Question for the Anti Single Mother Clique :unsure:

[spliz]

i think you mean mothers turn their kids against their biological fathers all the time

No. Kids will turn parents against eachother ALL THE TIME if the parents allow it...thats a fact and im telling u this as a man with 2 children..how many kids do any of u nikkas have?..ok then..if u date a woman with kids and it gets to the point where yall both wanna be a family its up to HER to let her kids know that u have authority as well and can discipline them when needed..if she doesn't then the problem is with the WOMAN..not the kids..period..

 

[floe]

Lawd...I'm NOT TAKING ABOUT JUST ANY SINGLE MOTHER PPL....I'm talking about a single mother whose husband died.

Kids are kids tho

 

[Ooh Marty]

Kids are kids tho

I know but this thread is about a special topic...its not just about the kids...its abt these men seeing things and situations from a different perspective....

 

[marcuz]

No. Kids will turn parents against eachother ALL THE TIME if the parents allow it...thats a fact and im telling u this as a man with 2 children..how many kids do any of u nikkas have?..ok then..if u date a woman with kids and it gets to the point where yall both wanna be a family its up to HER to let her kids know that u have authority as well and can discipline them when needed..if she doesn't then the problem is with the WOMAN..not the kids..period..

give me an example of a kid turning a biological parents against eachother. you've gotta be a pathetic fukk to allow that to happen

 

[Just like bruddas]

Lawd...I'm NOT TAKING ABOUT JUST ANY SINGLE MOTHER PPL....I'm talking about a single mother whose husband died.

like they give a fukk


but im gonna keep it real, i have my limits, any man does. Im not willing to take a burden. I agree with these bout not saving bad women, but i dont let that stop me from giving others a chance. Not all women are the same


but wow at these stories these guys are posting, but u know the saying


you are what u attract and these guys need to step it up if these are the only mothers they see and deal with

 

[winb83]

I know but this thread is about a special topic...its not just about the kids...its abt these men seeing things and situations from a different perspective....

would you then get with a tiny dikk man that can't fukk because his previous wife died even if everything else about him other than that was perfect?

being placed in a sympathetic situation doesn't transform an undesirable into a desirable. there' no perspective that does that.

 

[spliz]

The nikkas is this thread is the equivalent to a bytch who just started having sex sayin she would NEVER give head...lol...all it takes is the right nikka to bring it outta her and make her comfortable enough...in yall case..all it takes is the right chick..

 

[screenname01]

Now hol up

There is nothing wrong with having preferences but hear me out please.

Say if you meet a woman, shes everything youve been looking for in a woman: sweet, smart, beautiful, has a lot to offer, great qualities etc. But 5 yrs ago her husband died in a car crash/train accident/plane accident and left her with 2 kids.

Will you still pursue her or u just totally against dating/marrying/starting a relationship with a single mother?

you ever heard the saying "it aint never as good as the first time?" well, thats how the single mama is gonna be lookin at simp azz willstyles the second time around. because relationship wise, yall cant really climb any new plateaus that she aint already climbed with the guy that was her first choice. but really, what it all comes down to is i dont want them muthafukkin kids, man. her and another nygga had all the fun of making the b.ast.ards but you get stuck with the emotional, financial and psychological bills of raising those little muthafukkas? thats a gab-bage can potluck. and this ol simp azz, pull-out couch bed sleepin, stankfeet, livin room fonkyin up azz nygga thinkin he in here sayin some fly shyt.

 

[The Unknown Hype]

Deflecting as usual

You can't give three simple reasons as to why u want a woman to bare you her first kids?

And on average, women are more accepting of men with kids...trust me

I know a whole lot more women married to/or in ltr with single fathers or men with children.

illl tell you one thing it works better if the man is a in a similar situation(has kids as well). when it comes to woman who have been widowed theres a slight possibility i would go for it thats only if she was the one for sure. But i cant cape for any other type of woman who has that lingering ex husband who will never be gone because of the attachment the kids will forever keep between them. relationships are already hard enough and kids bring in more factors which makes it even more complex. so why put yourself through the situation , their are men stuck in the same situation as some single mothers probably fewer but nonetheless you see my point. Lets this be a lesson to you when you decide to have kids make sure you plan on being with that person for life.

 

[Bolzmark]

Altough I would look at her differently than some chick who just got knocked up, the end result is still the same. I cannot get into a serious relationship with a woman who has a kid or kids. Is not that she can't be a great woman, because I know fantastic single mothers. There is just so much that comes with marrying a woman with kids.

-I got this crazy dream of my first kid also being my wifes first kid. Call me old fashioned, but remember there used to be a time when men only wanted virgins.

-Like it or not you will ALWAYS be second to those kids, and thats how it supposed to be. I expect for my wife to put our kids before me, but they will be OUR kids.

-Suppose the kids dont like me or vice versa? "You ain't even my real daddy!"

-I'm looking forward to that time where its just me and my wife in the crib. You forfeit that when you get with someone with kids.

-$$$

-Even though the real Dad is dead, you still might have to deal with his family.

 

[606onit]

i'd consider if he were a better man than me.
Meaning, he left us a shyt pile of money, and two stable toss-away-kids so I can drill and make some perfect ones.

 

[marcuz]

you are what u attract and these guys need to step it up if these are the only mothers they see and deal with

so what are you, since you self admittedly can't attract anyone?

 

[winb83]

The nikkas is this thread is the equivalent to a bytch who just started having sex sayin she would NEVER give head...lol...all it takes is the right nikka to bring it outta her and make her comfortable enough...in yall case..all it takes is the right chick..

 

[spliz]

give me an example of a kid turning a biological parents against eachother. you've gotta be a pathetic fukk to allow that to happen

nikka it happens EVERY SINGLE DAY in households..more often than not...kids will ask a parent somethin..and the first parent says no and doesn't agree...then kids turns around and asks the other parent behind the first parents back..and that parent doesnt see anything wrong with it...says yes...kid gets what it wants..parents argue over their disagreement...kid made the parents oppose eachother..its that simple...now how far it goes is ultimately up to the PARENTS...I can tell u nikkas is inexperienced...lol

 

[MikelArteta]

It's telling when the ladies room biggest defender is declining to put himself into that situation. Being a single mother really is the kiss of death. . AIDS or kids? I think AIDs may be preferrable. How come single moms with kids are always trying to get dudes who don't have children to be part of their all ready made families? I notice this a lot. It's like they don't want to date what they are. Why not just date dudes who all ready have kids and do the brady bunch thing?

Just like fat girls don't want to date fat guys

Nothing good comes from dating a single mom, even with baby dad being dead, she's going to want you to adopt, you sill have to spend your hard earned money on a kid that ain't yours, you'll never be respected by the kid

He'll I don't get if your coretta Scott king or Betty shabazz 40 years ago