Psychologists explains why men cheat.

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Hours of pleasure aren't worth years of pain. Especially if you got kids.

If you have a good relationship and family it's not worth the risk. I don't care how fine she is, how hard she's throwing it at you, or how many steps you take to make sure no one finds out. The juice usually isn't worth the squeeze. What's more important is addressing (with your partner and a therapist) why you're tying sexual conquest to personal validation.


That being said, the dudes in here talkbout they don't masturbate be the main ones beating off to weird shït. :heh:

Let me keep it 100% real for a second, because men don't talk about sexual health nearly as much as women do.

Don't feel ashamed to beat off every once in a while--and be 100% honest about it with your girl. It might keep you from doing something stupid. It's also an effective stress reliever, pain reliever, and STD-free.

It's a problem if you're doing it everyday, multiple times a day, of course. At that point it's an addiction. Just be honest about your sexual preferences with your girl--ALL THE WAY HONEST--it'll only help your relationship.
Masturbation is pretty normal. I wouldn’t even believe a man who told me he doesn’t do it :russ::russ:
 

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...Don't feel ashamed to beat off every once in a while--and be 100% honest about it with your girl. It might keep you from doing something stupid. It's also an effective stress reliever, pain reliever, and STD-free.....
It's a problem if you're doing it everyday, multiple times a day, of course. At that point it's an addiction. Just be honest about your sexual preferences with your girl--ALL THE WAY HONEST--it'll only help your relationship.
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-You should be beating off with your girl or taking pics/vids to send to her.
 

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Day dreaming about killing people means you a ticking time bomb waiting to go off. Who tf day dreams about murdering people? psychopaths.
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-Nah, pedophiles need to be dealt with. Sometimes you see a news article & ask yourself "What would Stabler do?"
 
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At 1:04:55

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Men cheat when they can, they can be in the best loving relationship in the world but if that woman they beat off to in their free time gives them a chance they will take it.

Its just SEX to men

Exactly. It means nothing to me. It’s like putting gas in my car. I’ve banged chicks that I never even knew their name. I’ve had women come up to me and say hello and I don’t recall we were intimate until hours later.
 

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-I think cheating is wrong & I'm fine with porn. I don't believe in "emotion cheating" & I'm not fantasizing about fukkin any of the lesbians I watch doing their thing.

-Day dreaming about killing people is fine as long as you're not acting on it. You act like having morals means you can't have feelings & thoughts.
All of This you wrote is wild... :laff:

Of course you think cheating is wrong but you're fine with porn. Lol
You wouldn't be able to watch porn if you thought otherwise.

Of course you don't believe in emotional cheating lol. How else would you be able to emotionally cheat without feeling bad about.

And of course you're not thinking about "fcking" the lesbians you're watching do their thing.
You're just thinking about playing fortnite with them, with your p*ssy out. (Im assuming you're a woman)

Ofcourse Day dreaming about killing all the time is fine to you. Cause you have to make sense of you day dreaming about fukking other women. But then make us believe that you wouldn't cheat.

Your morals guide your feelings and thoughts.
Things that you wouldn't do or are disgusted by, wouldn't be in your mind. At least not consistently.
 

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All of This you wrote is wild...

Of course you think cheating is wrong but you're fine with porn. Lol
You wouldn't be able to watch porn if you thought otherwise.

Of course you don't believe in emotional cheating lol. How else would you be able to emotionally cheat without feeling bad about.

And of course you're not thinking about "fcking" the lesbians you're watching do their thing.
You're just thinking about playing fortnite with them, with your p*ssy out. (Im assuming you're a woman)

Ofcourse Day dreaming about killing all the time is fine to you. Cause you have to make sense of you day dreaming about fukking other women. But then make us believe that you wouldn't cheat.

Your morals guide your feelings and thoughts.
Things that you wouldn't do or are disgusted by, wouldn't be in your mind. At least not consistently.
-Cheating is a physical act & I believe in loyalty to your spouse once you claim each other. I've been watching porn with the women I've been with for decades & thr one I'm seeing now doesn't care. Emotional cheating is insecurity bullshyt.

-I'm not a woman. I think the female body is beautiful & I like seeing two women do their thing. I don't picture myself with porn stars & I wouldn't fukk any of them if given a chance.

-Your morals guide your actions, not your thoughts & feelings. Plenty fathers of molested children have thought about killing the perpetrator, despite not believing in murder. People think about shyt they'd never actually do all the time.
 
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