Question for the Anti Single Mother Clique :unsure:

[AZBeauty]

Opinions on this will change with age. The older you guys get, its less likely you will find a woman without a child or two. Since most of you are players you won't be looking for a serious relationship until what.. late 20's to mid 30's? By then most of the chicks you will encounter will have children.

 

[Born2BKing]

well this isnt about a single mother with a living baby daddy...this is about a single mother with a dead ex husband, whom was her first and only love.

Yeah if the baby father is dead then it would be a lot easier to accept the child.

 

[marcuz]

Give me 3 good reasons as to why u want ur wife to bare your children first.

sub sections included. ;)

i aint gotta give you 3 good reasons, you can't shame me into thinking it's acceptable to wife a woman with a kid already.


shyt is crazy cus women are the same way except worst. bytches with kids will even tell you they don't want a man with kids.

 

[Sinnerman]

wouldn't do it

 

[Ooh Marty]

i aint gotta give you 3 good reasons, you can't shame me into thinking it's acceptable to wife a woman with a kid already.


shyt is crazy cus women are the same way except worst. bytches with kids will even tell you they don't want a man with kids.

Deflecting as usual

You can't give three simple reasons as to why u want a woman to bare you her first kids?

And on average, women are more accepting of men with kids...trust me

I know a whole lot more women married to/or in ltr with single fathers or men with children.

 

[The ADD]

This should be good

 

[killacal]

Give me 3 good reasons as to why u want ur wife to bare your children first.

sub sections included. ;)

This doesn't even deserve an answer

 

[marcuz]

Deflecting as usual

You can't give three simple reasons as to why u want a woman to bare you her first kids?

- because i don't want a woman who's already reproduced off spring with another man

- i dont want to build a legacy for a seed i didn't produce

- i want all my experiences with my wife to be mutually shared. everything we do with our kid will be the first time.

- i wont love someone elses b*stard kid like i'd love my own

- stepping into a single parent home means she's already got too many responsibilities

- it's hard to discipline a child that's not your own.


- she probably covered in stretch marks from the last kid and vagina is probably threw

- i'd be like this:

 

[Ooh Marty]

This is doesn't even deserve an answer

all I'm asking for is a good reason...if he or you can give me a good reason then I'll change my opinion

 

[Ooh Marty]

- because i don't want a woman who's already reproduced off spring with another man

- i dont want to build a legacy for a seed i didn't produce

- i want all my experiences with my wife to be mutually shared. everything we do with our kid will be the first time.

- i wont love someone elses b*stard kid like i'd love my own

- stepping into a single parent home means she's already got too many responsibilities

- it's hard to discipline a child that's not your own.


- she probably covered in stretch marks from the last kid and vagina is probably threw

- i'd be like this:

I Hate You Too - YouTube

You made a few good points

But I have a question about the bolded though, you can't see yourself loving and possibly adopting her children if your love for her is strong?

 

[JoelB]

 

[Black Hans]

When I'm talking about single mothers, I'm talking about baby mamas who usually have children by lowlifes. A woman losing her man in death is a lot different than a woman losing her man to the pen. I'd consider her if she had all those qualities.

BTW: I hope the OP isn't looking for ways to on dudes, concocting stories to men she meet in her life about what happened to her baby daddy so they fukk with her. This question is quite peculiar

 

[AAKing23]

all I'm asking for is a good reason...if he or you can give me a good reason then I'll change my opinion

What kind of question is that tho, why are men questioned for wanting our own woman to ourselves to build a legacy with and have our own kids and family with.



Would you want a man with all that baggage with 2 kids from other women that aren't even your's. Or would you rather start a family with a man with no kids, and have him to yourself

 

[GoPro]

Opinions on this will change with age. The older you guys get, its less likely you will find a woman without a child or two. Since most of you are players you won't be looking for a serious relationship until what.. late 20's to mid 30's? By then most of the chicks you will encounter will have children.

Tell me about it . I'm try a go the traditional, non-matchmaking-site route to find a chick but I stay getting hit it "my kid/s". Happened four times n the past couple months.

So yea, if the husband is dead, and the kids are less than 3, then Id feel her out to see ifshe has a good head on her shoulders.

Either that or settle for some fat chick

 

[marcuz]

This question is quite peculiar

its not even realistic cus most black women don't get married before having children

i hope these black witches don't start lying. bytches getting pregnant off 1 nite stands with dudes who are currently in jail gone start lying, talking bout they were married and the husband died over in afghanistan or some shyt. i see you marty, trying to give these bytches a way out.