Question for the married brehs and brehettes on here

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I appreciate you all for keeping it real with me tho. I’m now 90% certain I won’t pursue this any longer. If ther other 10% takes over me I will let y’all know. I have 2 weeks left at this hospital so whether I fukk up or not is gonna happen in the next couple weeks :sadcam:
 

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Aight imma try to keep this short and straight to the point. I’m a happily married family man. Been with wifey for a long time, got couple kids and I love them to death. I’ve always admired other women and have had opportunities to get with other women in the past which I never pursued. I still admire other women because I love all women and think they’re beautiful but I’ve always “looked but never endulged.”

I’m an RN in a hospital setting. There’s this shorty at my job, we work opposite shifts. I work during the day and she works nights. At least a couple days out of the week we have to give each other report on patients if we have mutual patients. From the moment I saw her, she caught my eye but I thought it was just a “oh she’s cute type thing.” Brehs, I’m crushing on shorty like I was in high school. I know she’s vibing with me too. She laughs at everything I say. She goes out of her way to talk to me even if we don’t have mutual patients. I know she be looking at me and making jokes like “you should take an assignment and stay with us tonight.” shyt like that.

For the married people on here: have you ever had a crush on someone else even if you love your significant other? shyt weird as fukk, idk what to do. I can’t leave my fam for her I know that for sure. But I’m def fantasizing about breaking shorty’s back and I might pursue it :sadcam:

What do I do?!!? I can’t stop thinking about her and I feel mad guilty. Have any of you been in this sort of predicament?

Cliffnotes for the lazy brehs: I’m married and there’s this other chick at work and I’m crushing on her. Should I go for her or not? Help me :ohhh:
:francis::francis::francis:

Are you willing to throw away being a happily married family man pursuing a woman in a field where women are known to be... loose?
Fukk a vibe, you willin' to risk your job and marriage 'cause you crushing on shorty like you was in high school?

You ready to take the risk?
You ready? 'Cause if you ready to roll the dice and game shorty up, you already chose to step outside ya marriage.
And you already risking the woman you happily married to for a woman you barely know.

I'm not married... but this a tale old as time. Go home to your wife and spark that flame again with the feelings you got for this new woman.

Don't be dumb
 

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My boy recently fukked up big time and got his side chick pregnant :snoop:So I knowwww I shouldn’t be doing this brehs and brehettes.
 

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Bill Diddy Epstein is wild breh :mjlol: sorry…. But tell me more of how it went left. I need a real perspective
There was this super bad bytch at my job I was fukking , my BM been nervous bout her cus she was a legit 10 and she was one of my project officers.
I ended up breaking up with my son mom over some other shyt ended up fukking with the co worker heavy but she wasn't the only one. I really was running through a roster but was on extra simp shyt with her (I was slipping)
she found out along with a bunch of videos and texts and shyt on some lame ass energy from her part.

I cut her off she ended up linking with my "work rival" that I told her about in private...

I went real life Blackonblack with him and it was close to getting ugly
, he ended up quitting
She went to HR (and my BM) told them I'm on some onlyfans shyt with other coworkers fukking them (I'm not I just record it for fun) and using them and harassing her.
HR did a longgggggg investigation found no wrong doing or "emotional impropriety" so I kept my job which is really nice BUT I got moved to a new team and she got moved to a different state
I still fukked after which is crazy her shyt was water but she was nutty as squirrel crap. Love her though she stalks me to this day. I'm used to hoes being crazy but it was not a fun time.

Not only did I endanger my livelihood but seeing the mother of my child so disappointed sucked.
 

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OP, don’t do it.

Your feelings will pass.

She’s not the one that got away or any of that other shyt. She’s someone you vibe with. And guess what? You’re gonna vibe with others as well. Don’t flirt with her. Don’t be alone with her. No texts or phone calls. Keep it strictly professional.

She is a coworker. Nothing more.
 

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Fam, you are 100% right. This shyt never has happened to me. Like I said, I feel like I have a crush on her and I feel bad about it like a mf. I know this is the right answer but I’m thinking with my dikkhead. Pause

It'll pass. Plus you dont need the drama. These things never end well.
 

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There was this super bad bytch at my job I was fukking , my BM been nervous bout her cus she was a legit 10 and she was one of my project officers.
I ended up breaking up with my son mom over some other shyt ended up fukking with the co worker heavy but she wasn't the only one. I really was running through a roster but was on extra simp shyt with her (I was slipping)
she found out along with a bunch of videos and texts and shyt on some lame ass energy from her part.

I cut her off she ended up linking with my "work rival" that I told her about in private...

I went real life Blackonblack with him and it was close to getting ugly
, he ended up quitting
She went to HR (and my BM) told them I'm on some onlyfans shyt with other coworkers fukking them (I'm not I just record it for fun) and using them and harassing her.
HR did a longgggggg investigation found no wrong doing or "emotional impropriety" so I kept my job which is really nice BUT I got moved to a new team and she got moved to a different state
I still fukked after which is crazy her shyt was water but she was nutty as squirrel crap. Love her though she stalks me to this day. I'm used to hoes being crazy but it was not a fun time.
Damnnn fam, thank you for sharing. This the shyt that scares me straight is someone putting all my business out there on some fukk shyt. I’m sorry you had to go through that breh. Some of these chicks be nutty as fukk. I dealt with crazy shyt in my earlier years but I’m :flabbynsick: Now and everyone around me sees me as a respectable family man and I’m scared to fukk that up
 

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I still fukked after which is crazy
Wait… you still smashed this bytch after she tried to get you fired and snitched to your baby moms???



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There was this super bad bytch at my job I was fukking , my BM been nervous bout her cus she was a legit 10 and she was one of my project officers.
I ended up breaking up with my son mom over some other shyt ended up fukking with the co worker heavy but she wasn't the only one. I really was running through a roster but was on extra simp shyt with her (I was slipping)
she found out along with a bunch of videos and texts and shyt on some lame ass energy from her part.

I cut her off she ended up linking with my "work rival" that I told her about in private...

I went real life Blackonblack with him and it was close to getting ugly
, he ended up quitting
She went to HR (and my BM) told them I'm on some onlyfans shyt with other coworkers fukking them (I'm not I just record it for fun) and using them and harassing her.
HR did a longgggggg investigation found no wrong doing or "emotional impropriety" so I kept my job which is really nice BUT I got moved to a new team and she got moved to a different state
I still fukked after which is crazy her shyt was water but she was nutty as squirrel crap. Love her though she stalks me to this day. I'm used to hoes being crazy but it was not a fun time.

Not only did I endanger my livelihood but seeing the mother of my child so disappointed sucked.

to this day?

this sounds pretty recent
 
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