're ready to commit?

[Scarface sniffin cocaine]

Once again a coli brehette dropping jewels and nikkas treat her like a substitute teacher

Im hip to the knowledge and i agree with your points but for me i make sure i bring the truth to my potential mates and this sometimes gets too real for the females where i stay

 

[Freedman]

I want a female that I can be intimate with and share all my ideas and dreams and past with but these hoes ain't shyt so we smash and Keep it movin

 

[Spectre]

I just realized that I want intimacy but not too much commitment too soon...sorta like gradual transition into one when I'm ready. But women in my area either want to just hit&quit or get into a full on relationship asking interview type questions. there's rarely ever that sweet spot

 

[notwhoiusedtobe]

I don't know wtf I want I barely get back to my friends. I love my alone time, too so much I want to accomplish
I'm not about sharing my feelings or being emotional either But sometimes I think there could be more and then I

@PeridotPuss

Can you speak on this? The fatuous one seems fun.

 

[Dwolf]

I don't know wtf I want I barely get back to my friends. I love my alone time, too so much I want to accomplish
I'm not about sharing my feelings or being emotional either But sometimes I think there could be more and then I

@PeridotPuss

Can you speak on this? The fatuous one seems fun.

That chart would make for an interesting thread

 

[Mowgli]

Please find links to Peridot Cares Steps 1 & 2 below:

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/peridot-cares-step-1-early-stages.357687/

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/peridot-cares-step-2-securing-the-smash.361345/

A lot of folks *think* they want a relationship (cue the nikkas like why? cue the nikkas like when? )

*sigh*

No matter where you coming from here's some basic activities to avoid that often have fukkboys tripping up out the gate, just got a bytch with her fresh waxed p*ssy out wearing your funky ass tshirts, cooking breakfast and shyt and you acting like a fumbling the kickoff ass bullshyt ass nikka:

• Thinking flipping your phone over or keeping it in your pocket is slick and anything less than an invitation for a good and hungry bytch to CIA sweep your whole life.

• Thinking those early fukkups won't come back and bite a nikka. "Only been together two months" is not a hall pass to fukk your ex....and she will be heated no matter how long ago it happened.

• Thinking you know more about someone than you actually do and then wanna come crying to the homies when you find out some shyt you don't like .

• fukking raw in less than 90 days, all them unknowing of each other sexual fluids mixing becomes a witches brew for fukkkery. If yall fukking with no condom and doing so early in .....brace yourself bytch, your whole life will look different next year.

• Etc., etc., etc.

Sooooo you think you're ready to commit?


Lets focus on 3 keywords:
Sex
Intimacy
Relationship

First thing to establish...... nikka, do you know the difference between these three things???????


Second thing to establish before committing to another person and involving their time, emotions and finances. Who are you? What are your needs? What do you have to give? Next, decide if you're seeking....sex, intimacy or relationship.

Clearly, both fukkboys and fukkgirls have major difficulty understanding this information here

Sexual/physical needs = You need a nut or to be physically acknowledged as desirable. You likely can give sexual pleasure and attention.

Intimacy = You may desire, closeness, sharing and excitement ***warning the commitment-phobic are often intimacy addicts ***. You can give time but are not willing to compromise your needs.

Relationship = You desire giving, joining, and sacrifice. You are ready to put another's needs before your own. You have love to share.

A lot of men want sex. A lot of women want intimacy. Rarely are either honest or clear about their wants as far as a relationship. Many relationships go awry because one or both parties are often seeking sex and intimacy with no intentions of doing the sometimes difficult shyt the relationship entails.

Now if, if after all this, you know you actually want a relationship?? Do your groundwork, develop yourslf always, commit fully to the relationship and not the person, know when to keep it 100 and when to hold an imaginary L and you're good to go. Happily ever after and all that shyt in your near future. Peridot cares.

COMING SOON......
PERIDOT CARES PRESENTS RARE GEMS: The 6 figure, 6 cert, Extra-special ass nikka special

You sound like you make a man comitt THAT. fukk outta here.

Do what i say or be miserable and alone. fukk all this other goofy shyt.

CIrcumvent all the dumb shyt and find a woman that cant live without chew and you can keep her hanging on a string, forever



Pick up the phone like yo @Rawtid, i know i been playin games for 15 years but i think im finally ready to do right by you. Im all yours now.

 

[notwhoiusedtobe]

That chart would make for an interesting thread

Done

 

[Swirv]

@Queen @#1 pick

I'm not against marriage for everyone just me

So you're throwing that ass in a circle for the time being?

 

[thekingsmen]

@PeridotPuss

The last 2 generations have been programmed by society as a whole to be emotionally detached to the opposite sex with creating a whole self loathing attitude and personality. As males, committing to one woman or women as a whole is considered simping and getting married is the ultimate L. As women, they have to self-loathe in attention given to them by showing off their bodies to everyone or giving their goods up to everyone they like, not knowing how to love themselves or know how to be in a real relationship.

