I hope you are able to get yourself back on your feet and take care of your lovely family. I've sent a bit to help you in that. Also, don't disparage your wife's intellect even in jest. She evidently loves you immensely to go through these trying times with you.
Take care and take some time away from these forums after you receive your help here. You have a lot of work to do, and a short time period to do it in.
Take care and take some time away from these forums after you receive your help here. You have a lot of work to do, and a short time period to do it in.