ol only a real man will raise a b*stard child emasculated simp
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Raising Another Man's Child
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ol only a real man will raise a b*stard child emasculated simp
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Tommy Knocks
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all these people talkin about "DONT YOU RAISE ANOTHER MAN KIDS"
but let that be your kid, and this nikka is taking care of your child, feeding him/her, posting up family photos, making your daughter smile, going to your sons games, raising that lil nikka better than you, got the lil nikka calling HIM dad, when he graduate his acceptance speech is shouting HIM out, making you look like a dead beat dad, watch how upset you'd be.
we have too many black children being raised without father figures. Raising that child is doing a service to our community in all honesty. Wish more men would step it up.
The Black community is lacking terribly.
but let that be your kid, and this nikka is taking care of your child, feeding him/her, posting up family photos, making your daughter smile, going to your sons games, raising that lil nikka better than you, got the lil nikka calling HIM dad, when he graduate his acceptance speech is shouting HIM out, making you look like a dead beat dad, watch how upset you'd be.
we have too many black children being raised without father figures. Raising that child is doing a service to our community in all honesty. Wish more men would step it up.
The Black community is lacking terribly.
Tommy Knocks
retired
actually it's about 50/50. those stats are lookin
also, you can't help who you fall in love with and if she so happens to have a child, who the fukk cares.
Are you trying to say that you'd plant seed, then if it doesnt work....it should be over for her? She shouldn't find a man, and should just live the rest of her life raising your child alone in the cold?
Yea sounds about right, plant seeds, fukk up 2 lives and keep it pushing and no man should be taking care of either. *black mans leadership in full effect*
not wanting to wife up damaged goods and spend our hard earned money on another man's child is immature now? You must be the product of a single mother.
Raised by both west Indians parents.... are u guilty? U feel my post was directed at you?
u go in there and fukk, suck and the duck... its not your job to raise another man's kid..
things are different in 2013, maybe 20, 30 years ago i would say yeah, but these broads today are on another level
things are different in 2013, maybe 20, 30 years ago i would say yeah, but these broads today are on another level
Malik
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Don't fatten frogs to feed snakes breh.No matter what you think or do....he will be able to slide in and out of yall life (and her vagina) whenever he feels like it.
Ask yourself how it will feel if you raise that seed most of its life and then suddenly dude wants to "have a relationship". You gonna be sitting at graduation party with 3 people at the parent's table. How that either gonna burn when the seed says "I wanna thank my two dads" even though you did most of the work?.
Damn, i felt that ether on that one
Malik
Superstar
actually it's about 50/50. those stats are lookin
also, you can't help who you fall in love with and if she so happens to have a child, who the fukk cares.
Are you trying to say that you'd plant seed, then if it doesnt work....it should be over for her? She shouldn't find a man, and should just live the rest of her life raising your child alone in the cold?
Yea sounds about right, plant seeds, fukk up 2 lives and keep it pushing and no man should be taking care of either. *black mans leadership in full effect*
Not our problem
And before you start talking about black men not being responsible, look at how men in other cultures feel about the bolded.
There is only one question you ned to ask yourself, and that is are you 110% ready and willing to deal with the things that come with seriously dating someone with a child. I've been in that situation and for me the answer was no. Some things to consider:
- You will NEVER be #1 . If she is a real mother, the child will always be first in her life. Are you prepared to take a back seat to a child thats not yours?
- The father will always have a presence. How much or how little will be on him and impossible to determine for the future, but when two people make a baby, they are connected forever.
- You very well might have to deal with the "you aint my real daddy" thing from time to time.
- Dont get it twisted, the situation will call for some financial participation on your part.
Just remember this is a PACKAGE deal. You cant look at the chick and the kid separately. I will say though if none of that bothers you, then dont look at it as "raising another man's child", just look at it as raising a child.
- You will NEVER be #1 . If she is a real mother, the child will always be first in her life. Are you prepared to take a back seat to a child thats not yours?
- The father will always have a presence. How much or how little will be on him and impossible to determine for the future, but when two people make a baby, they are connected forever.
- You very well might have to deal with the "you aint my real daddy" thing from time to time.
- Dont get it twisted, the situation will call for some financial participation on your part.
Just remember this is a PACKAGE deal. You cant look at the chick and the kid separately. I will say though if none of that bothers you, then dont look at it as "raising another man's child", just look at it as raising a child.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Do whatever you wanna do its your life. Only YOU know whats best for you. However the fact that she is PRESSURING you to shack up is a red flag. She shouldnt be PRESSURING you at all.
Tommy Knocks
retired
Not our problem
And before you start talking about black men not being responsible, look at how men in other cultures feel about the bolded.
I've never heard of white men (who pretty much have the strongest sense of community) having a problem raising other women's kids tho. They even have tv shows based around it....like the Brady Bunch.
"not our problem" .....that's exactly what the problem is, and why black men are looked down upon, and seen as unfit to lead a household let alone a community, let alone a successful country. That ol saying "Once you go black, you're going to be a single mother" rings a bell.
That's why a lot of men reading this right now don't have any fathers figures. Because some bytch ass nikka was talkin about "that's not my problem".
I think the OP should take advice from people over 28. if you're listening to a 21 year olds advice on this matter......lol.
and nikkas talkin about "the BD can slide back in whenever he wants" when did yall dad ever come back to do that?
actually it's about 50/50. those stats are lookin
also, you can't help who you fall in love with and if she so happens to have a child, who the fukk cares.
Are you trying to say that you'd plant seed, then if it doesnt work....it should be over for her? She shouldn't find a man, and should just live the rest of her life raising your child alone in the cold?
Yea sounds about right, plant seeds, fukk up 2 lives and keep it pushing and no man should be taking care of either. *black mans leadership in full effect*
the highest rate of molestation is between step daddies/mommy boyfriends and their kids so yes, if it doesnt work out it should be over for her.
Tommy Knocks
retired
by that logic most criminals should remain in jail for life because the highest percentage of people in jail are second offenders.
I've never heard of white men (who pretty much have the strongest sense of community) having a problem raising other women's kids tho. They even have tv shows based around it....like the Brady Bunch.
"not our problem" .....that's exactly what the problem is, and why black men are looked down upon, and seen as unfit to lead a household let alone a community, let alone a successful country. That ol saying "Once you go black, you're going to be a single mother" rings a bell.
That's why a lot of men reading this right now don't have any fathers figures. Because some bytch ass nikka was talkin about "that's not my problem".
I think the OP should take advice from people over 28. if you're listening to a 21 year olds advice on this matter......lol.
and nikkas talkin about "the BD can slide back in whenever he wants" when did yall dad ever come back to do that?
yeah lets all listen to the black man in china dating the shin meys and fei langs
1.brady bunch was a blended family, it wasnt some simp wifing a single mom, it was a man with his own 3 kids marrying a chick with her own 3 kids.
2. black men are looked down upon where? black women are the ones sleeping with tavarias and quintarious, you dont see jamal in it, or raymond aspiring engineer deserting their seeds
3. Its not my problem, chicks popping kids out of wedlock and because im a black man i have to step p to the plate for the community
let that nygga be in the system in 10-15 years aint my son4. the majority of baby fathers that are in the picture even if they see their squirt once a month, are getting in that punani, majority of single moms deep down dream of a family with the nikka who bust in them raw.
every black man in this thread
watch this and learn
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by that logic most criminals should remain in jail for life because the highest percentage of people in jail are second offenders.
i agree they should
