Peter Popoff
PROTECT YA NECK!! ❤️🖤💚 🙏🏽
Pimping ya mama to cover her half of the bills on the side.
Question to men in relationships who split the bills with their girl
- Thread starter BrothaZay
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I’m convinced a lot of y’all don’t just not know any black people but you don’t know ANYBODY cause most folks are broke.
Bro .... If you're not in a position to take on financially responsibility for a family for Dolo. Then you need to either...
A) find a way
Or
B) Don't worry about getting no bytches
thelonious21
I like my women tall
Or.. don't get with a chic who lazy and knows mutha fukkas gotta get a fukking job and help with thise bills
Lol...Or.. don't get with a chic who lazy and knows mutha fukkas gotta get a fukking job and help with thise bills
Hawala Man
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My stats are from my personal experiences and real life observations.
The sample size is from 20 men I know (combination of siblings, coworkers and acquaintances) The one's who went 50/50 had wives/partners that outearned them as time progressed. The group still married pay either 80% or all of the bills and make much more than their wives/partners. There is a reason why finances can be one of the top 3 reasons why couples separate. Once you go 50/50 finances expect the bullshyt that comes with it. Your job as a man is to provide, protect and produce if you can't do any of the three best believe you will end up on the summer jam screen.
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Oh. I mean, I feel youTf is that supposed to mean? One of my grandmothers picked cotton and cleaned white folks houses. The other.... I'm not sure what she did, but she didn't work while raising... shyt, I lost count. Maybe 9-10 kids? SC, NC, and NY. My maternal grandmother was sexually abused in the workplace. My mother was consistently sexually harassed and then fired for not giving it up.
My man and I worked together for our first adult jobs, and he very much didn't like the energy my bosses were putting out. I didn't even notice- that's just how men act, ime. But he was appalled and started asking questions, of his mother, my mother, his aunt, etc. He didn't like the answers and decided to keep me home.
Maybe it's different elsewhere, where there isn't so much income inequality, where the rich don't feel entitled to you, but here, in this city, they think they deserve it. Esp as a black woman. My mother was the 'pretty black secretary,' so she was always put in the CEO's office. I, well- educated, ended up in those same offices through a different route. Maybe the class of wm has something to do with it.
That's true... but bm should still be aware of what their women face in these environments. If they think it's hard getting a dollar form the wm, what you think that man got your woman doing???
I have receipts I could show you @Gloxina, of people I know irl, well- to- do bp, where the wife was doing something strange that interrupted her marriage. You tell me.
It’s great that your hubby CARED ENOUGH TO ASK the women in the family about their experiences. Most men don’t and aren’t aware of what women really go through.
And I don’t doubt some of the wives may have done something wrong. I have to wonder, though, what their hubbies could have done as well lol
You in PA?
Chile.I can't believe you had to explain this
Exactly why you set your standards and keep them so you can avoid the foolishness.
Just WOW
JetFueledThoughts
Superstar
You can be ready to take on all financial responsibility, while still letting your women carry some weight if she can
Cool ...
Her carrying "her weight" could be taking care of home.
Raising your kids so strangers aren't raising them.
Teaching your kids, so they don't have to be in these bullshyt schools.
Making sure everything is taken care of to take stress off of u.
But nah, the reality is nikkaz want their women to work because they need her to help him live a certain lifestyle.
Smh.
I blame everybody.
I blame these nikkaz for not putting success before women.
And I blame women for not knowing their value
Illinois
Ah. Only asked because that sounds like PA’s new governor. I can definitely see him running for higher office down the line.
doublecheese
All Star
Damn what you do for work 6 fig breh ??
Most people dont even know about the jew wire....
The Men Who Fix Manhattan's Symbolic Shabbat Boundaries
Maintaining one very long wire that defines a holy space.
www.atlasobscura.com
Makes you think what else these jews got going on.