The point of OP's thread went over most people's head. Good music exists, you just have to go find it. OP's issue as with a lot Gen Z men, is that there's a feeling that good women that have mutual interest seemingly don't exist. I would say he just has to find them but I know that's exponentially harder than finding good music.
@Rozay Oro I have tons of love music, because if music is good and the content isn't too far fetched I'll rock with it. From Marvin to Miguel, Diana to D'Angelo, etc. I largely skip when it comes up unless I'm in a genuinely good mood or high. This is day 3 of a sobriety kick to keep my tolerance in check so there won't be much love/in live songs, may let the right heartbreak/jaded songs play though.
Composition/musical elements wise I like R&B, but I get what you mean in the sense that it's hard to relate to/fully enjoy a joint like "Forever My Lady" when it's more likely than not you won't find a woman. If you look into the artists lives these songs are a reflection of their lives at the moment. Most don't have one long enduring marriage. Many never had kids/settled down, or went through multiple marriages, etc. Hell a lot of the best songs in the genre were written by a songwriter and performed by completely different vocalist so the song isn't even
their experience or sentiments really.
You gotta learn how to ease people into some of these unknown artists.