Racially abused for her dark skin tone all her life, 31-year-old Detroit woman now models for new ma

[Cadillac]

Good points.

Plus, if we keep it 100.....white broads get fetishized the most. Every non-white dude will smash just because we wanna see some pink nipples and red/blond puzzy hairs. No inferiority complex, just a fetish nut we all try to get out our system.

aint no one fetishizing white bytches nowadays like that, not by Black men not even by some White men they fetished like that.(yeah i know they white, but you still can do it. Like some BM fetishize certain groups of BW)

You can see this by what men go to trick or the women they have sex with out of seas. Black men go to where there is foreign black women(DR, Brazil, etc) some White guys def primary place is Asia and second Africa and other poor nonwhite countries to exploit, etc.

Some might like you got some rich arabs in dubai but they doin that for all Ig Thots of all colors.

Plus in this climate of "foreign" and exotic to? aint no one trying to feisthize a pasty white and espescially a red hair white bytch at that

 

[Bawon Samedi]

Good points.

Plus, if we keep it 100.....white broads get fetishized the most. Every non-white dude will smash just because we wanna see some pink nipples and red/blond puzzy hairs. No inferiority complex, just a fetish nut we all try to get out our system.

I am dark skinned myself(a proud midnight nikka) and this is what "fetish" means.
a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.

How tf can I fetishize me or my girl? And Black men besides c00ns dont really fetishize white women.

 

[yardman]

Alright, let's be for real, okay? She's not attractive by any means. But even she if she was pretty her skin tone would still be a quip used against her. Due to the overarching tropes that are enmeshed with dark complexion not just here but around the world. Look how many "pretty" darker complected women get hit with the "you're pretty for a dark skin girl" line. I've seen ugly light skin women get a bly and hyped up solely based off the fact that they're complexion is fair. I'm sure the same thing can be said for lighter skin men. Colorism is on autopilot, the shyt is ubiquitous.​

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

here y’all go again pretending colorism isn’t real

There's a difference between colorism and being color conscious based on lack of self esteem. Kudos to her for embracing who she is, but let's not discount the fact that the first thing you notice about her is that she's not very attractive and morbidly obese, rather than her skin tone.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

here y’all go again pretending colorism isn’t real

and most of the comments from the men in here are complimenting her color, but not her face. But I'll let you continue with your narrative
Rather than accepting the fact that there's a difference between having a preference based on attributes and color coding.

 

[Cadillac]

I am dark skinned myself(a proud midnight nikka) and this is what "fetish" means.
a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.

How tf can I fetishize me or my girl? And Black men besides c00ns dont really fetishize white women.

tbf. there is a way you can fetishize women in your own race. like I said in my post above yours(this one) you have a case of a few brothas who can fetish Afro Latino women.

not saying you are, nor am i trying to entertain LSA reasoning. But it can happen where say a person has a fetish for women in his race. But I guess its less so about skin color(tho it may play a part, like some brothas who like Afro latinos because some can be lightskin) and more about nationality, hair, features etc.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Alright, let's be for real, okay? She's not attractive by any means. But even she if she was pretty her skin tone would still be a quip used against her. Due to the overarching tropes that are enmeshed with dark complexion not just here but around the world. Look how many "pretty" darker complected women get hit with the "you're pretty for a dark skin girl" line. I've seen ugly light skin women get a bly and hyped up solely based off the fact that they're complexion is fair. I'm sure the same thing can be said for lighter skin men. Colorism is on autopilot, the shyt is ubiquitous.​

and what's the endgame? keep worrying about what other people think or to think that you can force people into acceptance instead of boosting yourself and focusing on self empowerment/your own achievements and what your contributions? To distract yourself from focusing on your accomplishments? This isn't grade school, you can't force or shame people into what they've been indoctrinated to believe. All you're doing is giving power to the situation. You can waste time and be real with them, I'll continue to be realistic with myself.

 

[Bawon Samedi]

Pretty dark skinned women are not getting rejected in real life. But let the Coli broads and their male simps tell it... A Amara Le Negra is having a hard ass time finding a mate. Heck some dude was able to nut inside the chick in the OP for her to have five kids. "Colorism" in terms of dating mostly exists before college years. Most Black people mature and grow out of it after that. Any Black person especially male who still shyts on dark skinned women especially if they are pretty is either a c00n or gay.

 

[Bawon Samedi]

tbf. there is a way you can fetishize women in your own race. like I said in my post above yours(this one) you have a case of a few brothas who can fetish Afro Latino women.

Breh.... Come on. The "Afro-Latino" women Black men fetishize are usually the highly mixed ones like Dominicans. They unlike dark skin women are not as common in the Black community here in the USA. More importantly they are not even apart of the same ethnicity. lol. How can you fetishize dark skin when yourself is dark skinned and both you and your parents are?

not saying you are, nor am i trying to entertain LSA reasoning. But it can happen where say a person has a fetish for women in his race. But I guess its less so about skin color(tho it may play a part, like some brothas who like Afro latinos because some can be lightskin) and more about nationality, hair, features etc.

Afro-Latinos are exotic to the Black community. If anything it has more to do with them being a rarity.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Grown adults within our demographic don't know the difference between color complex, color conscious and colorism. Smh.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

I always wondered what it was about big noses that made them generally unattractive

That's not the problem - the nose doesn't fit the face, because the face doesn't fit the face.

 

[Cadillac]

Breh.... Come on. The "Afro-Latino" women Black men fetishize are usually the highly mixed ones like Dominicans. They unlike dark skin women are not as common in the Black community here in the USA. More importantly they are not even apart of the same ethnicity. lol. How can you fetishize dark skin when yourself is dark skinned and both you and your parents are?



Afro-Latinos are exotic to the Black community. If anything it has more to do with them being a rarity.

im not applying this to you fam, im answering the general question of fetishizing your own by race as a whole.

@bolded is what im trying to say and that if we ignore ethnicity you can fetishize your own. Thats All Im saying.

i have no issue if some brothas are like this with afro latino women either, so Im not shaming or hating. shyt a fine afro latino can have me

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

People coming in the thread talking about colorism - acting like there is not a night and day difference between a face like Leslie Jones (on the left) and the other woman in this photo seeing as they are the same complexion. One is more attractive, the other one is not. That has nothing to do with no "dark skinned" conflict. This is not a debate. The woman on the right is visually more pleasant looking - they have the same exact complexion.

 

[BigMan]

She looks like plenty of round the way black women. Featurism is a thing too. Many people's idea of beauty is a white girl dipped in chocolate. Let's break down what it is that makes her ugly? I dont see ugly or masculine.

what would you, a woman, consider as "ugly" or "masculine"?

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

I remember me and the homie @Hennessypapi saying this a while back and we caught all type of flacks for it smdh. Ugly hoes need to stop using "dark skin" as a shield to hide away from the reality that they are just UGLY. We also said pretty dark skin chicks while they do face SOME colorism don't have this issue. I don't care if I get negged or get called a c00n this nonsense needs to stop. Ugly hoes are downgrading dark skin women by doing this.

I remember that thread. Agreed. No one can tell you how to feel about yourself, using dark skin as cover for whatever you lack, is an excuse and giving power to their own insecurities. If people don't f with you, or like your outside attributes, then f them.
And like I posted before on that thread and I think I caught a few too, I'm posting this up again