personality >>>> physical features?

[Stankonia]

now im not saying that the women has to look like a complete dumpster fire, but shouldnt we as men date a women that has a nice personality? we shouldnt just date a women solely based on her body, life would be a living hell. what do you think?

 

[Fat Kevin]

personality above everything

 

[b_low_brown]

Obviously personality is a factor but you can overlook a few personality problems if she looks great. It's difficult to overlook a few negative physical features because she has a great personality

 

[kevm3]

I mean there's a bar of acceptable looks that a woman has to pass, but past that, personality is where it's at.

 

[CinnaSlim]

I've never dated an ugly dude. But I couldn't be with a hot dumb jerk either. I'm picky but the first thing I look for is personality. If you have a great personality you start to get cuter to me.

 

[Stankonia]

Obviously personality is a factor but you can overlook a few personality problems if she looks great. It's difficult to overlook a few negative physical features because she has a great personality

to me its the opposite.

 

[Stankonia]

I've never dated an ugly dude. But I couldn't be with a hot dumb jerk either. I'm picky but the first thing I look for is personality. If you have a great personality you start to get cuter to me.

ive always noticed that women tend to go for personality.on the other hand,men not so much

 

[Stankonia]

I mean there's a bar of acceptable looks that a woman has to pass, but past that, personality is where it's at.

what would be acceptable looks to you?

 

[kevm3]

I need me about a 7.2

 

[Stankonia]

I need me about a 7.2

what exactly is a 7.2? like crows feet?, obesity?,etc.

 

[aXiom]

Getting to really know someone means you'd have to be friends with them first. I thought coli nikkas with certs were allergic to the friendzone

A typical dude is gonna go after what he's attracted to physically, whether she has a great personality or not takes the back seat until further notice.

The most likely way for you to be attracted to a girl's personality first is if she's a chick that wasn't on your radar from the get go, but other forces allow for her to be close enough(the same social circles, family/childhood friend, school/college/work etc.) to you that it grows on you. She then starts becoming more attractive to you physically(it's all psychological). Then it becomes a balancing act of whether or not her personality makes up for what she lacks in physical features and how much you're willing to overlook. If she's fairly attractive, it won't be that hard of a decision, but then again, if she was fairly attractive she would have been on your radar from the start. Less often, you're gonna meet a female that's really attractive with a great personality, but that's something you'd find out after you've been around her long enough. However, she'd have to have or be doing something worth sticking around long enough to find out

 

[CarltonJunior]

This one beautiful chick I used to talk to was really feelin me and I didn't understand why. I never pull in chicks THAT sexy, so I really didn't understand. I'm a pretty average lookin guy, maybe a little above average but I'm pretty skinny (or atleast not built) so I don't really bring in the 8s, 9s and 10s. Got her number and all so I'm like

Started textin the bytch, having phone conversations, hanging with her for awhile. bytch was like talking to a wall.

Emotionless, no jokes, nothing interesting to talk about, nor did she do anything interesting. She was the most regular bytch I've ever met in my life

Body was bangin up top (not down though), she was wonderful to look at, but it wasn't doing anything for me. I didn't even wanna smash because even if she was bout that action, she just seemed like a waste of time. Stopped textin her after awhile and every dude I know who's talked to her ended up doing the same. The one dude I do know that smashed said it was a waste of time cuz she didn't even give good head or nothin.

Normally I would take that challenge to make something out of the situation, but she was just boring as fukk and I couldn't save that one.

 

[observe]

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you think i walk down the street noticing bytches personality.

good luck with those ugly fat hoes with great personalities...yall can have that

 

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you think i walk down the street noticing bytches personality.

good luck with those ugly fat hoes with great personalities...yall can have that

Smh...

 

[Couth]

Depends on what we are talking about.

For sex? Physical features. There is plenty of good looking girls out there who will let you beat their back in, no strings attached.

For a relationship? Both. I can't be in a relationship with a girl i don't think of as stunning. Because i take relationships seriously. Like if a girl is my girl, then thats my girl. I'll have her back and she'll have mine. I'll allow her to walk around on my arm, tell her friends about me, show her off to my friends, etc. So any girl i'm gonna be doing all that with has to have a banging body.

And honestly the reason i'm kinda shallow is because i went out with a fat bytch when i was 15. Like dated her. Omg. nikkas talk about that shyt till this day. A million bytches later and everyones stuck on the 300 pound whale i dated. I did date that bytch for like 9 months though so...