The last 2 generations have seen the biggest destruction to the family structure with divorces and one parent homes, so the self- hate there.

 

[Arc]

Please find links to Peridot Cares Steps 1 & 2 below:

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/peridot-cares-step-1-early-stages.357687/

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/peridot-cares-step-2-securing-the-smash.361345/

A lot of folks *think* they want a relationship (cue the nikkas like why? cue the nikkas like when? )

*sigh*

No matter where you coming from here's some basic activities to avoid that often have fukkboys tripping up out the gate, just got a bytch with her fresh waxed p*ssy out wearing your funky ass tshirts, cooking breakfast and shyt and you acting like a fumbling the kickoff ass bullshyt ass nikka:

• Thinking flipping your phone over or keeping it in your pocket is slick and anything less than an invitation for a good and hungry bytch to CIA sweep your whole life.

• Thinking those early fukkups won't come back and bite a nikka. "Only been together two months" is not a hall pass to fukk your ex....and she will be heated no matter how long ago it happened.

• Thinking you know more about someone than you actually do and then wanna come crying to the homies when you find out some shyt you don't like .

• fukking raw in less than 90 days, all them unknowing of each other sexual fluids mixing becomes a witches brew for fukkkery. If yall fukking with no condom and doing so early in .....brace yourself bytch, your whole life will look different next year.

• Etc., etc., etc.

Sooooo you think you're ready to commit?


Lets focus on 3 keywords:
Sex
Intimacy
Relationship

First thing to establish...... nikka, do you know the difference between these three things???????


Second thing to establish before committing to another person and involving their time, emotions and finances. Who are you? What are your needs? What do you have to give? Next, decide if you're seeking....sex, intimacy or relationship.

Clearly, both fukkboys and fukkgirls have major difficulty understanding this information here

Sexual/physical needs = You need a nut or to be physically acknowledged as desirable. You likely can give sexual pleasure and attention.

Intimacy = You may desire, closeness, sharing and excitement ***warning the commitment-phobic are often intimacy addicts ***. You can give time but are not willing to compromise your needs.

Relationship = You desire giving, joining, and sacrifice. You are ready to put another's needs before your own. You have love to share.

A lot of men want sex. A lot of women want intimacy. Rarely are either honest or clear about their wants as far as a relationship. Many relationships go awry because one or both parties are often seeking sex and intimacy with no intentions of doing the sometimes difficult shyt the relationship entails.

Now if, if after all this, you know you actually want a relationship?? Do your groundwork, develop yourslf always, commit fully to the relationship and not the person, know when to keep it 100 and when to hold an imaginary L and you're good to go. Happily ever after and all that shyt in your near future. Peridot cares.

COMING SOON......
PERIDOT CARES PRESENTS RARE GEMS: The 6 figure, 6 cert, Extra-special ass nikka special

Lol this chick seems like the only quality female on coli

 

[Yup]

I almost had one.
She fukked me over so I send her packing before it could go sour and it was finna be a long distance relationshi

Some other bytch I coulda fukked but I ain't lie to her told her what's up when I originally planned to lie to get the box.

:mjcryoak:

Why I'm posting here.
Cuz the one I sent packing she put a new profile pic on facebook today
Man.... I miss her :mjcryoak: When will I fall rock bottom so I won't give a fukk about these chicks thats what I really want to know this shyt painful blood
I'm tired of having a soft spot for these broads man. I wanna be like my daddy with 9-10 kids and shyt and he never got hit with child support.

You are Haitian right?

 

[Steve Piffler]

actually, i don't see anything wrong with what she is saying. it's actually true. all 3 posts.... good job @PeridotPuss

 

[PeridotPuss]

I don't know wtf I want I barely get back to my friends. I love my alone time, too so much I want to accomplish
I'm not about sharing my feelings or being emotional either But sometimes I think there could be more and then I

@PeridotPuss

Can you speak on this? The fatuous one seems fun.

The fatuous one i think those the couples that been together for years and always low key beefing bc they have nothing in common but sex

 

[PeridotPuss]

@PeridotPuss

The last 2 generations have been programmed by society as a whole to be emotionally detached to the opposite sex with creating a whole self loathing attitude and personality. As males, committing to one woman or women as a whole is considered simping and getting married is the ultimate L. As women, they have to self-loathe in attention given to them by showing off their bodies to everyone or giving their goods up to everyone they like, not knowing how to love themselves or know how to be in a real relationship.

The last 2 generations have seen the biggest destruction to the family structure with divorces and one parent homes, so the self- hate there.

So how do you think it all plays out for the next generations?

 

[Audemar]

@PeridotPuss I'm ready to commit to you. But you won't give me the #timeoftheday.