POLL: Is True Forced Loneliness A REAL Thing? (How Can We Help These Dudes?)

Is True Forced Loneliness Real?


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AtomicUse

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I'm talking about 1)socially awkward women 2)who are still virgins not by choice and 3)have jaded views of men.

1 and 3, Those are all over the place, all over the place.

Only thing is they're usually not virgins because men have a stronge enough sex drive to overlook those things for a few minutes of physical activity. But after the dudes bust and his sex drive is gone, the broad is a back to being subpar, so the dude dips, making #3 even worse, which contributes to #1 :yeshrug:
 

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Unless people are going to personally set these guys up with women that they can socially connect with then there is no helping them. Most of these threads go the same way every time with the same statements being parroted. There's more posts about the guys being lame and not deserving attention from women than actual helpful advice.
 

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Unless people are going to personally set these guys up with women that they can socially connect with then there is no helping them. Most of these threads go the same way every time with the same statements being parroted. There's more posts about the guys being lame and not deserving attention from women than actual helpful advice.
The answer, the only realistic answer for guys like this, is to work out relentlessly, dress VERY well, have VERY nice things(domicile and vehicles), and speak as little as possible. Their physique and possessions will attract women, and the less they talk the less opportunity they have to look lame or desperate. The increased interactions will bolster thier confidence, and the cycle will continue.

That's the answer, for anyone whos out there reading this thread. Member or guest.
 

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The answer, the only realistic answer for guys like this, is to work out relentlessly, dress VERY well, have VERY nice things(domicile and vehicles), and speak as little as possible. Their physique and possessions will attract women, and the less they talk the less opportunity they have to look lame or desperate. The increased interactions will bolster thier confidence, and the cycle will continue.

That's the answer, for anyone whos out there reading this thread. Member or guest.
This makes women see shallow as fukk .
 

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Social media did this shyt, or the internet in general. Before the days of the internet dominating people's lives like it has the last decade or so, men and women had a much better rapport with one another. Even feminists weren't too bad.

I agree dudes need to stop being scared and bitter tho, neither of those things will get u anywhere with women. Women are nowhere as approachable as before tho, even when they're attracted to a man they'll avoid eye contact.

shyt hard out here these days. I've bagged hundreds of chicks in my life (in real life) and now I have not the slightest clue how to get a shorty to stop for me, even the ones who feeling a nikka. If a nikka who bagged and smashed hella chicks is struggling, imagine the rest.
This is true
 

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Honestly I can't act like I'm perfect I'm kinda of inbetween there have been times when I've been scared to talk to a girl. One time a girl just stared at me like :comeon: when are yu goin to talk to me? I've gotten better over the year tho. I'll say this, rejection isn't really that bad. I've been rejected and it's really like a:yeshrug: thing. Just on to the next.
 

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Honestly I can't act like I'm perfect I'm kinda of inbetween there have been times when I've been scared to talk to a girl. One time a girl just stared at me like :comeon: when are yu goin to talk to me? I've gotten better over the year tho. I'll say this, rejection isn't really that bad. I've been rejected and it's really like a:yeshrug: thing. Just on to the next.
Sometimes I'm scared to talk to women, but not to the point where I feel bad for myself.
 

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Nobody is forced to be lonely, and being by yourself doesn't necessarily equal loneliness. Reality is, most these nikkas have an entitlement problem. They believe that just because they are interested in a female, she has to be interested in them:snoop:, which isn't the case. Also, has anyone seen the types of broads that are turning these nikkas down. You gotta crawl before you walk, and if you a nikka who is socially awkward already, why you gonna run up on a 9 off rip.:beli: I'm sure these dudes have some options/choices, just not the ones they want....but that's life....:manny: Personally, I hate complainers, so it's hard for me to have alot of sympathy for dudes that would rather bash all females then find the ones the are a fit for himself. As if bashing all females is going to get you some "pity" pu**y :martin:
 

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A lot of it is just laziness its so much easier to group together and find comfort in complaining about women and society than to take the necessary steps to make improvements in themselves in certain key areas (i.e physical appearance,career,personality) to increase their chances.
Not to say that women arent getting more superficial with the (beard 6 ft tall and tattoo requirements :mjpls:) but you gotta do your part too if you wanna stand a chance in competing in this competitive market :yeshrug:
 

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This shyt shouldn't even exist for dudes below the age of 30. Not saying some dudes arent going to be left out, but dudes in their 20s shouldn't be giving up so soon. shyt like this isn't going to do them any favors.
 

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This thread isn't about Kent. There's others like him like Jamil, BigBOSSCalvin and Brandon :francis: How can we help dudes like this :patrice: There's guys on here that complain about women too. I don't get why some dudes are afraid of women :yeshrug:





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These guys need to be put on a database and closely monitored.

They also need to have their gun rights restricted.
 

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ok but on a serious note i thin kthese guys have no (male) friends:jbhmm:.think about it if they had friends wouldnt their friends try to help them out i na way.
i had a friend just like kent etc.. He was my homie so i made it a mission to get him to talk to girls. so what i did was whenever i got invited to a social event i always brought him... All the time:francis:
At 1st he hated it but after a while he started to observe how me and my other friends spit game.. Now hes a better person and is in a 3 year relationship:salute:
 
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