Question for those in interracial relationships

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I've dated a few white girls and each had a different look race when things happened.

I remember being in college and a white frat threw a blackface party and it was big story on campus at the time and later got attention from CNN. She saw nothing wrong with it, so I dropped the hoe and told her to kick rocks.

Another girl, I dated was the white girl version of Tim Wise. She knew and understood the black man's struggle more than most black woman and she was a real deal Dallas suburban becky.

Believe it or not a good number of black women don't truly understand the black man's struggle, that tells you that we as men have to rely more on each other when addressing our issues as black men (no frank ocean).

Regardless of who I decide to settle with, they must pass a racial issues litmus test because these issues will come up at some time or another. Whether it's moving to another neighborhood or city, discrimination you will face, racial charged issues and stories, raising kids, in laws, etc.

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I've dated a few white girls and each had a different look when things happened.

I remember being in college and a white frat threw a blackface party and it was big story on campus at the time and later got attention from CNN. She saw nothing wrong with it, so dropped the hoe and told her to kick rocks.

Another girl, I dated was the white girl version Tim Wise. She knew and understood the black man's struggle more than most black woman and she was real deal Dallas suburban becky.

Believe it or not a good number of black women don't truly understand the black man's struggle, that tells you that we as men have to really more on each other when addressing our issues as black men (no frank ocean).

Regardless of who I decide to settle with, they must pass a racial issues litmus test because these issues will come up and some time or another. Whether it's moving to another neighborhood or city, discrimination you will face, racial charged issues and stories, raising kids, in laws, etc.

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thats some real talk breh :salute:
 
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When social or racial issues come up in the media, does it ever lead to problems?

I always wondered that. I imagining myself, let say I was dating a white chick or married..and we at the dinner table, or let say we watchin the news about the trayvon martin case

and she said some sh!t like ":ehh: well he shouldnt of been wearing a hoody..."

Just because she's white doesn't mean she's gotta be ignorant. Especially if she's with me in the first place. Its impossible she'd be wifey status without having developed sensitivity to my perspective. If I had kids with this girl they wouldn't turn out white. Just by being with me she'd have to be a part of it.
 

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Most people who have successful interracial relationships can speak freely on race issues. They're well beyond the colors that separate them for anything like that to even be an issue.
 

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its not even like that. lol at talking about the news with your girl :russ:


who watches the fukking news. we aint 50 years old :scusthov:
 

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It's funny reading this thread and laughing at all the people who think that all white people are rich, live in the suburbs and can only see things from a white perspective.

It's really funny. :skip:
 

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cotdamn, ! was w!t a wh!te g!rl over 10 years so th!s !s !nterest!n me, ! gotta go to work so ! a!nt got t!me to f!n!sh read!n now... be back later.....
 

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Just because she's white doesn't mean she's gotta be ignorant. Especially if she's with me in the first place. Its impossible she'd be wifey status without having developed sensitivity to my perspective. If I had kids with this girl they wouldn't turn out white. Just by being with me she'd have to be a part of it.

That's real, especially if y'all have kids. Usually when biracial kids come in, she will be forced not to ignore the issues of race. Seen threads on city-data when white women with biracial kids ask people how her kids would be treated in a certain city if they move there. shyt gets real then.

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no race baiting :whoa:

this is actually a question ive always wanted to ask but never got around to it

When social or racial issues come up in the media, does it ever lead to problems?

I always wondered that. I imagining myself, let say I was dating a white chick or married..and we at the dinner table, or let say we watchin the news about the trayvon martin case

and she said some sh!t like ":ehh: well he shouldnt of been wearing a hoody..."

I might be liable to choke that b!tch on some

" :wtf: hoody?...hoody? he shouldnt been wearing a hoody?"

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actually i never ran into that problem but i knew her grandfather was racist and he told me that but he grew a liking to me cuz i was blunt with him and kept it 100%

and to this day me and him are on good terms even though im not with his grand daughter no more

his other grand daughter tried to do interracial he told her AINT HAPPENING UNLESS THEY LIKE ME LOL
 
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