Question for the Anti Single Mother Clique :unsure:

[Coli Bot]

Opinions on this will change with age. The older you guys get, its less likely you will find a woman without a child or two. Since most of you are players you won't be looking for a serious relationship until what.. late 20's to mid 30's? By then most of the chicks you will encounter will have children.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

How're you supposed to know this is the truth? You know how people (women) lie, what if you give it a shot and some nikka knocks on the door one day saying "I wanna see my child".

I'm still young enough to where I mostly mess with girls in their early 20's. However, this chick better be beautiful, have at least a bachelors, have her own career and money (Or well on the path towards it), and treat me like a damn king for me to consider it.

 

[Ooh Marty]

i dealt with a woman like that once. except she only had one child, a girl, from the guy. and the guy didn't die in a car accident, he had a stroke and died. it's the only single mother i've every dealt with. wasn't like i dealt with her for long either, we just had sex a couple of times while she was in town...

well I'm not talking about fukk buddies/sex wise...I'm talking about for a long term relationship, seriously date or even marry.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

so you just used her for the disposable vagina she is? good job

no, i would have dealt with her more than that but she was only in town because her friend was getting married. she was actually cool, i still talk to her occasionally...

 

[Swirv]

Everything isnt always as it seems

 

[Metta World Movement]

TOTALLY different situation from the majority of these whore single mothers out 'chea. As a matter of fact it's so unique that I don't even know if it's worth asking. I'd rather spend time looking for a needle in a haystack than looking for a black single mother in that situation.

I'd definitely roll the dice on that particular single mother (assuming she's also beautiful w/ a good personality and all of that).

The kids' father is DEAD. Don't gotta worry about baby daddy drama. Plus, she was married when she had the kids (I assume that's also what you meant). The only possible negative I can think of is if the kids are near/in their teens and I have to deal with that "you ain't my daddy" bullshyt (even though I can always hit 'em with the "You right....yo daddy in a box underneath some dirt....now stfu and do as you're told" )



HOWEVER.....I'd STILL prefer a seedless bytch over that bytch, to make my own kids with. I don't see why people get mad at nikkas who don't like to share that womb.

 

[marcuz]

no, i would have dealt with her more than that but she was only in town because her friend was getting married. she was actually cool, i still talk to her occasionally...

neg rep

 

[winb83]

long as she share the same values as I then i have no problem being with her.

Its funny how these guys blame the women but not the men for leaving.

go ahead and take the back seat role to somebody else's kids and when some shyt goes down that involves all of yall you're gonna see just how important you really are to her.

as a man why should you give a shyt if some other man left his kids? all that tells you is she's a poor judge of character if she'd lay up with a dude that would abandon his own seed. if the guy died then let somebody else walk into that ready made family.

i don't have any children, fukk i look like putting up with somebody else's?

 

[Ooh Marty]

How're you supposed to know this is the truth? You know how people (women) lie, what if you give it a shot and some nikka knocks on the door one day saying "I wanna see my child".

I'm still young enough to where I mostly mess with girls in their early 20's. However, this chick better be beautiful, have at least a bachelors, have her own career and money (Or well on the path towards it), and treat me like a damn king for me to consider it.

But what if it was the gawd honest truth?

And as far as the bold, those should be your standards period.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

well I'm not talking about fukk buddies/sex wise...I'm talking about for a long term relationship, seriously date or even marry.

but i'm saying, i probably wouldn't have even fukked her if it was a different situation, being the person i am. she became a single mother due to happenstance, not because things just didn't work out...

 

[Kilgore Trout]

I have nothing against single moms at all but dating one is a big deal and would make my life way more stressful than it already is. I really don't know what kind of exceptional quality she could have that would make me overlook her having a kid and make me want to be with her.

Its probably different in other locations but where I live its just as easy to find a great chick without a kid.

Its kind of not fair to write people off for these things but life aint fair. If I was in my mid 30s, id entertain it, but now no.

 

[The ADD]

I know but I thought that maybe if under different circumstances...these negros could stay on topic and give me a good answer either opposing it or for it. But nooooooo, nikkas just gotta fukk shyt up.

Honestly the odds of that being the case are slim so considering the demographic on here there is no way they can wrap there mind around that.

Continue on however

 

[winb83]

Opinions on this will change with age. The older you guys get, its less likely you will find a woman without a child or two. Since most of you are players you won't be looking for a serious relationship until what.. late 20's to mid 30's? By then most of the chicks you will encounter will have children.

the underlying theme of your post is a fear of being alone driving a person to accept something they don't really want rather than be alone. basically saying its too hard to get what i want so i'll accept some bs cause its way easier.

there's always gonna be people without kids in every age group. its about knowing what you want and being patient enough to get it not letting everyone else's fukk ups dictate to you what you should take or get outta life.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

But what if it was the gawd honest truth?

And as far as the bold, those should be your standards period.

If it was the honest truth...and the girl met the previous requirements, then she better be extra good looking, like a legit 9.

Then yes i'd give it a shot, but I imagine i'd feel like a grade A simp for taking care of some kids that weren't my own...dunno how long that would last.

Edit: wait 2 kids!? Yeah fukk all that, couldn't do it.

 

[sixsixtwo]

- because i don't want a woman who's already reproduced off spring with another man

- i dont want to build a legacy for a seed i didn't produce

- i want all my experiences with my wife to be mutually shared. everything we do with our kid will be the first time.

- i wont love someone elses b*stard kid like i'd love my own

- stepping into a single parent home means she's already got too many responsibilities

- it's hard to discipline a child that's not your own.


- she probably covered in stretch marks from the last kid and vagina is probably threw

- i'd be like this:

I Hate You Too - YouTube

Amen!