Please Stop Having Children By My Future Husband

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shyt kills me when 35 plus year old women act shocked at nikkas having kids. You're the abnormal one for not having them and still wanting them at women's midlife and no prospects. Then the 30 plusses on Tinder like "no kids" "never been married" I mean that's cool to know I guess, but I don't know if I'd lead with that, you have to have some better qualities.
 

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It's the double standard, instead of shocking get with a guy who doesn't have kids these women whine and complain left and right and get with ray ray and treyvathian who they know have kids then complain. The same ol 20% of men smashing 80% of women, women would rather share a dude than have their own
 

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Wow. That would be some foul shyt.

If a woman married a man and wanted kids, imagine if he went and got a secret vasectomy. How would that be received?

Getting your tubes tied would be considered "taking control" of your body.

A man getting a secret vasectomy would be considered selfish.

@Emperor_ReinScarf , do you see this shyt, breh? And these chicks wonder why men don't want to get married.

honestly the things I've seen in my life there is nothing I would not put past a woman, they live off secrets and playing men for fools
 

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I think that I am the wrong person to discuss this topic...

To keep it honest, the idea of a ready made family isn't that off-putting... There are a lot of measures that the man with a child would have to meet that a man with no children wouldn't

...but... such is life...:yeshrug:

You gon raise them kids, and share that dikk with his baby momma :ehh:

Shrugs I'll never ever ever mess with a woman with a child out of wedlock and I expect the same from her if i ever get raped or my sperm stolen to not look in my direction and see me of unworthy because I have a kid out of wedlock
 

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She made some mistakes somewhere.

The whole story ain't being told :mjpls:

She's just another bitter chick mad she aint get chose, and tryna blame it on other women. Homegurl if he thought you was the one he wouldn't have let you walk away so easily. :camby:
 

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She's just another bitter chick mad she aint get chose, and tryna blame it on other women. Homegurl if he thought you was the one he wouldn't have let you walk away so easily. :camby:
Chicks seal their fates so easily being in one sided relationships.

Just don't how time can slip away from you.
Aint no need for writing articles now.
Get money.
 

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You gon raise them kids, and share that dikk with his baby momma :ehh:

Shrugs I'll never ever ever mess with a woman with a child out of wedlock and I expect the same from her if i ever get raped or my sperm stolen to not look in my direction and see me of unworthy because I have a kid out of wedlock

Yeah that's the downfall of dating someone with a child.... I've never tried it, but I wouldn't not consider it....

I take things on a case by case...
 

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Yeah that's the downfall of dating someone with a child.... I've never tried it, but I wouldn't not consider it....

I take things on a case by case...

I don't believe in second chances :sas1:

you messed up your first with me by having a kid out of wedlock

I don't have a child out of wedlock so why should I settle down with one :scust:

I've never cheated so why should I settle down with a chick who did :scust:

I'm not fat so why should I settle down with a fatty :scust:



equally yoked :sas2:
 

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I don't believe in second chances :sas1:

you messed up your first with me by having a kid out of wedlock

I don't have a child out of wedlock so why should I settle down with one :scust:

I've never cheated so why should I settle down with a chick who did :scust:

I'm not fat so why should I settle down with a fatty :scust:



equally yoked :sas2:

Equally yoked doesn't mean eye for an eye...

She may have a child, you may have baggage the weight of a child

She may be unable to lose weight, you may be unable to attain a muscular build...

so rethink what equally yolked means
 

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Equally yoked doesn't mean eye for an eye...

She may have a child, you may have baggage the weight of a child

She may be unable to lose weight, you may be unable to attain a muscular build...

so rethink what equally yolked means

nope

1. any emotional baggage one has can be healed with therapy or time. LIke I said I would never date a girl who was raped or molested UNLESS she went through therapy, children will always be there unless shes a psycho and andrea yates them.

2. there is always ways to lose weight, there is something called gastric bypass surgery, plus owrking out. I can attain a muscular build if I hit the gym I just don't care.



I know you old and its just ray ray with 3 b*stards around but there is a nikka out there childless just wait
 
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