Question for the married brehs and brehettes on here

[MoshpitMazi]

Not worth it

 

[Mafioso]

Crazy thing is, idk if shorty even has a significant other. That didn’t even cross my mind in this fog. I know she has a son but I don’t see a ring on her. She may have a crazy bf tho

Also if she got a bf and she flirty, she may be too much a headache anyway

 

[MoshpitMazi]

I'm not married myself OP I have a kinda long term BM

I was in a situation like det with a co worker and we fukked and it went super left

HR thinks I'm Bill Diddy Epstein now. And the personal chaos was definitely not worth it.

 

[Swirv]

Quit your job and find another hospital. This chic will catch you in a moment of weakness, you have to run away now.

 

[Mafioso]

Btw me and wifey still have healthy sex life. I can hit whenever I want but tbh we fukk about 3 times a week. We both work very stressful jobs so it can vary. But I ain’t out here on some desperate time either tho.

Been turned down p*ssy in diff settings in the past. This situation feels a lil different.

You are all talking a lot of sense into me tho. I appreciate you all

 

[Trav]

Either leave your wife for her or leave her alone. Trying to play the middle wont end well. Harrassment, workplace misconduct, getting caught by wife, catching something or getting her pregnant, crazy violent boyfriend, one of yall getting sprung and the other being and drama ensuing are among the most likely outcomes here. In other words, not worth it.

That reminds me of one of my wife's friends and what happened to her. She's a nurse too, uprooted her whole life & moved to Chi town at the request of her husband. Come to find out, she at the hospital pulling 12-hour shifts while he fukking everything moving--on dating apps, creepin' where he work, leaving work to fucc, spending the night over heaux house, the whole 9. Got found out, placed on leave by his job cuz he was in a supervisory role of the people he was fukking

99% of the time, the shyt not ever worth it for the fleeting feeling of conquering sum new work. Should've gotten that outta ya system when you was younger or just not get married & start a family

 

[Mafioso]

I'm not married myself OP I have a kinda long term BM

I was in a situation like det with a co worker and we fukked and it went super left

HR thinks I'm Bill Diddy Epstein now. And the personal chaos was definitely not worth it.

Bill Diddy Epstein is wild breh sorry…. But tell me more of how it went left. I need a real perspective

 

[Mafioso]

Quit your job and find another hospital. This chic will catch you in a moment of weakness, you have to run away now.

You right. I wouldn’t be surprised if I see her working somewhere else. Nurses always have multiple per diem gigs and pick up shifts all over the place so it’s kind of a small world.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

i don't see how you can be happy in marriage if you not happy with yourself.
the type of obsession with the opposite sex and openness to immoral activity indicates low self esteem ... or something

 

[Coco Loco]

Having a crush while married is crazy but being attracted to someone is normal. You ain't dead and your eyes still work lol

Self control is a personal choice, choose wisely beloved

 

[Ricky Fontaine]

Ol' "I Think I Love My Wife " ass nikka

If you asking, you not built for it.

Go beat ya meat and buy your wife some flowers before you end up ruining your life over some chick that don't even like you like that.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Don’t do it. Remember this rule of thumb. If you smash a colleague, you have to put in WORK.

You put in work, she will cling to you letting everyone know in subtle ways, word will spread and she will catch feelings because now you are the worker man (For everyone).

Tug your pipe and call it a day Al Bundy.

 

[Mafioso]

i don't see how you can be happy in marriage if you not happy with yourself.
the type of obsession with the opposite sex and openness to immoral activity indicates low self esteem ... or something

Honestly, you’re not wrong. I’ve been trying to reflect about this situation.

I don’t feel unhappy, I feel fulfilled, I love my wife and my kids to death. But yet I still see girls I would love to have sex with on a daily basis. I never act on it because I’m usually very rational.

This chick giving me butterflies and I don’t even know why. Can it be a energy thing? Her smell? Idk I can’t put my finger on it. The fact that I feel like I could get with her if I pursued it doesn’t make it any easier.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Honestly, you’re not wrong. I’ve been trying to reflect about this situation.

I don’t feel unhappy, I feel fulfilled, I love my wife and my kids to death. But yet I still see girls I would love to have sex with on a daily basis. I never act on it because I’m usually very rational.

This chick giving me butterflies and I don’t even know why. Can it be a energy thing? Her smell? Idk I can’t put my finger on it. The fact that I feel like I could get with her if I pursued it doesn’t make it any easier.

porn done turned brains into mush.
seek god or a therapist

 

[Ricky Fontaine]

Last night I was leaving. Mind you, we didn’t even have patients to give report about. She jokingly said as I was about to leave “oh so I heard you’re staying tonight?” I said “hell nah I’m sweaty as fukk and need to go home and take a cold shower asap” she goes “that’s ok we have showers and towels here. You can stay. I promise you were fun on the night shift” as she was giggling. Took every urge in me to be like “I would stay if I was spending the night with you”

Hell nah

Hang it up bro. You too green. She gon take you for a ride.

Your wife gon catch you texting some corny shyt like this and leave you and you won't even get to smash.