Racially abused for her dark skin tone all her life, 31-year-old Detroit woman now models for new ma

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im not applying this to you fam, im answering the general question of fetishizing your own by race as a whole.

@bolded is what im trying to say and that if we ignore ethnicity you can fetishize your own. Thats All Im saying.

i have no issue if some brothas are like this with afro latino women either, so Im not shaming or hating. shyt a fine afro latino can have me:wow:

I'm just saying breh its hard to fetishize your own race/ethnic group. I only see that possible if a certain group in said race/ethnic group diverges far away from the "stereotypical" Black phenotype like Horn of Africans do. Anyways, with Afro-Latinos yea it can be fetish but I mostly see it as Black men finding them "exotical" like they do with other exoticals. Its known that when dating out that Black men(especially ADOS men) place "exoticals" over White women and other races of women. But dark skinned women being fetizhed? :heh: Yea maybe by some extreme litebrite Logic looking nikka. The only dark skinned women I can see being fetizhed by Black men are Nilotics/South Sudanese women and yet their skin tone is a bit different from other non-South Sudanese Black women and so are their features.
 

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She looks like plenty of round the way black women. Featurism is a thing too. Many people's idea of beauty is a white girl dipped in chocolate. Let's break down what it is that makes her ugly? I dont see ugly or masculine.




You don't but that doesn't mean other men don't. People don't like things. And that should be okay.
 

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nikkas on here simping.

she not a attractive lady.

it's not her skin tone that the issue she doesn't fit some view of pretty.

its many dark skin women that are beautiful and get simped on etc.

dont get me wrong anti darkness is a issue but not as much in this.

this is not colorism at all
nikka... She wouldn't be the standard of beauty in Jamaica, Haiti, Nigeria, Zimbabwe, Ethiopia, Ghana, Senegal, DR Congo or Kenya. All those majority Black countries.:heh: nikkas think capping will swim their way into some p*ssy. IG is filled with nikkas simping dark skinned one. lol.
 

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:ohhh:I remember that thread. Agreed. No one can tell you how to feel about yourself, using dark skin as cover for whatever you lack, is an excuse and giving power to their own insecurities. If people don't f with you, or like your outside attributes, then f them.
And like I posted before on that thread and I think I caught a few too, I'm posting this up again :stopitslime:
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Facts.:wow:

But elaborate on this "color complex, color conscious and colorism":ehh:
 

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To counter the talking point about colorism AND featurism, I'm going to leave these pics right here - one of my friends sent me this pic bc he said that the darker skinned little girl looked like me as a young child. No one can say that either one of these little girls are beautiful in their own rights and ways despite having totally different features. One of these little girls looks almost like me to a tee as a little girl, same complexion, same hair texture and it's not the light skinned one. :whistle:Who am I going to allow to check me for looking how I look :coffee: *message*

 

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Facts.:wow:

But elaborate on this "color complex, color conscious and colorism":ehh:
I got you, I'm going to need some time on that but I'll be back to explain. I have to think about how I want to elaborate on that.
 
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She's not attractive but yall straight up lying if you tell me she wasn't roasted for her skintone

Being ugly and dark-skinned as a woman is a double sentence
If you're still carrying over insults for elementary through high school, into adulthood- then you've got bigger issues and need to stay away from the internet until you get some of those built up negative influences resolved.

That chick was roasted bc she's ugly..stop. Even pretty people get roasted. Shyt we would call this light skinned girl, "Tweety Bird" bc she was tall, skinny and high yellow. I got called shirley temple bc of my curls and most of my cousins are light skinned to light medium complexion - so I took hits for looking "different" - people making assumptions etc. Everybody, and I mean everybody would catch one for some reason or another primarily in junior high - high school. Regardless of complexion, attractiveness, skin tone, ethnicity, cultural - if you lived in a black community or majority black school it was a right of passage. If you gave into that, you would get it even worse. Double sentence??? I prefer to be known as a triple threat- dark skinned, pretty and smart. This is real weak minded dissension rhetoric - if you have confidence and knowledge of self, none of that should affect you personally, I swear yall make excuses or have labels for everything.
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aint no one fetishizing white bytches nowadays like that, not by Black men not even by some White men they fetished like that.(yeah i know they white, but you still can do it. Like some BM fetishize certain groups of BW)

You can see this by what men go to trick or the women they have sex with out of seas. Black men go to where there is foreign black women(DR, Brazil, etc) some White guys def primary place is Asia and second Africa and other poor nonwhite countries to exploit, etc.

