Real nikkaz Ain't Scared Of GettingMarriedBreh

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Stop using the term "real nikkaz" to paraphrase some dumb shyt. It's like saying yeah I know I'm fukking up but I'm willing to holding this L with pride.

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I also know people with great relationships married and unmarried but they are the exception not the rule.
 

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OP are u even married?

Thats irrelevant..

My ex uncle:bryan:

Co workers

And loads of people I knew in the military

If u dont got shyt theyll take that too

Ok so you don't want to get married because you believe you'll fail at it like your uncle and soldier buddies.. I understand.


if you need a title and ceremony to achieve that then its bullshyt :yeshrug: being legally married, buying rings, doing the wedding song and dance is not a necessity to a strong, committed, exclusive relationship

if you want to do that for the sake of tradition by all means go ahead and i'm not knocking anyone who does - but its not unlocking hidden chakra to make people more enthusiastic to one another. that's where people keep fukking up. its not necessary nor does it inherently add value or significance to something that didn't already have it


It does exactly that. It adds value and significance to the relationship to the one you love and want to commit yourself to.. Even on a legal level.
 

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Thats irrelevant...


It is. Dont tell us to do some shyt u wont do urself.

Aint u in ur 30s? Why aint u married yet?:russ:


Fam, im not a big fan of single mothers but ima tell u like I tell dudes who date them. Do what u want. Thats ur choice and ill respect it. Im not losing sleep over it. Alotta us dont wanna get married and thats our choice. I dont understand why it matters to u this much especially when ur not even married urself.
 

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Being committed to a woman is not my beef with marriage

The idea our relationship isn't real unless it has outside validation is

The idea of building a future with someone who doesn't consider our Love real unless it's validated by a piece of paper/other people/the government is dangerous and downright scary
 

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Thats irrelevant..



Ok so you don't want to get married because you believe you'll fail at it like your uncle and soldier buddies.. I understand.





It does exactly that. It adds value and significance to the relationship to the one you love and want to commit yourself to.. Even on a legal level.
if it took a title to do that to your relationship then what were you doing before? floating around waiting for hints on how to be more committed or something?

i'll never get this kinda thing regarding marriage. a ring doesn't make you love someone more and if its the catalyst you needed then you weren't even trying to be on the level in the first place. it shouldn't take coordinated song and dance combined with government intrusion to convince you of your emotional investment. if it did? cool. but it shouldn't have :ufdup:
 

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Get conned out of everything thing you earned and worked for in the name of seriousness brehs
This is why you marry a woman with more money than you :manny:

Every happy marriage I know has a woman who makes serious bread. Every miserable one I know is built around that male breadwinner bullshyt. It's 2018, most divorces stem from money issues, being broke is stressful, marry a woman who will help you secure the bag.
 

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It is. Dont tell us to do some shyt u wont do urself.

Aint u in ur 30s? Why aint u married yet?:russ:


Fam, im not a big fan of single mothers but ima tell u like I tell dudes who date them. Do what u want. Thats ur choice and ill respect it. Im not losing sleep over it. Alotta us dont wanna get married and thats our choice. I dont understand why it matters to u this much especially when ur not even married urself.

That nikka said I'm not a fan of single moms :pachaha: the fukk does that have to do what we talkin about..


Y'all nikkaz man :snoop:
 
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