There really needs to be some awareness that happens for us as a people. A Mexican talks about how he will use the NWord when ever he wants. The first inclination of too many of you is to turn your ire towards our own people. We have a problem with misplacing our anger in the Black Community. We are quick to focus it inward, instead of out towards the ones who are actually commiting the offense. So the person who should be receiving all of the smoke is the Mexican using the Nword.
As for the Nword, the best way to stop it from being used by others is to stop using it ourselves. It does not matter how you want to spell it, it almost invariably is used negatively towards another Black man. For some reason, so many of you hold on desparately to using that insult, because yes it is used as mainly an insult, towards each other. Then you want to waste energy trying to stop everyone else from using a word, that we so freely use on ourselves. The simple truth is the world does not work that way.
For example:
If you call yourself an idiot enough times, the rest of the world will start calling you one too. Then you set there and waste your time trying to police their use of the word that you are using on yourself. A pure waste of effort and time.