Rare? Are black chicks really treating dudes that bad out here?
It all comes down to how the woman perceives you and your value. If she perceives you to be high value, then she will go out of her way to make an impression on you. Why? Because you're a catch in her eyes. She'll be at your crib cooking dinner, baking desserts and washing dishes before she's even gets a title.
But if she perceives you to just be another dude, then she won't be going out of her way. In fact, you'll have to go out of your way to make an impression on her, so that she will not give you the "busy" excuses whenever you try to get a date with her...oh, and you going to be paying for every date too.
Peace