Question for the married brehs and brehettes on here

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You keep leaving the door open in every post thanking the brehs for the perspective. Deep down you got your mind made up and all other shyt is going out the window as soon as she comes to work smiling and smelling good :ehh:
100% factual. She came last night wearing her hair differently, smelling so fresh, smiling at me and being all giggly and shyt with me and I was like “she’s gonna get me in trouble” she makes me want to cuddle with her and I ain’t a cuddler. I feel wack as fukk saying this but I’m being vulnerable today in this bytch
 

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Don’t do it bro! You said you’re happily married. It’s not just you, or your wife, it’s the kids too that can become damaged from it.

Remember black men don’t cheat :salute:
 
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OP let me tell you something the devil does not like marriage and a happy family. For men that are married it’s so easy to fukk shyt up I got a homie who is religious and married carries his bible and gives the sermon to nikkaz and on Saturday getting his dikk sucked by some random stripper at the strip club. I’ve been tried too many times since I been married from other women some don’t care but I try and not cheat as best as I can.
 

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Aight imma try to keep this short and straight to the point. I’m a happily married family man. Been with wifey for a long time, got couple kids and I love them to death. I’ve always admired other women and have had opportunities to get with other women in the past which I never pursued. I still admire other women because I love all women and think they’re beautiful but I’ve always “looked but never endulged.”

I’m an RN in a hospital setting. There’s this shorty at my job, we work opposite shifts. I work during the day and she works nights. At least a couple days out of the week we have to give each other report on patients if we have mutual patients. From the moment I saw her, she caught my eye but I thought it was just a “oh she’s cute type thing.” Brehs, I’m crushing on shorty like I was in high school. I know she’s vibing with me too. She laughs at everything I say. She goes out of her way to talk to me even if we don’t have mutual patients. I know she be looking at me and making jokes like “you should take an assignment and stay with us tonight.” shyt like that.

For the married people on here: have you ever had a crush on someone else even if you love your significant other? shyt weird as fukk, idk what to do. I can’t leave my fam for her I know that for sure. But I’m def fantasizing about breaking shorty’s back and I might pursue it :sadcam:

What do I do?!!? I can’t stop thinking about her and I feel mad guilty. Have any of you been in this sort of predicament?

Cliffnotes for the lazy brehs: I’m married and there’s this other chick at work and I’m crushing on her. Should I go for her or not? Help me :ohhh:

Acceptable to find other people attractive outside of marriage.

Unacceptable to act on the attraction unless the parameters/rules in place for said marriage is OK with extra-curricular activities.

Do what you want.
 

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100% factual. She came last night wearing her hair differently, smelling so fresh, smiling at me and being all giggly and shyt with me and I was like “she’s gonna get me in trouble” she makes me want to cuddle with her and I ain’t a cuddler. I feel wack as fukk saying this but I’m being vulnerable today in this bytch
I feel you on the crush and don't blame you at all, but this is one of those moments where it's best to put your feelings to the side.

It's not worth it in the long run breh. Just go jack off :mjlol:

Even if you gotta clock out, get a beat in and return. Matter of fact, go do that as an experiment and see if you still come back crushing on her as hard after post-nut clarity kicks in.
 

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OP let me tell you something the devil does not like marriage and a happy family. For men that are married it’s so easy to fukk shyt up I got a homie who is religious and married carries his bible and gives the sermon to nikkaz and on Saturday getting his dikk sucked by some random stripper at the strip club. I’ve been tried too many times since I been married from other women some don’t care but I try and not cheat as best as I can.
My homie recently got his side chick pregnant…she’s due in October. I should be learning from the hell he’s been going through lately. The devil is sitting on my other shoulder telling me to pipe her down then cuddle with her after breh
 

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My homie recently got his side chick pregnant…she’s due in October. I should be learning from the hell he’s been going through lately. The devil is sitting on my other shoulder telling me to pipe her down then cuddle with her after breh
See my next homie is about to get a divorce right now because his side chicks husband came home and found him in the man’s bedroom with his dikk out with his wife. Temptation is a muthafukka it doesn’t stop when your married and have kids. It creeps on you when your relationship is at its low moments and can creep up on you in your high moments. Yea you going to feel good that you smashed them cheeks but if your wife finds out you going to wish you never touched them cakes if your wife finds out and leaves your ass with the kids and your kids are all fukked up from it from your actions.
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
my crush was/is my wife
I ran the streets and had all the p*ssy i could get
But I also have battle scars from being with ain’t shyt bytches and me being ain’t shyt
So new p*ssy or new women don’t excite me when I got what I’ve always asked for at home
Yeah I can say a woman is attractive in passing
But these 2025 hoes are on something else and I’m not trying to jeopardize what I got at the crib
And these old hoes ain’t worth a red damn cent like they think they are
Godspeed with that homie
 
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