Question for the Anti Single Mother Clique :unsure:

[marcuz]

3 years and it was alright, she never asked me for money, her son was well mannered and funny as hell. She was a good woman which is why i stick for single mothers. Of course we wasnt no family, but we did go to chuckie cheese alot the pizza

i thought you said you didn't have to do anything for the kid, but you going to chuckie cheese with them?

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Put it like this...if ur girl has a kid with YOU..and shes a good mother..ur number 2..period..and u shouldnt mind being number 2 or 3 when it comes to children anyway...ur mentality is selfish as fukk...

Hmm good point, and i'm still in my early 20's so yes i'd hope i'm selfish. I have a lot to worry about as it is, tryna go to medical school. I don't need no kids at this point in my life.

 

[Soundbwoy]

My boys girlfriend was trying to hook us up with her girl she has a kid with some dude who is serving 25yrs in the state for robbery

 

[AZBeauty]

the underlying theme of your post is a fear of being alone driving a person to accept something they don't really want rather than be alone. basically saying its too hard to get what i want so i'll accept some bs cause its way easier.

there's always gonna be people without kids in every age group. its about knowing what you want and being patient enough to get it not letting everyone else's fukk ups dictate to you what you should take or get outta life.

Of course there is always going to be women who don't have any kids but does that mean that they will want you? No. So basically all I am saying is....the older you get...the less your options become. Most women...married, single, divorced or whatever has a child by age of 30. Actually most websites have the average age around 25.

 

[Just like bruddas]

i thought you said you didn't have to do anything for the kid, but you going to chuckie cheese with them?

she paid and i love the pizza im way to big for the ball pit though. Hell she even paid for my god son


Wish she didnt had to move though,

 

[Ooh Marty]

womens standards raise after they have kids as well

bytch want the best fukking guy in the world when they got kids, but allowed some dude with nothing to get them pregnant.

ignored..until u get back on subject mf.

 

[Kenny West]

this is so one sided its not even funny but whatever man

Of course it is.

If I'mma date a bytch, I just wanna date her.

Not her, her baggage, her kids, her dad etc

First I gotta get mad at the nikka who stepped out on her

then i gotta be mad at the nikkas who made her bitter/jaded

then I gotta get heated the baby for stretching her p*ssy out

then the fast food industry if she can't drop baby weight

even though none of these parties really don't have to have shyt to do with my relationship with the chick

point is, you don't know dude or his story. And the story u get from her aint worth shyt cause she's not gonna take responsiblity for shyt anyway. u just on ya

u the type of nikka bytches call to whine about they ex boyfriend. won't ever sniff the p*ssy but ready to :fight: after whatever victim story they bring to u

 

[spliz]

Hmm good point, and i'm still in my early 20's so yes i'd hope i'm selfish. I have a lot to worry about as it is, tryna go to medical school. I don't need no kids at this point in my life.

Ok..this makes alotta sense...never put urself in a situation where u would have to assume a responsibility u aint ready for..its better for u and the womans kids that way...

 

[Just like bruddas]

Of course it is.

If I'mma date a bytch, I just wanna date her.

Not her, her baggage, her kids, her dad etc

First I gotta get mad at the nikka who stepped out on her

then i gotta be mad at the nikkas who made her bitter/jaded

then I gotta get heated the baby for stretching her p*ssy out

then the fast food industry if she can't drop baby weight

even though none of these parties really don't have to have shyt to do with my relationship with the chick

point is, you don't know dude or his story. And the story u get from her aint worth shyt cause she's not gonna take responsiblity for shyt. u just on ya

u the type of nikka bytches call to whine about they ex boyfriend. won't ever sniff the p*ssy but ready to :fight: after whatever victim story they bring to u

damn breh u have been through it

 

[YBE]

Now hol up

There is nothing wrong with having preferences but hear me out please.

Say if you meet a woman, shes everything youve been looking for in a woman: sweet, smart, beautiful, has a lot to offer, great qualities etc. But 5 yrs ago her husband died in a car crash/train accident/plane accident and left her with 2 kids.

Will you still pursue her or u just totally against dating/marrying/starting a relationship with a single mother?

I'll bite. I'm selfish. I dont want to share my woman. I'm all for her, I want her to be all for me. With children in the picture, that's not gonna happen. They'll always be number #1 over you.....always. #shytIDontLike


You're not their father. You could be there for 20 years, raise them, clothe, feed & house them, put them through school......all that shyt.......just to hear them say "fukk you, neega. You not my daddy" and they'd be right #MoreshytIDontLike


Once again, I said I'm selfish. A woman having sex with other men before you is hard enough to swallow. We grown, so ehh...everybody has a past. But a woman giving birth to another man's child before you. That's That's a special, life lasting, eternal bond. A special memory between her & him that you'll never be able to erase. That's like that scene in Avatar where the alien dude found out Jake & the alien girl latched their bodies together & went through the bonding ritual I dont want no other fukkin nikka sharing those kinds of moments with my woman. fukk outta here I dont give a fukk if he is dead & gone.....she'll always think of that nikka. #MoreshytIDontLike


Lastly, if we kept it 200%.......I'm her second choice. We wouldn't be together if her husband hadn't died. That shyt would always be looming in my head. Give me the childless, single, never married woman so I can create my own family & my own special moments ....

 

[AZBeauty]

Pretty much is. But like I said, its my last resort. I still have about two more years til I'm really ready to settle down. Just tryna build up my list of options now with women I actually know. But it ain't looking so good. I only know one single black chick whose in shape with no kids, but I think she's barren

Damn lol.

 

[marcuz]

u the type of nikka bytches call to whine about they ex boyfriend. won't ever sniff the p*ssy but ready to :fight: after whatever victim story they bring to u

yeah, he definitely got that "always in the friendzone" vibe about him

 

[flea]

damn 2 kids? that'd be hard. i'd have to date her for a couple months before making anything official. if it were one kid, i might be able to look past that early on.

 

[winb83]

Of course there is always going to be women who don't have any kids but does that mean that they will want you? No. So basically all I am saying is....the older you get...the less your options become. Most women...married, single, divorced or whatever has a child by age of 30. Actually most websites have the average age around 25.

part of the risk of going for what you want is coming up empty handed in the end. if you're not really willing to fail then success isn't an option for you.

what's the real value in lowering the bar over and over again until finally someone you wouldn't choose for yourself if all options were on the table chooses you? what did you really get?

 

[Just like bruddas]

Idk brehs but my experience is different from yalls. I mean I not doubting yall stories but i never experience that so


Honesty i think yall are blaming single mothers for some of the bad choices yall made in women.