Question for the married brehs and brehettes on here

[Mafioso]

Aight imma try to keep this short and straight to the point. I’m a happily married family man. Been with wifey for a long time, got couple kids and I love them to death. I’ve always admired other women and have had opportunities to get with other women in the past which I never pursued. I still admire other women because I love all women and think they’re beautiful but I’ve always “looked but never endulged.”

I’m an RN in a hospital setting. There’s this shorty at my job, we work opposite shifts. I work during the day and she works nights. At least a couple days out of the week we have to give each other report on patients if we have mutual patients. From the moment I saw her, she caught my eye but I thought it was just a “oh she’s cute type thing.” Brehs, I’m crushing on shorty like I was in high school. I know she’s vibing with me too. She laughs at everything I say. She goes out of her way to talk to me even if we don’t have mutual patients. I know she be looking at me and making jokes like “you should take an assignment and stay with us tonight.” shyt like that.

For the married people on here: have you ever had a crush on someone else even if you love your significant other? shyt weird as fukk, idk what to do. I can’t leave my fam for her I know that for sure. But I’m def fantasizing about breaking shorty’s back and I might pursue it

What do I do?!!? I can’t stop thinking about her and I feel mad guilty. Have any of you been in this sort of predicament?

Cliffnotes for the lazy brehs: I’m married and there’s this other chick at work and I’m crushing on her. Should I go for her or not? Help me

 

[Gdp77]

She can do better so forget about it.

 

[Mafioso]

She can do better so forget about it.

Repped

 

[The BasedFather]

Can’t really be a happily married man if you’re feeling this way

Kinda stupid to pursue anything if you love your wife like you said and especially having kids together. Why break up the family for some quick p*ssy? It’s normal to feel that urge but yeah

Take a cold shower and avoid ole girl

 

[Trav]

It's easy to become enamored with someone that you see every day. You can even think, "in the multiverse, this one prolly was the one in another timeline" but to do anything about it except keep admiring from afar is foolish lol.

I mean, only you know your own moral compass & what may stop you from sleeping @ night so if you ok with that then by all means, cracc her

Just know wat comes with that in terms of being paranoid, projecting on ya lady, feeling guilty (if u ain't a piece of shyt), and then ultimately destroying ya fam, and for what? Prolly 20-25 mins to bussin' one if ya lucky?

I mean, you ain't even said nothing about ya wife doing no foul shyt, withholding, stepping out herself, not holding da house down, u just wanna do it just to do it? Grab the Jergens, go to JBO, handle ya biz and rethink this

 

[Mafioso]

Can’t really be a happily married man if you’re feeling this way

Kinda stupid to pursue anything if you love your wife like you said and especially having kids together. Why break up the family for some quick p*ssy? It’s normal to feel that urge but yeah

Take a cold shower and avoid ole girl

Fam, you are 100% right. This shyt never has happened to me. Like I said, I feel like I have a crush on her and I feel bad about it like a mf. I know this is the right answer but I’m thinking with my dikkhead. Pause

 

[beenz]

look, nikkas cheat every day b, but u know good and well about not where you

at a bare minimum, get a sidepiece that's OUTSIDE of the place where you make money

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Get married brehettes

 

[Mafioso]

It's easy to become enamored with someone that you see every day. You can even think, "in the multiverse, this one prolly was the one in another timeline" but to do anything about it except keep admiring from afar is foolish lol.

I mean, only you know your own moral compass & what may stop you from sleeping @ night so if you ok with that then by all means, cracc her

Just know wat comes with that in terms of being paranoid, projecting on ya lady, feeling guilty (if u ain't a piece of shyt), and then ultimately destroying ya fam, and for what? Prolly 20-25 mins to bussin' one if ya lucky?

I mean, you ain't even said nothing about ya wife doing no foul shyt, withholding, stepping out herself, not holding da house down, u just wanna do it just to do it? Grab the Jergens, go to JBO, handle ya biz and rethink this

Breh, my wife always held me down. I know for a fact I don’t want to hurt her or fukk up the family or anything. You right, if anything I may end up smashing for a little bit and then living with that in my consciousness. Or I may end up fukking around with her on the side and eventually shyt may catch up to me.

I know a lot of you have lots of experience in general which is why I needed yall to tell me this is some dumb shyt. I know it is but I need the reinforcement.

Appreciate it fam

 

[Sir Richard Spirit]

I’m an RN in a hospital setting. There’s this shorty at my job, we work opposite shifts. I work during the day and she works nights.

Nah.. not yet. Until yall work together you can’t crush on her. You can want to fukk her tho.

 

[Mafioso]

look, nikkas cheat every day b, but u know good and well about not where you

at a bare minimum, get a sidepiece that's OUTSIDE of the place where you make money

Everyone fukking each other in the hospital if we keeping it a buck. HR ain’t worried about that tbh. And I’m leaving for a diff hospital in a couple weeks. But I was trynna stay connected after I left. But you right tho breh

 

[beenz]

Everyone fukking each other in the hospital if we keeping it a buck. HR ain’t worried about that tbh. And I’m leaving for a diff hospital in a couple weeks. But I was trynna stay connected after I left. But you right tho breh

well if u finna leave soon, get her number on your way out the door if you wanna be on some real scumbag shyt

 

[FTBS]

Either leave your wife for her or leave her alone. Trying to play the middle wont end well. Harrassment, workplace misconduct, getting caught by wife, catching something or getting her pregnant, crazy violent boyfriend, one of yall getting sprung and the other being and drama ensuing are among the most likely outcomes here. In other words, not worth it.

 

[Mafioso]

Nah.. not yet. Until yall work together you can’t crush on her. You can want to fukk her tho.

I see girls I wanna fukk all the time. I ain’t even overly horny at all but I admire chicks and be like deff would hit. But never pursue it.

Something about this chick gives me a diff feeling. I get excited when I see she’s working at night and shyt.

Last night I was leaving. Mind you, we didn’t even have patients to give report about. She jokingly said as I was about to leave “oh so I heard you’re staying tonight?” I said “hell nah I’m sweaty as fukk and need to go home and take a cold shower asap” she goes “that’s ok we have showers and towels here. You can stay. I promise you were fun on the night shift” as she was giggling. Took every urge in me to be like “I would stay if I was spending the night with you”

 

[ThrobbingHood]

The worst thing a man can do is invite chaos into his peaceful life. Just remember what you’re risking for some momentary pleasure.