Pick a Lane , and Stay there...

[Neuromancer]

I let it be know off rip that I'm not looking for new friends with women...but It's one I never really had that conversation with yet. We hit concerts ups and dope DJ sets around town. I paid for one of them, but we usually goes dutch. She's attractive, so I've took my shot a couple of times with suble curves as a result. So I asked her today, just to be clear, "We are just friends, right...nothing past that stage..." Why didn't I get a clear answer. I feel like with a clear response I can get the perks of using the attractive friend to get other girls. Coli brehettes, what's the logic behind this lack FZ commitment.

Remove her from your life surgical. Delete her number. Stop hanging with her cold turkey. She asks why, tell her this interaction isn't helping me out.

 

[FreddyCalhoun]

if she says just friends keep her around as a wingman, thank me later

Exactly...

 

[underwaterboogiebaby]

I let it be know off rip that I'm not looking for new friends with women...but It's one I never really had that conversation with yet. We hit concerts ups and dope DJ sets around town. I paid for one of them, but we usually goes dutch. She's attractive, so I've took my shot a couple of times with suble curves as a result. So I asked her today, just to be clear, "We are just friends, right...nothing past that stage..." Why didn't I get a clear answer. I feel like with a clear response I can get the perks of using the attractive friend to get other girls. Coli brehettes, what's the logic behind this lack FZ commitment.

And since you are just friends this also means you won't act clingy if she asks for some d**k, right? Or back out

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

You sound hurt dog.... I ask her to go to concerts because most broads I mess with don't know who Immortal Technique & Run The Jewels are, and we have a dope time, no fukking required. You have a lot of repressed anger towards women breh...You might want to get that check out for real.

you in here asking why she won't commit to placing you in the friend zone

meanwhile me and everyone else sees the obvious using of your time and the playing of games

and all i said was "she's using you" cut that bytch out or fukk with her friends


but i'm the one hurt... ok breh

 

[mannie flavours]

You have to get something outta me to be used...I've spent no time on this broad beside texting....

I honestly wanted her to say we just cool so I can scam on the crew....

Of course she didn't answer,...and text me Good Morning today.....which I never get....

Long story short., next time I see her at the bar....
I'm going all in on her homegirls. Cause they be bad....

Sides eyes and all....

stick to that breh

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

Does God?

I had to edit your post out of fear of Allah. I highly recommend you fear Almighty God (Allah) as it won't be all jokes on the Day of Judgment. May Allah guide you to Islam.

 

[semtex]

I had to edit your post out of fear of Allah. I highly recommend you fear Almighty God (Allah) as it won't be all jokes on the Day of Judgment. May Allah guide you to Islam.

Sucks to suck

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

Sucks

If you only knew how good being a Muslim felt. And the best part is eternal Paradise in the afterlife... (As long as you die upon Islam (the only religion Almighty God (Allah) will accept on the day of Judgment). I'm saying this for your benefit.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Patrice said it best..... dont be a fukking time ho

 

[Rawtid]

Damn a guy had the "what are we?" talk with a woman? That's new.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

Some of the shyt posted here is pathetic. It's embarrassing.

 

[karim]

True. You can't worry about things you can't control, but you can look at factors for L's.

of course, it's something to look for before you make her your girl. there are different kinds of girls with a lot of male friends. some of them have male friends because they love the attention and that's a red flag. others are just the type of chick you can hang out with like she is one of the guys, or have interests in things that are typical guy stuff, she can't really share with other woman. if that's the case, then it's not something i would be worried about if i feel she's a girl i can trust.

Right and it's also about respect. If you continue to let people flirt with your SO even if you trust them and know they won't cheat, your letting the person straight up disrespect you. How can you say you my man's friend and sending him hearts and kiss faces knowing he got a girl. Would she be cool with another girl sending her man that? No.

I felt disrespected by that and if I keep letting it slide simply because I know he won't cheat, it still doesn't change how I feel

And if she a real friend to him she be like "my bad bruh" but if she ain't then I'll see that and handle it accordingly.

ok, that's about a lack of respect towards you. that's an entirely different matter.