Providing ≠ "gold digging"

[Dwolf]

I can have both, I can be treated like a person and use my fiance as a human shield and spend his money.

That sounds like a lucky guy

 

[Ashley Banks]

That sounds like a lucky guy

I was joking.

 

[Dwolf]

you dont protect and provide for people you view as 100% equal. you protect and provide for things you feel are inherently inferior, be it women, children or pets.

You really just compared a woman to a animal What type of females have you been dealing with

 

[Dwolf]

I was joking.

I know. Thats why I was being sarcastic

 

[marcuz]

Cut the bs excuses for why you don't wanna protect and provide.

i'm probably 1 of the few patriarchal dudes on this site. i'm constantly trying to explain the reason black women are fukked up is because there's not enough quality black men providing for them. no fathers, brothers, uncles, boyfriends and husbands in positions to help pave the way for black women to live a more comfortable existence.

but, its hard to explain that shyt when you have an army of feminist black women screaming and shouting about equality, nikkas aint shyt, evil black patriarchy, and how yall "gonna get a white man"

yall do a great job of killing the incentive to COLLECTIVELY protect, provide and promote black women. but more importantly, most black men aren't in a financial position to do all that if we wanted to.

 

[marcuz]

You really just compared a woman to a animal What type of females have you been dealing with

i'm only comparing them to pets because the same rules apply.

men protect and provide for women, not because "its just the right thing to do," its done because you feel there's areas in which they cant protect and provide for themselves. however, with all the changes in society and women earning more and breaking glass ceilings. why would men still hold themselves to such a standard? it aint like men are bringing in 80% of the income anymore, breh.

 

[marcuz]

so this is what it's like in the mind of a man. weird. sickening.

its the same mindset that carried women throughout history.


remove some of the comforts of western society, and you'll be begging for more men to have that mindset.

 

[Ashley Banks]

its the same mindset that carried women throughout history.


remove some of the comforts of western society, and you'll be begging for more men to have that mindset.

Marcuz, say it with me, "everyone is equal".

see that wasn't so hard.

 

[marcuz]

Marcuz, say it with me, "everyone is equal".

see that wasn't so hard.

if everyone is equal, why do you want someone to take care of you and pay for your things like a child?

 

[Ashley Banks]

if everyone is equal, why do you want someone to take care of you and pay for your things like a child?

I was joking.

 

[Citi Trends]

I'm not a feminist. When I'm married I want to be a housewife and SAHM while my husband works(protected and provided), but those women who want to work deserve the same pay as a man aka equal treatment.

you want a nikka with goals but your goals are to get married and stay at home?

 

[MayQueen]

you want a nikka with goals but your goals are to get married and stay at home?

I'm pursuing a master's degree to have something to fall back on, but I want to be a SAHM. What is wrong with that?

 

[Citi Trends]

I'm pursuing a master's degree to have something to fall back on, but I want to be a SAHM. What is wrong with that?

 

[marcuz]

I'm pursuing a master's degree to have something to fall back on, but I want to be a SAHM. What is wrong with that?

if that were reversed, and you wanted to fall back on being a SAHM, that would make a lot more sense

 

[MayQueen]

if that were reversed, and you wanted to fall back on being a SAHM, that would make a lot more sense

What is wrong with being a SAHM? I want to be there for my kids, not send them to daycare or a babysitter.