Put Yourselves First Guys - Don’t Get Used.

[Apollo Creed]

You need to define standard. Because the stats don't agree with this. For us in this age, communal or blended families seem like they would be preferred with our methods in marriages and divorce.

Communal living never includes men. Just spinsters, baby mothers, and children.

the stats show we are a mess, yet it seems dudes are fine with that trajectory.

its over lol

 

[Monsanto]

Communal living never includes men. Just spinsters, baby mothers, and children.

the stats show we are a mess, yet it seems dudes are fine with that trajectory.

its over lol

Complacency with shiny toys

 

[Mowgli]

The government allows women to extort men so men have to prop up candidates that fight for them which should, ideally incentivize women to find better ways of trapping clowns

Or you better be damn good at choosing a woman beyond fat ass.

But it all comes back to the spirit of the black man. Scripture isn't valued so here's your reward.

 

[Diondon]

But of course

 

[Bless't]

Once you understand women are loyal only to their emotions all of this makes sense.

Its not about long term, its about her and right now and whatever it takes to make right now happen right now.

It's really just this simple.

Move accordingly fellas.

 

[BaggerofTea]

Unadulterated facts breh

This is why it’s wise to wife up a woman who’s more into U than you are into her. Sounds fuccked up but it’s apparent the chick in the op ran the relationships she was in with these emotionally weak men.

Can’t imagine being in a relationship with a woman who isn’t extra eager to satisfy my desires. Not the marriage type, but best believe I wouldn’t entertain any chick who doesn’t worship the ground I walk on.

Spoiler: Story time

to give u guys an example. A couple of years ago I dated this older chick. 40 years old. Gorgeous. Black. Looked East African. She didn’t look her age at all. We dated for a minute. And during the course of our time together I picked up on clues that let me know the type of person she was. First, she said she had an operation done to remove some cyst or whatever so she can’t have kids anymore. She had this operation while she was married but got divorced a short while after. That raised my suspicion. When she walked into the operation room, weighing the pros and cons of it, I can only imagine she considered the fact that she can fucck as many guys as she wants with no pregnancy scares.

I asked her why she broke things off with her husband? She said they grew apart. He stopped going places with her. But when she told him about her plans to divorce he made a serious effort to fix things. Started going to the gym with her and other places. But by that time it was already late. Her heart wasn’t in it. Essentially, what she was saying is that she wanted to try many dikks. They married young. I think 20/21.

so she breaks things off with him and by the time I met her, it had been 7 years. And in that amount of time, she said she hooked up with many guys, including some white guy at work and from her demeanor I suspect he wasn’t the only one she slept with at the job. While her and I was dating she would tell me about her ex husband still trying to get her back. Showing me his text.

I say all that to say, put urself in the position of the ex husband. Having ur life thrown into chaos because ur wife is craving new d1ck. Some of y’all may say well had he been paying attention, she wouldn’t have left. And that is a very naive way to look at things. She was gon leave regardless and I know this because after the divorce was finalized she moved out of the house because she felt it wasn’t right of her to take everything from him. She didn’t chase him for child support. Despite her hoeness, I respected that act of kindness. I liked her. But like most normal human beings, she has cravings.

that’s the problem with most people. They get married knowing if given the chance to cheat with someone attractive, they’ll take it. Yet have the audacity to try to convince others to get married like them.

 

[Sccit]

DONT USE A LOST PERSON AS AN EXAMPLE FOR ALL WOMEN

CLEARLY THAT PERSON IS IN BIG TROUBLE CUZ THEY WASNT INSTILLED WITH PROPER VALUES GROWIN UP .. NOT EVERYONE IS THE SAME

 

[Sccit]

This is why it’s wise to wife up a woman who’s more into U than you are into her. Sounds fuccked up but it’s apparent the chick in the op ran the relationships she was in with these emotionally weak men.

Can’t imagine being in a relationship with a woman who isn’t extra eager to satisfy my desires. Not the marriage type, but best believe I wouldn’t entertain any chick who doesn’t worship the ground I walk on.

Spoiler: Story time

to give u guys an example. A couple of years ago I dated this older chick. 40 years old. Gorgeous. Black. Looked East African. She didn’t look her age at all. We dated for a minute. And during the course of our time together I picked up on clues that let me know the type of person she was. First, she said she had an operation done to remove some cyst or whatever so she can’t have kids anymore. She had this operation while she was married but got divorced a short while after. That raised my suspicion. When she walked into the operation room, weighing the pros and cons of it, I can only imagine she considered the fact that she can fucck as many guys as she wants with no pregnancy scares.

I asked her why she broke things off with her husband? She said they grew apart. He stopped going places with her. But when she told him about her plans to divorce he made a serious effort to fix things. Started going to the gym with her and other places. But by that time it was already late. Her heart wasn’t in it. Essentially, what she was saying is that she wanted to try many dikks. They married young. I think 20/21.

so she breaks things off with him and by the time I met her, it had been 7 years. And in that amount of time, she said she hooked up with many guys, including some white guy at work and from her demeanor I suspect he wasn’t the only one she slept with at the job. While her and I was dating she would tell me about her ex husband still trying to get her back. Showing me his text.

