Poor James. "Get engaged brehs" .WWYD if you were him?

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I met James a couple of years ago, he is everything a woman could ever dream of. Our relationship is so perfect.He is nice, respectful, educated, god fearing and successful. This is his second relationship. His first relationship was a long term one. I can see why it lasted so long. He is honestly a great man with strong moral character. I on the other hand, have lied to him about my past. I was a pretty wild woman growing up. I have had lots of boyfriends that I cut off quickly once the lust was over, one night stands, sugar daddies, trains etc. but all this is in the dark.My past actions have broken a couple homes(I was selfish and stupid) and have realized the pain I may have caused. I honestly just told him I was in a couple long term relationships and that I was engaged but it didn't work out. I basically deleted my hoeness and no longer live in the same city. A part of me want to tell him but what he doesn't know won't hurt him,hopefully, it all stays in my past. Should I come clean? I think he is the perfect man for me and I know due to his character, he may not like it. He is the guy I changed my ways for. I am also ready to settle down and have a family and put the past behind me. Many women with a past a like Kim K and Chris Bosh's wife are good wives . I think I can be one of them.

I didn't know what to title this thread, but anyway, what would you do if you were james?

Would you marry her if she told you this BEFORE she lied? Would you marry her if she told you this AFTER she lied? Why/whynot?
 

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I didn't know what to title this thread, but anyway, what would you do if you were james?

Would you marry her if she told you this BEFORE she lied? Would you marry her if she told you this AFTER she lied? Why/whynot?
no and no

that shyt doesn't fly with me. Idc if its her past. A hoe will always be a hoe
 

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Out here in my damn drawls
:ehh: As long as I was happy. I wouldn't care




























....to kiss that filthy slut puppet on the lips and claim her as my fiancé, wife, mother of my children and matriarch of my grand-children's family tree :wtb:
 

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breh is gonna be like
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when he find that clue :mjlol:

I hope he does before its too late :lupe:
 

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True, what he doesn't know won't hurt him.
If he finds out, it very well can be the end of that. He wanted a girl who didn't put herself on everyones platter, didn't break families,
wasn't the slore that he would abhor.

Instead, she won the lottery and has to pretend she had as much self control as he did. This is a common situation most men will
face unless they catch em while they are young(not every woman, of course, but a sizeable percentage).

She better shut the fukk up, lest she have him daydreaming about the copious amounts of penis she got from from dudes who
treated her like shyt openly. Nobody want's to feel like "The second chance" or "The new beginning".

Her do-over so to speak. That woman better keep her lips zipped and play her role. If she is good from there on out, no harm, no foul.
 

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As long as I was happy, I wouldn't care




























....to kiss that filthy slut puppet on the lips and claim her as mine :wtb:

Even after she lied about it? The girl lied about it. She said that she was once engaged and only had a couple of longterm relationships.
 

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one night stands :ld:

sugar daddies :ufdup:


trains etc.
but all this is in the dark. :scusthov:

My past actions have broken a couple homes
:huhldup:

I basically deleted my hoeness :duck::duck::duck:


Many women with a past a like Kim K and Chris Bosh's wife are good wives :mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:



I think I can be one of them :heh:

















































:camby::camby::camby::camby::camby::camby::camby::camby::camby::camby::camby:
 

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True, what he doesn't know won't hurt him.
If he finds out, it very well can be the end of that. He wanted a girl who didn't put herself on everyones platter, didn't break families,
wasn't the slore that he would abhor.

Instead, she won the lottery and has to pretend she had as much self control as he did. This is a common situation most men will
face unless they catch em while they are young(not every woman, of course, but a sizeable percentage).

She better shut the fukk up, lest she have him daydreaming about the copious amounts of penis she got from from dudes who
treated her like shyt openly. Nobody want's to feel like "The second chance" or "The new beginning".

Her do-over so to speak. That woman better keep her lips zipped and play her role. If she is good from there on out, no harm, no foul.

I think she is very wrong, she shouldn't have lied about it. She moved to a whole new town and made up her past and probably her current personality. I feel so bad for james. She should have told him the truth about herself. Not in detail, but something like " I used kind of wild or a "party girl", but I've grown out of it." He doesn't deserve that, and she deserves someone who will accept her past. She keeps running from it. I hope that he finds out soon.
 
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