Question for the older brothers...

[murksiderock]

I already explained my live-in situation a couple times on here. I'll give it a brief summary then fill in gaps where needed...

My childs' mom and I are living together until our lease ends in June, we've been separated since last July. Victims of circumstance is why we've still lived together...

She's 25 and recently began seeing this 41-year old guy, according to her. Over the last 2-3 weeks she's brought up dude multiple times; most recently last night she asked me when I would like to meet dude, etc etc...

I already have responded with feeling like she's talking dude up to annoy me and feel great about herself, my question isn't pertained to that. My question is, what would a man want with a woman 16 years younger than him, who still lives with her kids father? At 41, what does this tell you about who he is and his motives?

She specifically asked me last week what I think about some info she shared, then when I told her I'm not impressed, she went in about how she thinks he's a "unicorn"--->he's unlike any man she's ever met before and she doesn't think she'll meet anyone like him ever again. She repeatedly asks me questions, I give an answer, then she debates me about my answer to a question she asked me unprovoked...

Woman of The Coli feel free to jump in if you have an opinion as well. I told her to take care of herself, he doesn't sound as genuine to me as she thinks he is, and instead she thinks I'm hostile and hating because she sees this as a long term relationship moving forward...

 

[number21]

You lost op.

Just take your L and focus on protecting and raising your child.

 

[Womb Raider]

She sounds like a woman in her typical honeymooning phase. Maybe she’s never dealt with a man older than her and that’s got her head fukked up.

I definitely feel like the 41 year old just sees some new exploitable p*ssy. Think about it, what does he have to gain from a situation where the chick stays with her BD? Something he can exploit and walk away from the bullshyt in one piece

bruh I say this to you as someone who’s young but has soaked up a lot of game from personal experiences and my old heads, I wouldn’t even worry about it....just let it play out and prepare for her to come back with some type of sad story she should’ve seen coming don’t even tell her you told her so, just do you

 

[Take It In Blood]

GMB

 

[Jean Jacket]

What are you doing?

Move out, and move on with your life.

Bottom line... She is using you as an emotional kickstand.

You seem to enjoy the punishment.

I would rather sleep in my car, or with friends and family than cohabitate with a woman that's having sex with strange men.

Let her go.

 

[Wildhundreds]

He's just more stable than a younger dude. That's it..

He most likely going to pump and dump..

My question to you is, is your girl still active in the streets?

Does she like doing a lot of things?

If so, he'll get tired of her soon.

Breh 41, he dont have all that CONSTANT energy for a young woman.

 

[Willie]

Don’t even trip.

when she come back crying cuz the old head nikka ain’t bout shyt she’ll see.

Thing is.... chicks look at an older nikka and think they hit the lottery but don’t even ask themselves why hoes his age don’t want fukk with him lmaooooooo

My uncle is notorious for liking young bytches. Reputable street nikka where I’m from. But it’s only because they are easy to manipulate with a decent car, couple bags and a trip to Miami (where him and my pops are from). Hoes be going off the deep end. Mans did 19 years state time. These hoes be enamored by that shyt lmaoooooooo but a chick his age? Not even going. Don’t even have the time. But the young hoes is easy prey.

Sugar daddy culture is real and I’m pretty sure your girl fell into it. Play your part for your kid and ignore her bullshyt it’ll come back the way it’s supposed to

Godspeed young man. Cuz me? I would’ve moved out ASAP lol

 

[Wildhundreds]

Don’t even trip.

when she come back crying cuz the old head nikka ain’t bout shyt she’ll see.

Thing is.... chicks look at an older nikka and think they hit the lottery but don’t even ask themselves why hoes his age don’t want fukk with him lmaooooooo

My uncle is notorious for liking young bytches. Reputable street nikka where I’m from. But it’s only because they are easy to manipulate with a decent car, couple bags and a trip to Miami (where him and my pops are from). Hoes be going off the deep end. Mans did 19 years state time. These hoes be enamored by that shyt lmaoooooooo but a chick his age? Not even going. Don’t even have the time. But the young hoes is easy prey.

Sugar daddy culture is real and I’m pretty sure your girl fell into it. Play your part for your kid and ignore her bullshyt it’ll come back the way it’s supposed to

Godspeed young man. Cuz me? I would’ve moved out ASAP lol

Exactly..

Women like her will bring B.S back home to O.P..

 

[The ADD]

He just wants sex, pretty simple. There is no upside to the situation for him outside of that......

 

[Yinny]

I’m not sure your motives in being concerned about their relationship, I’m sure you don’t hate her but it’s not really your business.

Where you do fit in is wrt to y’all having a child together and whether she’ll be bringing him around, sounds like a yes.

I’d meet breh, see where his head is and be level with her about where the situation is going.

 

[invalid]

Are you still smashing?

If he's aware of you, then he just wants the p*ssy without any financial commitment.

He probably thinks that's what you are for.

Your baby mama probably loves the situation. Outside dikk with potential upside, at home dikk without any commitment plus financial support.

It looks like you're the only one taking the L. That's if you're still smashing.

 

[Doomsday]

She's just trying to make you mad homie.

And you're right, homie just wants to fukk. No real nikka is going to be in a serious relationship with a woman that still lives with her BD, who could possibly still have a hall pass.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Are you going to put the tv on while hes in the other smashing her?

 

[intruder]

I'm 41

I often meet a lot of young women in their 20s who are attracted to me. I used to wonder what they see in older men but I think I get it now. They want the stability off an older man. They THINK an older breh is less likely to cheat or if he had other women they're are some immature wild or disrespectful shyt he won't do like their younger counterparts.

Some older brehs i know are dating younger women and are serious about them. As in they date them seriously and might even marry'em and know if they have a kid together their seeds will have a young mother to look after them long after they themselves are gone. Some it's just another chick you fukking to pass the time. Every now and them you need that injection of youth into the roster as the older women on the roster start to get on your nerves with all their yapping and demands.

Personally, I've been fukking this 27 year old for over a year now. She was 26 when we met. Good p*ssy, head game on steroids, could ride a dikk like nothing I've ever seen, and has an IUD so I be skeeting all up in her.
I know I should know better... I knowBut she super fun and cute, tho. That's my little homey
Low maintenance, talks a lot but doesn't talk my ear off about bullshyt like most women my age. She's hilariously funny tho. and could easily be a standup comedian. She comes over. We fukk. She goes home. Sometimes she'll be stressed at her job and will tell me to stop by her job and get a blowjob in the parking lot. Every now and then we'll link up for drinks and/or dinner or something but no expectations of commitment and all that bullshyt. Doesnt make any demands. She just happy to hang and have fun. I am sure she probably fukking someone else but we never discuss it. + She's bisexual and very into women too.

But again, i love her because she's just a fun person to be around. Cusses like a sailor but will have you laughing from the minute she walks in the room until she grabs the dikk and puts it in her mouth. Really only way she shuts up.

 

[Mike Nasty]

My question is, what would a man want with a woman 16 years younger than him, who still lives with her kids father?

I can't think of a more gravy situation than that for someone in their 40s

I suspect even she knows he won't let her move in with him?