I say all that to say, put urself in the position of the ex husband. Having ur life thrown into chaos because ur wife is craving new d1ck. Some of y’all may say well had he been paying attention, she wouldn’t have left. And that is a very naive way to look at things. She was gon leave regardless and I know this because after the divorce was finalized she moved out of the house because she felt it wasn’t right of her to take everything from him. She didn’t chase him for child support. Despite her hoeness, I respected that act of kindness. I liked her. But like most normal human beings, she has cravings.

that’s the problem with most people. They get married knowing if given the chance to cheat with someone attractive, they’ll take it. Yet have the audacity to try to convince others to get married like them.

THATS BECAUSE SHE WASNT RAISED WIT THE VALUES TO FIGHT OFF EVIL INCLINATION..MOST WOMEN ARENT, BUT SOME DEFINITELY ARE.

 

[Apollo Creed]

DONT USE A LOST PERSON AS AN EXAMPLE FOR ALL WOMEN

CLEARLY THAT PERSON IS IN BIG TROUBLE CUZ THEY WASNT INSTILLED WITH PROPER VALUES GROWIN UP .. NOT EVERYONE IS THE SAME

why do yall make these dumb post.

telling men to be aware of what exists is not saying everyone is that thing. Lol. Got damn it blows my mind how destroyed males are in America where telling dudes to stay on their game and watch out for red flags is so upsetting

 

[TRUEST]

THATS BECAUSE SHE WASNT RAISED WIT THE VALUES TO FIGHT OFF EVIL INCLINATION..MOST WOMEN ARENT, BUT SOME DEFINITELY ARE.

Yea. U can take a gamble with the women u come across. See how that pans out for u.

I’m of the mind that attractive people can’t be faithful or loyal. If we’re being honest, most people who think they’re loyal and have never cheated are only able to say that because the opportunities they’ve had (if any) have not been appealing. Let’s not bs.

 

[Sccit]

why do yall make these dumb post.

telling men to be aware of what exists is not saying everyone is that thing. Lol. Got damn it blows my mind how destroyed males are in America where telling dudes to stay on their game and watch out for red flags is so upsetting

HES NOT TELLIN MEN TO BE AWARE GENIUS

HE’S TELLIN THEM TO PUT THEMSELVES FIRST - ITS LITERALLY THE TITLE OF THE OP

IF U FIND A GOOD WOMAN THATS WORTH STARTING A FAMILY WITH, CLEARLY PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST WONT BE CONDUCIVE TO A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

THINK MUFUCCA

 

[Sccit]

Yea. U can take a gamble with the women u come across. See how that pans out for u.

I’m of the mind that attractive people can’t be faithful or loyal. If we’re being honest, most people who think they’re loyal and have never cheated are only able to say that because the opportunities they’ve had (if any) has not been appealing. Let’s not bs.

NOT TRUE AT ALL

YOU SAY THIS BECAUSE OF THE CIRCLES YOURE IN

PLENTY OF BEAUTIFUL WOMEN HAVE STAYED FAITHFUL TO THEIR STRONG HUSBAND THROUGH THE GRACE OF GOD

U LIVE IN A NEGATIVE MINDSET

 

[Apollo Creed]

HES NOT TELLIN MEN TO BE AWARE GENIUS

HE’S TELLIN THEM TO PUT THEMSELVES FIRST - ITS LITERALLY THE TITLE OF THE OP

IF U FIND A GOOD WOMAN THATS WORTH STARTING A FAMILY WITH, CLEARLY PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST WONT BE CONDUCIVE TO A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

THINK MUFUCCA

so men shouldnt put themselves first?


Boy you dudes are toast

 

[Astroslik]

Here is just one example of how cold it can get for you out here if you’re not careful.

Dated him, knew he wanted to get married and she didn’t, stuck it out long enough to get the baby, then left once the goal was reached.

The “variety of reasons” didn’t stop her from dating him, getting pregnant with and keeping his child, or getting her to get what she wanted from him(or any man really) in the interim i.e sex and attention, but afterwards they did keep her from giving him what he wanted and gave her justification to leave the relationship.

They’ll date you, use you for what they want out of you, and then by the time they get what they want they will coincidentally be over you move on when they’re ready.

Put yourselves first guys.

Thats some @Cold Blooded shyt

 

[Sccit]

so men shouldnt put themselves first?


Boy you dudes are toast

IF YOU JUS TRYNA FUCC SOME HOE U MET OFF TINDER? NO DOUBT, U PUT YASELF FIRST SECOND N THIRD

IF U LOVE A WOMAN AND ARE READY TO START A FAMILY WIT HER? ONCE U GOT CHILDREN WIT THAT WOMAN U SHOULD LITERALLY BE WILLIN TO TAKE A BULLET FOR HER

U SOUND LIKE A LIL KID BRODIE