Questions for the NoFap experts

[El_Mero_Mero]

Just a couple of quick questions for the nofap experts/scientists.

If I'm not mistaken, the reasons to avoid fapping is because, if you do it, then you're not as hungry to approach women in the real world, and because once you do get a woman, if she doesn't meet the glamourous expectations that you saw in the porno videos then you won't be able to become erect. Is this correct?

My question here is what if you're just watching videos that are not some extreme level of gonzo porn. What if they're just videos of some regular sex moves that you already do anyway. Or just some random penis receiving head from a beautiful girl (you know, since many times the guys are not even in the camera shot). There's nothing that out-of-this-world about this. If it's just a regular girl giving regular head, then that can surely happen in your own life so it wouldn't be something so unbelievable.

Second question is, shouldn't a person fap anyway at least once a week for medical reasons, or at least twice a month? I don't have the figures on this, but I feel that any healthy male will do it or it'll just come out in some sort of wet dream, am I correct in this?

Not asking anyone to agree with me necessarily, just looking for some serious information that we can all use to better our lives.

 

[KneeGrow.]

Brother do you want laser vision or not

 

[King Khufu]

I believe it just takes dedication and discipline as well as a true genuine desire to look at things differently to not fall into bad habits.
In moderation though anything can be alright.
However if you have military or Buddhist ideologies along with an active lifestyle that trains your focus you won't want to do it as much because you learn how to use your urges differently when you are thinking.

 

[King Khufu]

A lot of people that fall into pornography addiction do so at a time when they are lonely and bored with not much to do.
Also having genuine conversations with people helps keep your head space in a positive way to view others.
Most times when I noticed that I'm lusting over someone I'm also mad at another person. Stress often will lead us to search out things that pretend to be gratifying but really just keep reinforcing the same cycle.

Is really not that hard to keep it in your pocket dude. Just letting you know that when you're looking for someone to field in those voids they won't only compliment what you can match out of yourself.
A wise motherfuker told me once that nikka you can only find yourself you can't look for the truth in not others without witnessing what's true for you no others truth may not be the same as yours but in the root of it all the truth stands as it is.

 

[King Khufu]

A lot of dudes out there tryna skeet to some porn or Internet chicks in general are not being very honest with themselves.
Just think about it like this would anybody want to shake your hand after that they know that you've been touching yourself dude? Get some class!
We're all hypocritical when it comes to our urges but those urges normally come from a deeper subconscious reaction more than instincts you will need

 

[010101]

for the cats without pumz on tap handle your business

nikkas is grown don't go through reverse puberty over nothing

ha

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[JackRoss]

I'm not a no fap expert but it sounds like you need to gouge your eyeballs out you perverted lustful, creep

 

[King Khufu]

OP needs counseling. You seriously got to stop looking at people in a bad light dude.

 

[El_Mero_Mero]

Just posting the question doesn't mean that it's "that deep" or "a problem". I was just asking in general. I appreciate the the replies though.