I met James a couple of years ago, he is everything a woman could ever dream of. Our relationship is so perfect.He is nice, respectful, educated, god fearing and successful. This is his second relationship. His first relationship was a long term one. I can see why it lasted so long. He is honestly a great man with strong moral character. I on the other hand, have lied to him about my past. I was a pretty wild woman growing up. I have had lots of boyfriends that I cut off quickly once the lust was over, one night stands, sugar daddies, trains etc. but all this is in the dark.My past actions have broken a couple homes(I was selfish and stupid) and have realized the pain I may have caused. I honestly just told him I was in a couple long term relationships and that I was engaged but it didn't work out. I basically deleted my hoeness and no longer live in the same city. A part of me want to tell him but what he doesn't know won't hurt him,hopefully, it all stays in my past. Should I come clean? I think he is the perfect man for me and I know due to his character, he may not like it. He is the guy I changed my ways for. I am also ready to settle down and have a family and put the past behind me. Many women with a past a like Kim K and Chris Bosh's wife are good wives . I think I can be one of them.
I didn't know what to title this thread, but anyway, what would you do if you were james?
Would you marry her if she told you this BEFORE she lied? Would you marry her if she told you this AFTER she lied? Why/whynot?



As long as I was happy. I wouldn't care








