Sheep.
Personal development > Hitting the gym
- Thread starter Carlton Banks
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Its not an either/or situation, its a this and that situation. If you are introverted/antisocial like you say, then you know you need leverage to get into social circles, especially these days. Clearly you haven't made enough progress in the fitness lifestyle to know the effect being muscular/lean (not newbie gains but years in the gym) has on everyones perception of you - mostly positive, especially if you are 6 feet tall, dress right for your body type, and are generally perceived as attractive, or a combination of all 4. All you are doing is shifting gears from one type of development you didn't succeed in to another, which I might add is which is going to involve even more work and dedication than personal fitness.
Wish I didn't turn my Laptop on before I went to sleep to see this coping mechanism topic, on that note I need to be in the gym at 7AM, next time keep this junk on the misc.
How many times I gotta tell you idiots that I'm not saying fukk the gym. Just that it's not the top thing that will get you better women and people into your life. For the record I workout and have weights in the crib.
SHEEP.
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Eddie_1100
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Ok? Uncle "Grime"
you're just telling us you're fatherless
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yes Eddie, problem?
question how do you go about changing your “softness”? I feel like it’s one of those things that get wired into your brain from environment, parenting, etc...
Surely hoes ain’t just looking for 50 cent nikkas
Hoes will act up anyway tho. Ya boy Adrien Broner just got that work a few weeks ago
Gil Scott-Heroin
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OP is built like a bytch.
Eddie_1100
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Just seems like a weird insult that's all.
And no I don't have a problem with you.
(I actually looked up Grime and I see you in London so it makes sense now)
Actually there are more than a few parallels between getting where you want in life and getting the women you want in life. A lot of the “social power concepts” seem to apply with men and the job force as well as women
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its not an insult, its the truth
now , are you going to pop that bussy for a real coli breh or nah??
Eddie_1100
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Sure why not. Where they at?
Ronnie Lott
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And before Captain obvious points it out, yes I'm aware hitting the gym is personal developmentbut that's not the type of personal development we're talking about...
So let's not focus too much on the gym part, that was just to catch your attention. But lately I been thinking, maybe I'm the one with the issues and the problems. After my last relationship, even though my ex is in fact a crazy ass bytch... There's gotta be something I'm doing (or not doing) that attracts these women. And as much as every coli breh says "hit the gym, hit the weights"... Your physique can change, but that doesn't mean anything to most women.
Without dragging this out, I'm a very introverted asocial dude, but learning better communication skills, conversational skills, techniques for different scenarios, masterminding certain situations, how to react and behave in certain instances.... These are the things that matter the most. Being social, meeting the right people, having personality that attracts the right people. There's so many personal development courses and videos online alone for free. If you can matter socialization , you can master your life and the people around you.
Seems like you're making excuses about being