Some might like you got some rich arabs in dubai but they doin that for all Ig Thots of all colors.

Plus in this climate of "foreign" and exotic to? aint no one trying to feisthize a pasty white and espescially a red hair white bytch at that

Brehs don't because any western black man is gonna have access to any kind of pawg he wants. Even if you limit it to just WW that love brehs under 5'10" with glasses, there's still more than enough...like searching for corn in a cornfield.

WM will chase after ANYTHING. They will say "I only like XYZ" but as soon as the lights/camera are off, you could catch them going after literally any woman on earth.

Now every other kind of man besides WM and western-born brehs? They will go after WW like crazy. Indian, east Asian, Latino etc., love some blonde hair. They don't just want some olive-skinned Italian broad.....they want Daisy Duke herself. The only reason they hold back is because their women have more success dating IR. If you're losing the exchange war, you'll suddenly become anti-swirl. BW have generally pushed against IR more than BM because BM were more successful at it and it gave brehs more leverage. BW are starting to have more success dating IR and have (as expected) grown more comfortable with it. We all want to preserve our own options and leverage while making sure our counterparts can only shop at our store.
 

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"Featurism" is a thing now :dwillhuh::skip:??? wtf :mjlol:so now we're going to shame people into reasons they should or shouldn't like what physical qualities they find attractive in other people??have big expressive eyes, long noses, chubby cheeks..like whuttt?
some people don't know what the hell to do with themselves but complain. Wake up blogging or commenting about why people don't like you, why they should like you or what they don't like about you; picture me having a real life conversation with my friends about the complexities of featurism and telling people what preferences they should have or what they don't like. I don't even talk to or engage with people I don't like. Yall really have offline discussions about what random strangers think about features??
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Brehs don't because any western black man is gonna have access to any kind of pawg he wants. Even if you limit it to just WW that love brehs under 5'10" with glasses, there's still more than enough...like searching for corn in a cornfield.

WM will chase after ANYTHING. They will say "I only like XYZ" but as soon as the lights/camera are off, you could catch them going after literally any woman on earth.

Now every other kind of man besides WM and western-born brehs? They will go after WW like crazy. Indian, east Asian, Latino etc., love some blonde hair. They don't just want some olive-skinned Italian broad.....they want Daisy Duke herself. The only reason they hold back is because their women have more success dating IR. If you're losing the exchange war, you'll suddenly become anti-swirl. BW have generally pushed against IR more than BM because BM were more successful at it and it gave brehs more leverage. BW are starting to have more success dating IR and have (as expected) grown more comfortable with it. We all want to preserve our own options and leverage while making sure our counterparts can only shop at our store.
This dude. :mjlol::deadmanny:
wtf are you cactionalizing over there??
mannnnn just admit that you obsess over white girls, you want to surround yourself with white female company and you need an excuse or reason to date out. Fuk all that psychological statistical, mumbo jumbo. the majority of black women like me aren't thinking about fukking with any white men or embracing ir relationships; neither are the majority of black men. Just admit you like competing for white attention with other black women that do the same; your two types are bitter as fuk with your "blackness", don't fit it in bc you don't want to and leave all the "black people" generalizations the fuk out of this.
 

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on the coli no amount of abuse is too much for brightskin broads & nothing can be said about darkskin broads

colorism ain't a issue cats let the colorism fly everyday no problem

this is some bs folks let euros stick in they head

ugly is ugly fine is fine

& lady is hurt as fukk on top of being shloppy fat

stop scapegoating on her complexion

cause if she was brightskin with the same story nikkas would swear it's impossible

even though in the next breath they'll be letting off a whole clip of disrespect on brightskin folk

ha we need to put this colorism shyte in the grave already

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